Bob, your posts makes no sense whatsoever. In what way can killing women for not doing as they are told not be about controlling and oppressing women?
You state that "It's about human interaction..." and then go on to say "Human interaction and what is and isn't acceptable is a cornerstone of civilisation. Discard the rules controlling it completely and what you're left with is anarchy."
Your argument seems to imply that without rules (even if they invlove slaughtering women) we end up with anarchy. Frankly, I would choosen anarchy.