Hi JennyPenny, Snorris & Sparkypup
Fuzzy, the reasons for the Oat so simple may seem kind of strange to some but I will explain
On Thursday it was the anniversary of a friend's death & I wanted to take flowers to her grave..she's been gone 17 years & it seems like yesterday, I adored her. She was my mum's best friend & my mum had 8 children, she had none, so it made sense for her 'mother' myself & my younger sister..she give us everything, took us everywhere, it even got to the stage that when people mistook me for her daughter neither she or me corrected them. Anyway, she got ill and deteriorated quite rapidly, it broke my heart.
(Yes...I do tend to waffle, don't I!!) Her grave is about 30 miles away from where I live now, in the village I grew up in. I finished work at 6, drove home, picked up my 2 kids & headed for her grave. I stopped at my younger sister's on the way as I knew she'd be having as hard a day as me.. I stayed there about an hour then we both went to the grave. (I was offered dinner at my sister's house but it wasn't sw friendly so I said I had eaten at lunchtime!)
Afterwards I visited my mum who lives about 5 miles further from the graveyard.. she is on tablets for depression & I was stunned to see her the way she was. (she too offered me tea, which I accepted, and toasted muffins with jam which I declined & said I had eaten at lunchtime....)
So I stayed with her until about 9.30pm then headed home, arriving home at about 10.10pm. By that time I didn't want anything much to eat, I was upset at DH as I wanted him to come with me to my mum's but he had already made plans (he always plays footie on a Thursday night, so he wasn't being awkward, I just didn't explain very well to him that I was dreading seeing my mum.)
Anyway, did OK Friday lunchtime, but I had visitors on Friday evening... and dh & I still hadn't talked about Thursday evening... the kids had dinner early before I came home from work & dh had a late lunch so wasn't really hungry. Our visitors didn't go home until way after 9pm & by that time I just wasn't going to start cooking...dh got a take away & I had a bowl of oat so simple & toddled off to bed.....
Did much better yesterday though!! Had bacon for breakfast, followed by a bowl of banana, strawbs & pineapple, then snacks of a pear & a plum.
Had a steak for dinner, with boiled potatoes & carrots & brocolli, with mushrooms & onions & pepper sauce..... and one glass of rose wine (Anyone know syns for wine?)
Today has been OK too..had scrambled egg with 2 nimble (HEb) for brunch. Having silverside roast beef for dinner, with pots sw roast pots & veg...maybe followed with a scoop of ice-cream!