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LOSE IT! January 2022

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TheRealHousewife · 28/12/2021 17:58

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2022 🍾 🎊 🎉 🍾

Fresh new year, fresh new start, fresh new habits. Jump right in to reset & refresh to become a healthier version of yourself.

As no one size fits all, members need to follow their own way of eating. This thread aims to offer guidance, support and a bit of hand holding.

We generally have WOW (weigh on Wednesday) day each week. However post and share your progress as often or as little as you prefer. Do what works for you.

The important thing is not to think of it as a diet (based on deprivation and unsustainable) but more a way of life (sustainable & enjoyable).

I calorie count based on a lower carb Mediterranean diet. I intermittent fasting and eat twice a day.

Are you in😊 What food plan will you be following? What do you want to change and why?

Useful Link - more to follow

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Graphista · 09/01/2022 12:39

I'm Waaay behind on the thread!

WAS gonna scan the thread but not do my normal posting style at this point as the response would be a flipping essay! Failed! 😂

Over December I've basically been eating what I like but mostly keeping to what I was eating when on plan with some additions.

I've been weighing and not gained loads thankfully

Feel like I've forgotten EVERYTHING

Tesco coming today and I'm gonna scan through my old food diaries (I used numbers spreadsheet app on phone as I used cals counting and so I had equations set up to tot up the cals per day and deduct that amount from my max limit - helped me plan meals and snacks)

Are you in😊 What food plan will you be following? What do you want to change and why?

I'm in!

I'm calorie counting but I also use tips and tricks from back when I did ww (eg my patented seasoned carrot sticks ) basically more veg than anything else, next is protein and then a sensible portion of carbs and minimal high cal extras is the way I tend to do it.

Very rare I have breakfast it's usually a lunch/lighter meal and one main meal a day rarely a snack too

I want to not only weigh less but reduce fat around my middle, I am aiming to be a healthy weight by the time I hit the big 5-0 in the summer.

WAVES to fellow 1972 born fellow "lose its-ers" there were a good few of us on the other threads! And I think more on this one

Health was my initial motivation but I have to admit I am also enjoying looking better, having more energy and being able to fit in smaller clothes!!

BIG WELCOME to all the newbies. This is a GREAT positive and supportive thread

BIG HELLO to the regulars

Looking forward to getting back in the swing of things!

Graphista · 09/01/2022 12:40

I've treated myself to a new microwave (combo of sale and nectar points!) then got a multi-steamer, egg poacher and wee saucepan and soup mug thingy. Healthy/low cal Microwave ideas most welcome!

I was on 1400 cals a day, which according to nhs bmi calculator is a little under what's recommended (only by 15 cals) but I figure a kick start can't hurt

I had lost around 1.5 stone, I've gained 4/5lbs and still have at least 3 stone 2lbs to lose

Will do a measurement later too as not done that in while - sometimes no loss on scales but loss in inches

Happy to be in the 🐢 club - slow and steady wins the race! A loss is a loss and is in the right direction no matter the rate! So you're NOT the only one @SunshineCake1

I record my weigh ins on "happy scale" app as you get a nice wee graph showing it all going down! (Mostly!)

I also like this :

modelmydiet.com/women.html?cb=197360262149

Graphista · 09/01/2022 12:42

My personal tips are:

1 Don't cut something out/down without replacing it - there's a number of theories on this but I've just found that it's basically impossible to totally change my eating habits/times so rather than try - and fail! I do swaps!

Seasoned carrot batons or other crudite style veggies for crisps - gives you the crunchy salty hit without the starch and fat

Tesco reduced fat hummus stacker (3 small portions so make it easy to have a small portion without weighing/measuring)

Lower cal cakes/biscuits/choc/dessert m items - my personal faves are soreen mini loaves. Ww choc caramel biscuits, activia yogurts, muller light choc layer desserts, malted milk biscuits (in moderation!), tunnocks teacakes (if you can get them)

McCain frozen jacket spuds instead of oven chips

2 plan, weigh and measure - yea it's boring but it keeps you on track and honest!

3 identify WHY you eat too much/less healthily and come up with remedies for these

For me it's a combination of Mh issues impact my motivation to cook far too often, so I've found ways to have quick easy meals that are low cal and healthy/more nutritious. And boredom - I need to keep my hands and mind occupied! So this past year I've returned to cross stitching and I've also got myself some crochet needles (which I've yet to learn how to do! I do prefer the cross stitch!) and puzzle books - as opposed to apps which can be done one handed while eating!!

4 Find a way of exercising/being more active that works for you -

Something I still struggle with

I'm disabled but I'm planning to be much better doing my physio (which I can be lax on) and also following a recommendation on previous threads (sorry I forget who recommended) this YouTube exercise channel some of the videos are ones I could either do or can adapt to my needs/ability

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bQG_sSk0tYc

As these are fairly gentle/easy exercises

Plan is one of the 5 or 10 min videos per day

5 Don't let a blip get to you!

We all have off days/times but the trick is to not let it turn into more! Draw a line under it and move on

6 Be kind to yourself (sounds trite but is true)

on these threads we pride ourselves on not judging or knocking anyones method.

Defo! That's what's great about them!

@MissMaple82 And others with similar mindsets I agree with op you are NOT disgusting! We all have value in this world. Fat shaming - by others or ourselves does not work! It's been proven.

Instead focus on what you love about yourself, focus on being and feeling healthier. I know it's not easy to change the mindset BELIEVE ME but when you do it really helps!

7 celebrate the NSV's - Non Scale Victories - body measurements (I go on bust waist and hips!), smaller clothes, having more energy, an exercise goal achieved...

All great boosts that help you stay on track!

8 break it down into smaller goals - more achievable and when you hit the goals it's a real boost! I broke mine down into 1/2 stone points mostly but also included my 5% loss point (which according to nhs is the point at which your general health starts to show real improvement - lower bp etc) and the points I move into different categories (I started off obese so a target I've yet to reach that I have on my mini goal list is when I move from obese to "just" overweight). Dress sizes can be a goal too or measurement points etc.

Graphista · 09/01/2022 12:43

I found easing in worked for me so not straight away being super strict but I started with making swaps for what I was already eating to lower cal alternatives (eg switched out full sugar sodas for sugar free ones, chose lower fat versions of cheese etc) and gradually made more changes then when I switched to "proper" calorie counting started with a higher amount and as the weight went down gradually reduced (I used nhs bmi calculator to get a rough idea on how many cals I should be having and erred towards lower end of the range given)

A cautionary note on my fitness plan and similar apps - ANYONE can update the databases and the cals aren't always accurate so be wary. Personally I won't use them as that annoys me too much I like accuracy. I've basically ended up creating my own personal database of the items I use via the food diary/tracker I've created on spreadsheet on phone. The items you use the most you get to learn the cals in too I've found.

Todays menu plan is:

Breakfast was - 2 slices wholemeal toast (I use 400g loaves so small slices) with 30g low sugar jam, earl grey tea (which I take black with sweetener - so no cals - but remember to count your drinks folks!)

Lunch - "pizza bagel" - bagel toasted with tomato purée, quorn pepperoni and cheese slices. Yogurt and fruit water to drink

Dinner - ready meal (depends what gets delivered!) approx 300-400 cals can of diet soda

That will leave me approx 200 - 300 cals for a light evening snack if I want one

Bloody hell, there's loads of newbies!!

That was my thought too! Thanks to @TheRealHousewife and @SunshineCake1 for dragging me back to the thread! Agree with op that you sunshine despite an incredibly tough year have not only kept going yourself but also supported and advised and helped so many of the rest of us keep going. Glad you're getting your other health stuff gradually sorted.

@onwardsandupwards22 as well as veggies that are easily steamed use veggies that can be eaten cold/raw - tinned sweetcorn, sweet peppers, celery, onions (I can't eat these raw but some can), spinach, cherry tomatoes, cucumber... you get the idea

A very quick and easy veggie heavy meal is stir fries! (I love stir fries! They're my lazy healthy go to) most veggies work in a stir fry but I especially like sweet peppers, baby corn, mange tout, diced courgette, mushrooms (I love em! But I know they can be "marmite"), celery, onions (I use frozen diced or sliced MUCH easier) thinly sliced carrot, tender stem broccoli and of course bamboo shoots and water chestnuts which are fairly easy to find now tinned. I'll admit I mostly use ready made sauces and straight to wok noodles or microwave rice (I have half a pack just thanks to storage tips from other thread folk) but it's also super easy to make your own sauce if for a whole family (I find it tricky to make small portions of sauce) loads of recipes online or you can simply have soy sauce or sweet chilli sauce mixed in. I use fry light too which cuts the cals way back.

Another quick easy favourite of mine is a cous cous and quorn sliced fillets sort of warm salad - make up the cous cous (I sometimes use stock rather than plain water) chop up some salad type veggies whatever you have in and when the cous cous is ready mix in the fillets, veggies and sweet chilli sauce - done! V tasty and takes less than 10 mins to make. Also great for packed lunches as a change from sandwiches etc (my dd used to have this a lot for packed lunches as she's not keen on bread/rolls etc) although she's omni so it would be real chicken or sometimes tuna or ham.

I've also decided on some New Years resolutions which will indirectly help - partly by giving me less time to eat! Partly by addressing potential nutrition deficits.

So - vitamins daily

B vits as I'm veggie
Vit c and iron for possible anaemia type issues (I don't generally suffer from this but can be on the low side of iron rich foods)
Vit d - I'm mostly housebound so probably low and for both Covid and depression vit d is supposed to be helpful. I had Covid back in sep which was rotten so hoping to avoid getting it again!

Hair - is getting dry and thin I think maybe a pre meno thing so I've got a hair oil i'm applying daily

Skin - got out of the habit of doing a good skincare routine and so I'm trying to get back to a good one. I have eczema and also dermotillomania so hoping this will help with these too and it's a good distraction from eating!

Mh - I suffer from ocd, agoraphobia, depression, anxiety etc so I've started a positivity journal where I am trying to list AT LEAST 3 things a day that are positives for me. I've treated myself to a wee "friends" notebook and a new fountain pen for the purpose.

Graphista · 09/01/2022 12:43

And...breathe GrinGrinGrin

Raspberry12 · 09/01/2022 13:15

@TheRealHousewife thanks for reminding me about the mental health benefits - it’s so true! While my waist has only changed slightly, I feel I’m in a much better place mentally.

@TooManyPlatesInMotion good idea to do a class. I was thinking the same… apart from the last 3 years I’ve been doing some type of weekly classes since my early twenties and loved them. I reckon I could carve out time for at least 1 class a week.

@DontWantTheRivalry The dairy thing is interesting. I’ve tried to switch most of my coffee drinks to black coffee and have a flat white as an occasional treat. Like you I also know what I need to do (20 mins yoga a day) to tone up but can’t seem to fit it in / motivate myself. From previous experience I know this helped with toning my stomach a lot.

@ginsparkles hugs back… it’s such a strange thing to lose a parent. I’m generally ok but it hits me at unexpected times. Enjoy your tapas meal… I’m going for a little Sunday treat too :) Taking my daughter out to our favourite ice-cream place.

Feeling motivated thanks to this lovely thread 🙌

I realised I have forgotten to start my vitamin D this winter so started today… I think I’m feeling a bit sun deprived.

Enjoy the rest of the day 😊

buzzofthebumblebee · 09/01/2022 13:24

Thank you for your post(s!) @Graphista. Very welcome and just what I needed to read this morning. I did so well Sept-Dec, but struggling a bit now long negative ramble that I've deleted as this is such a positive thread i don't want to bring the tone down!

On the plus I managed a 6.5km run followed by dog walk this morning, I'm about to make salmon salad for my lunch, the sun is shining, and DH taking DD back to uni today (so 2 less people making demands on me for the day). I'll try and be really good to get a loss in this week.

Graphista · 09/01/2022 13:40

@Raspberry12 it does really help with Mh side in my experience - even if only from the knowledge that you're being proactive on a health aspect for yourself

I'm taking 3000mg vit d daily - I started with 1000mg but then read up and saw 3000 was max safe otc dose and with me mostly being housebound figured it would be good for me so have inc to that level and I think I am starting to see benefits. I'm sleeping better - and at night! (Chronic insomniac with crappy sleep patterns) and mood seems to be improved/more even

@buzzofthebumblebee thank you you're welcome - but I say post the stuff you're struggling with maybe we can help?

Nomoreusernames1244 · 09/01/2022 16:52

Anybody have any recommendations for accurate scales? I have an amazon cheapie which seems reasonably accurate (i check with bog standard scales if, like this morning I seem to have randomly lost 3lbs overnight confused).

However I’m not convinced with it’s accuracy on the breakdowns, everything seems to be on a scale, so of last nights 3lbs, apparently 1lb was muscle.

Someone recommended worthers? Worthingtons? I know impedence and the whole measuring fat vs muscle is never going to be wholly accurate, is it worth shelling out or are they all about the same?

On the plus side, if the 3lbs is a genuine loss, i’m about half a pound from the “normal” weight for my height, which I’m really pleased with as I started just tipping into the “obese” category..

declutteringmymind · 09/01/2022 17:04

I have the renpho ones off Amazon. Really good and sync to an app

ShoppingBasket · 09/01/2022 17:21

Plodding along here and keeping fairly on top of things which I am really pleased with as it is my long week of night shifts and I always feel like a zombie. Zombie shopping basket puts sugar in her shopping basket looking for that hit. I've been snacking on sweet satsumas and grapes to get the sweet kick.
On Friday night I was snacking a bit at work, little bits of Christmas cake here and there. Afterwards I was annoyed with myself for doing it but when I sat down and worked out the cals I wasn't that much over. I suppose what I'm trying to say is before I would have had that cake then thought oh flip I've gone and ruined it now so I may as well have 4 packet of crisps and 6 chocolate bars. Causing a lot more damage.

I have a muffin top 13 years after a c section Grin

I've started painting by numbers (adults) in the evening and it is really therapeutic and also I can't snack while doing it! Might be worth a go for someone!

Meal 1 same old fruit and fibre
Meal 2 slim bagel with tuna, mayo, sweetcorn and half a pack of low cal crisps.
Meal 3 roast chicken- no skin, boiled potato, carrots and parsnip and little bit of gravy.
Snack - satsumas, raspberries, skinny whip bar

@buzzofthebumblebee we are only positive at the moment because we are all refreshed and motivated. Give me a week and I'll be a negative Nelly with you also.

I only have a bog standard scales so no recommendation but Fingers crossed it is a 3lb loss for you Smile

TheRealHousewife · 09/01/2022 18:39

Just a quick post to welcome @Graphista back to thread 😊👍. Lovely to see you. Also thank you for sharing your wisdom for our newbies 👍👏

@buzzofthebumblebee please post if it helps. This thread is for the lows as well as the highs. We pride ourselves on the hand holding ❤️ Well done on your run! 👍👏🏅

@ShoppingBasket I agree that painting or colouring in are both very therapeutic!

@Nomoreusernames1244 I have the Aria2 electronic scale. You can link it to apps like MFP to sync data.

@2022success That’s a great start! Well done! 👍👏🏅

Welcome to the thread @weightlossliss and well done on your loss to date 👍👏

Wow @swampytiggaa 14k steps is fantastic! Fir bunny that you are 🐰 😬

I hope I haven’t missed anyone. On iPad and reading thread in 2 windows as on different pages and thinking I’d better post before I lose it. Enjoy your Evening.

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Graphista · 09/01/2022 19:23

Ahhh thanks op

I've got SO much from these threads not just weight loss support and advice they're lovely threads

Thanks so much for them

Raspberry12 · 09/01/2022 19:48

That’s good to know about the vit D @Graphista I’ll up my dose too once I finish these ones.

19k step count on my walks today - the sunshine in London today helped as well as a long walk to the ice-cream shop and back!

Breakfast: 2 buckwheat crepes, cream and linseeds.

Lunch: roast chicken, tomatoes and sweet potato

Dinner: Roasted cauliflower, red peppers and 2 fried eggs

Snacks: raspberries, 2 macchiatos, 1 scoop salted caramel ice-cream + 1 scoop hazelnut & chocolate ice-cream 😋 🍨

It was good to share how I felt yesterday as I felt a lot lighter just writing down I felt… I felt way more positive about things today.

Onwards 🙌

justjuggling · 09/01/2022 20:21

Hello everyone! I’m back to work tomorrow after 2 weeks off so have spent today trying to prep some food for the week ahead and generally get myself organised. Hope everyone else has had a good day!

Today’s food

Homemade leek and potato soup with 2 slices of whole meal bread

Roast beef, Swede, carrots, peas, cauliflower cheese, gravy and some Yorkshire pudding.

Perfect comfort food for a chilly day!

hopingforabrighterfuture2021 · 09/01/2022 20:23

Hi all,

Wow so many posts! Thanks @Graphista for taking the time to write all that, super helpful, thank you.

Hope everyone is doing ok, the thread moves too fast for me to reply to everyone but it sounds like everyone is doing well, I would say that it’s doing well even with the odd slip up!

A wise person once said to me, if you split a tiny bit of red wine on a white shirt, would you immediately try and sort it out and limit the damage, or keep pouring wine over it, because, ‘you’ve ruined it anyway.’ Trying to remember that analogy if I do have a slip up!

Anyway, all good today, nice food on WW and it was bright and sunny here so did a good walk (approx 6K steps) too.

Menu today:

Late breakfast: 2 crumpets with light spread and marmite, coffee with skimmed milk.

No lunch as breakfast too late

Snack: skinny cold coffee, packet of baked crisps and a protein bar.

Dinner: chicken and loads of veg stir fry with sweet chilli sauce and a few cashew nuts.

After dinner: 40g mini eggs

SunshineCake1 · 09/01/2022 21:28

Thanks @Graphista.

Feeling a bit quiet today but will reread tomorrow and be back on it.

Fingers crossed I can go for a run. Still feeling bleurgh after the hospital.

marmilade92 · 09/01/2022 22:23

It was day 6 for me today, I haven't checked in in a few days because I was at my parents. I weighed myself and I've lost 4.6lbs since last Monday, so 155 down to 150.4lbs. It's probably mostly water weight but that's fine, I'm happy enough with that and I'm not aiming to lose weight quickly, I want to be steady and sustainable. I haven't been starving but have been hungry a few times but nothing that would make me crazy and just overeat. I focus on it and ask myself, "am I really hungry or am I thirsty or am I stressed?" And usually it just passes or maybe if I am hungry I'll have my meal or snack a bit sooner before I get too hungry.

Today's meals: Huel shake, slimfast chocolate shake, cheese ploughman's sandwich with a cuppa soup for dinner (and extra salad in the sandwich).

Snacks: houmous, cucumber and carrots, slimfast porridge, 3 slices of Terry's chocolate orange (because people kept mentioning it in this thread!)

Again, not strictly going with the slimfast plan but if I have something different like the TCO then I'll count the calories for it and keep it within what the calories should be.

Still no exercise which is annoying but maybe when I lose a bit more I'll get more active because right now I feel like my knees might explode if I start jogging. I'm finding it a bit difficult sometimes because even at 6 months postpartum every day still feels like survival. I have no time to myself and when I do it's in the evenings when I'm tired and can't be bothered to do anything. I used to play hockey in the evenings and it's something I've thought about and I'd like to maybe go to the gym by myself and do exercise. I'm not a fan of daytime exercise, maybe I'm too self-conscious.

During the day I'm still eating quickly and not savoring it or being mindful because I get little time before the baby wants or needs something. I haven't figured out how to rectify this other than wait it out and hope it gets better as time goes on.

Hope everyone's doing well!

campingqueen121 · 09/01/2022 22:34

Aw thanks for the warm welcome @TheRealHousewife and for all the tips and advice from everyone. I've really been trying to drink more water like so many of you are, but it seems to go straight through me, I guess at least it's extra steps up and down the stairs to the bathroom.

@swampytiggaa Well if you fancy trying it again and want to be t25 buddies let me know, perhaps the encouragement will help. I've started alpha 4 or 5 times but only completed it twice and never carried on to do beta and gamma. Hoping to do the lot this time. I've just been doing speed this last week to try and raise my fitness level a bit after such a long time being sedentary. This week I'm going to do a mix of cardio and speed and then I'm going to start it properly next week.

@8stone13 Yes we're not too dissimilar, although you were clearly blessed with a little more height. I'm hoping the 3lb Christmas weight will be gone next time I weigh myself, then I'll start on shifting those first 7 lbs.

Meals today
Breakfast : Honey Roasted Salmon, 2 boiled eggs, asparagus and a sesame seed crisp bread.
Lunch : carrot, apple, lemon and ginger juice. Handful of grapes.
Dinner : Roast chicken, cauliflower cheese, French beans, little corn, brocolli, swede, carrots, mash potato, roast potatoes and Gravy.

Went for a short (2.6k) walk, with my littlie, which was just under 4500 steps.

Feeling positive about my future weight loss, really feel like I'm going to achieve it this time.

swampytiggaa · 09/01/2022 22:38

@declutteringmymind

I have the renpho ones off Amazon. Really good and sync to an app
I have these too 😊 used to have the aria ones which were also very good 😊

16k steps at work today 😭😭 in safety trainers 😭😭 I’m hoping it will tone my legs nicely 😂😂

swampytiggaa · 09/01/2022 22:40

@campingqueen121 my husband did them and really enjoyed them and got good results. I struggled with the star jumps etc as after 5 children I have no pelvic floor 😂😂

Graphista · 09/01/2022 22:55

@Raspberry12 it's 1000's I have at the moment I'm simply taking 3 at night with my other meds

Well done on the 19k steps!

@hopingforabrighterfuture2021 aww thank you glad it's of help

I like the wine/shirt analogy so true

@SunshineCake1 quiet days are needed sometimes

@campingqueen121 when you first increase fluid intake you do pee more! But keep it up and the body adjusts fairly quickly

ginsparkles · 10/01/2022 06:36

Well done @marmilade92 ! Fab loss.

Yesterday as predicted was totally off plan. But it was only one day and I'm re focussing my energy. So plan for today:
Meal 1. Salad with ham and mixed beans and a yoghurt
Meal 2 - salmon with new potatoes and veg.
Snacks - banana and plenty to drink.

Have a good day everyone Smile

Recycledblonde · 10/01/2022 06:50

First weigh in today and I’ve lost 2lbs. I know it’s not a lot especially for the first week but I’m pleased. Previous attempts at healthy eating have seen me give up after losing nothing in the first week.

Rshard · 10/01/2022 07:05

Was a bit awol over the weekend, but managed to negotiate it fairly well, with the exception of a milkshake. Ah well, I did resist the pizza that dd and dh had with theirs.

A loss is a loss recycledblonde - well done! As you say it will spur you on for this week.