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A space to talk openly about weight loss journeys and challenges. Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. You may wish to speak to a medical professional before starting any diet.

Why are you not taking WLI?

225 replies

Pronkey · 16/01/2026 12:18

First of all I do not look down on WLI. In fact I possibly regret not going on them as my weight loss has been very very slow (50 pounds in 18 months). With plenty of step backs after holidays, Christmas etc. I must have lost the same 7 pounds at least three times.

But I chose not to go on them as I have had horrific gallstones ever since my last pregnancy and just could not risk it after they finally went away.

My cravings have definitely reduced since I have made diet and lifestyle changes. Was living off and craving pasta before my weight loss journey. And now I can definitely take it or leave it.

Just curious to hear why you didn’t go down the WLI route?

OP posts:
Mosssy · 18/01/2026 21:02

LindorDoubleChoc · 18/01/2026 20:53

Obviously not invitation only but also - OBVIOUSLY - no one is asking a thin person why they aren't taking WLI. So why are you answering? It's just a dick move.

If I saw a thread title "Women over 5'4" do you ..." or "Parents of toddlers would you ..." or "If you're in your 30s have you ..." I wouldn't answer because these questions don't apply to me and no one cares what I answer because I wasn't asked.

Do you see?

Yeah i noticed lots of 'im not fat enough' smug replies 😂😂 but then you get people like that even on black mumsnetters for example and people who don't apply to the question or topic insert themselves into it.

OutOfVecnasReach · 18/01/2026 21:18

Simply can’t afford them. When/If they drop in price I will be one of the first in the queue!

Daisywhatsyouranswer · 18/01/2026 21:24

LindorDoubleChoc · 18/01/2026 20:53

Obviously not invitation only but also - OBVIOUSLY - no one is asking a thin person why they aren't taking WLI. So why are you answering? It's just a dick move.

If I saw a thread title "Women over 5'4" do you ..." or "Parents of toddlers would you ..." or "If you're in your 30s have you ..." I wouldn't answer because these questions don't apply to me and no one cares what I answer because I wasn't asked.

Do you see?

But it’s the same on weight loss thread, where people on them are asked a question and people not on them rush on and post misinformation.

Passingthrough123 · 18/01/2026 21:29

Laughing at the double standards of WLI users complaining people who wouldn't qualify for WLI have dared to answer the OP. Surely the same applies to you? The OP clearly asks "why are you not on WLI?" and there's been a rush of posters saying "Oh but here's why you should take them!"

Daisywhatsyouranswer · 18/01/2026 21:34

Passingthrough123 · 18/01/2026 21:29

Laughing at the double standards of WLI users complaining people who wouldn't qualify for WLI have dared to answer the OP. Surely the same applies to you? The OP clearly asks "why are you not on WLI?" and there's been a rush of posters saying "Oh but here's why you should take them!"

Is someone complaining?

Passingthrough123 · 18/01/2026 21:37

Daisywhatsyouranswer · 18/01/2026 21:34

Is someone complaining?

But it’s the same on weight loss thread, where people on them are asked a question and people not on them rush on and post misinformation.

Sounds complainy to me.

SpringBulbsPop · 19/01/2026 09:16

It’s clearly irrelevant if you have no weight to lose! 🙄

Daisywhatsyouranswer · 19/01/2026 09:29

Passingthrough123 · 18/01/2026 21:37

But it’s the same on weight loss thread, where people on them are asked a question and people not on them rush on and post misinformation.

Sounds complainy to me.

It’s a statement of fact. In the English language a complaint is an expression of dissatisfaction.

so for example, I’m really pissed off people not on the injections post giving mis information on them. Thays a complaint.

my statement” “But it’s the same on weight loss thread, where people on them are asked a question and people not on them rush on and post misinformation.”

expresses no dissatisfaction, it is simply a factual statement, and as such, doesn’t even come close to the definition of a complaint.

MrTiddlesTheCat · 19/01/2026 16:01

OutOfVecnasReach · 18/01/2026 21:18

Simply can’t afford them. When/If they drop in price I will be one of the first in the queue!

Can I ask how that makes you feel? I'm genuinely interested as I'm quite passionate about people not having the same access to healthcare as others because of finances. Whether that be WLIs, dentistry, counselling, or whatever else so many are blocked from.

LeftoversAgain · 19/01/2026 23:00

Risk of side effects : friends i know were so ill with nausea, men developing BO, weight coming back on with all of those who lost.

I have a friend obsessed with any latest fad so she really was keen to jab, but even she suffered hair loss, and was exhausted and nauseous. I was surprised when she said she wasn't going to use them anymore.

I think sods law, ill have side effects, and I refuse to risk this.

Languish · 21/01/2026 09:27

I used to take them, I stopped them due to side effects that wasn’t worth it, made my life miserable and was having gallstone issues

I don’t have much weight to lose now so I would no longer qualify but the horrible side effects I experienced are my main motivation not to regain weight as I couldn’t face taking them again in all honesty but they did help me lose weight and I was envious of those who didn’t suffer gastrically as they do work

I browse the WL chat forum as a ‘thinner person’ as a former obese person because every day is still a struggle in terms of weight gain, it fluctuates and I still need to work very hard and keep motivated

Crikeyalmighty · 21/01/2026 20:34

LeftoversAgain · 19/01/2026 23:00

Risk of side effects : friends i know were so ill with nausea, men developing BO, weight coming back on with all of those who lost.

I have a friend obsessed with any latest fad so she really was keen to jab, but even she suffered hair loss, and was exhausted and nauseous. I was surprised when she said she wasn't going to use them anymore.

I think sods law, ill have side effects, and I refuse to risk this.

I felt shit too , even eating very well indeed - tons of heartburn even eating blandly , so did 5 weeks and stopped- I have kept up the principles though and so far am 15kg down but taken 9 months so far

Nothungrycat · 31/01/2026 09:32

I met someone last night who had started on them as she needs to lose quite a big chunk of weight so that she can have hip replacement surgery which she wants to have quite quickly as she's in a lot of pain. I thought that made perfect sense for her. I also need to lose quite a lot of weight because I'm obese and pre-diabetic and really don't want to go further down that route. However I'm not going on them as I know I can lose weight without the drugs - I've done so before. The challenge for me, as for so many people, is keeping it off, and I would like to find a way of doing so, which doesn't involve long-term medication.

brunetteorblonde · 31/01/2026 18:45

My father died of pancreatic cancer at a young age, so I just don't want to do anything that may increase my risk, I think if it wasn't for that I might have tried them but not certain.

sharkyroy · 31/01/2026 22:00

brunetteorblonde · 31/01/2026 18:45

My father died of pancreatic cancer at a young age, so I just don't want to do anything that may increase my risk, I think if it wasn't for that I might have tried them but not certain.

Being obese increases the risk of pancreatic cancer. I didn’t know WLI also did, I wonder which risk is bigger?

Daisywhatsyouranswer · 31/01/2026 22:26

sharkyroy · 31/01/2026 22:00

Being obese increases the risk of pancreatic cancer. I didn’t know WLI also did, I wonder which risk is bigger?

From what I understand it was found in very early trials on mice about 35 years ago, but the drug tweaked and it not seen again, but has to go on the box,

considering glp’s have been in use for over 20 years globally and did 15 in trials, there doesn’t seem to be any reports of pancreatic cancer increases coming out of any country,

Alltheyellowbirds · 31/01/2026 23:37

sharkyroy · 31/01/2026 22:00

Being obese increases the risk of pancreatic cancer. I didn’t know WLI also did, I wonder which risk is bigger?

I didn’t know either so just looked it up. Seems that pancreatitis increases the risk of pancreatic cancer, so I guess the logic is that WLI increases the risk of pancreatitis thereby increasing the risk of pancreatic cancer.

Hihibye · 01/02/2026 00:04

mondaytosunday · 17/01/2026 17:51

I’m a type 1 diabetic and it’s not approved for people with that.

Ps...I'm type 1 and take insulin been with the family chemist for 12 months lost 7 stone. I just had to submit a letter from my gp amd they approved.

Disturbia81 · 01/02/2026 10:17

Nothungrycat · 31/01/2026 09:32

I met someone last night who had started on them as she needs to lose quite a big chunk of weight so that she can have hip replacement surgery which she wants to have quite quickly as she's in a lot of pain. I thought that made perfect sense for her. I also need to lose quite a lot of weight because I'm obese and pre-diabetic and really don't want to go further down that route. However I'm not going on them as I know I can lose weight without the drugs - I've done so before. The challenge for me, as for so many people, is keeping it off, and I would like to find a way of doing so, which doesn't involve long-term medication.

You can do it. I lost 9 stone and have kept it off for 7 years. And I’m a binge eater! Something that has worked for me is think of your favourite things/weaknesses and replace with something similar but healthy. One of mine is chocolate.. I used to deny myself chocolate when following a healthy plan as thought you had to. Then of course fell off the wagon eventually as I craved it. So I found some nice protein bars and shakes that are chocolate flavoured, and that satisfies me and stops me having a binge.

Alltheyellowbirds · 01/02/2026 10:19

@Disturbia81 That's amazing! Any other tips on how you lost the weight?

ShawnaMacallister · 01/02/2026 10:39

ohyesido · 16/01/2026 19:08

The question was asked, and I answered it

Obviously the question was aimed at overweight people who might consider taking WLI - wondering what stopped them. Why on earth would your opinion as a thin person be of interest to anyone?

ShawnaMacallister · 01/02/2026 10:42

NonComm · 16/01/2026 19:14

@Herewegoagainandagainandagain

‘Your eye consultants opinion is an opinion in a field they are not specialists in.’

I’m going to side with my eye consultant the eye specialist who is seeing a marked increase in eye problems from these drugs. As I said, she is also very concerned about the lack of long term research, including on eye conditions. I agree that people can measure their own risks, but I would not risk my eyesight.

It's only semaglutide that may be associated with increased risk of vision problems, not tirzepatide

ShawnaMacallister · 01/02/2026 11:42

sharkyroy · 17/01/2026 05:10

I’m interested to know why this happens. My weight loss has been slow, eating a healthy balanced diet, but n fast I do exactly as I have any other time I have lost weight, WLI just help me do better able to do it: o wonder why that would mean o lose more muscle this time around then any other time?

No it won't. I've lost 3.5 stone over the period of using WLI and 2.5 stone in 18 months on Mounjaro. I work out twice a week including weight training and I'm pretty muscular. Never gone over a 500 calorie daily deficit. Of course I lost some muscle along the way as it inevitable when you lose weight but if you do it mindfully there is no reason you should lose any more muscle than any other method of weight loss

ShawnaMacallister · 01/02/2026 11:45

MuckyBrass · 17/01/2026 06:02

Quite interesting that so many people taking WLI have come into this thread to try to persuade other people that they’re fine. Not what the OP asked. They obviously have lots of upsides and if you want to take them, go for it, and think whatever you need to think to justify it to yourself, but it’s not your job to recruit other people who have already decided they don’t want them. The drug companies aren’t paying you to promote them. It comes across as a bit sinister really

WLI have been such a net positive for so many people it's hard to resist trying to share that especially when people are worried unnecessarily - lots of people think they will lose their enjoyment of food, or think it won't work for them because they are emotional eaters, or they are NOT emotional eaters eaters or whatever. When you have first hand experience of something being so amazing and life changing you want to share that. It's hardly sinister.

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