Hit rock bottom

[66babe]

Feel fat bloated sweaty ugly unfit and just bloody awful
Have been trying forever to become motivated and do better .. but I can't seem to get into the right frame of mind
I know exactly how to eat healthy
I know exactly how to move more
Just need a massive kick up theatre to get me going ...
I've hit rock bottom so just finished off 4 cookies to make me feel better 😩😩😩
If it wasn't so pathetic it would be funny

@66babe we are not the best at this dieting are we? 😂

Aww, that doesn't sound disastrous to me. Every body needs a duvet day once in a while! You need to learn how to be good/nice to yourself, it' really is the key to a lot of things in life. You say your fed up with failing, well, you've stuck to healthy eating for at least two days now. To me that's a plus!
Thank you for your kind words. See, you have empathy and kindness inside you, another plus!

I have about 100-150g of crabs a day

Would these be soft shell crabs?..... LOL

🦀

@FlowerArranger best to keep them crabs away .. well itchy ... so I'm told ... 🤭
No @Tynks we're not too good at this are we
Think we need to go move in with @73kittycat73 ... how many spare bedrooms do you have ?

@66babe yes let's pack our bags and go stay with Kitty. She will sort us out.

I'm on my way @73kittycat73 just packing up the 17 cats

@66babe

Feel fat bloated sweaty ugly unfit and just bloody awful Have been trying forever to become motivated and do better .. but I can't seem to get into the right frame of mind I know exactly how to eat healthy I know exactly how to move more Just need a massive kick up theatre to get me going ... I've hit rock bottom so just finished off 4 cookies to make me feel better 😩😩😩 If it wasn't so pathetic it would be funny

Omgggg OP I could have written this myself.

Just can't seem to find the motivation when it actually comes to it. When I'm feeling shit I think 'right, that's it, will do better from now' but then as soon as it comes to it I fail again.

I just need a couple of days in a row doing OK and I think I'll be alright, but getting those days completed is just.....

@Bibidy you and me both, I could have written the op.

[quote Tynks]@Bibidy you and me both, I could have written the op. [/quote]
So awful isn't it.

The exercise isn't even the problem for me, although tbh I don't do loads. But have been swimming once a week since pools reopened and have re-started Couch to 5k yesterday as my DP wanted to do it too.

But I'm just eating so much shit lately. Went away with family for a UK holiday last week and some of the pictures.... I never really feel like I look that bad until I'm confronted with photographic evidence and think bloody hell, when did that happen???

Need to get back on track with the diet.

@73kittycat73 I've got nineteen dogs plus a goldfish that would obviously be coming with me and @66babe plus her cats.

Hi @Bibidy it's awful isn't it
I will often go to the shop and buy crap to snack on whilst I write down a healthier lifestyle plan ... I've got the walk of shame Saturday morning to the scales at SW and so far had 2 good days and 2 awful days
Need some serious work

@66babe

Hi *@Bibidy* it's awful isn't it I will often go to the shop and buy crap to snack on whilst I write down a healthier lifestyle plan ... I've got the walk of shame Saturday morning to the scales at SW and so far had 2 good days and 2 awful days Need some serious work

So bad...I'm officially "on WW" but I haven't actually followed it properly since rejoining.

I'm not a huge snacker but my problem is takeaways and meals out. Plus my DP will buy me chocolate and I will eat that because it's there, though I mostly wouldn't bother to go out and get it for myself....I've had an Orange Yorkie today on day 1 of trying to be good .

Doesn't help at all that my DP loves a treat and is generally pretty unhealthy. No excuse I know, but it's hard when someone's waving it under your nose isn't it!!

PS. Hello!! LOL. Sorry, caught up in my fatness rant there.

Well I don't have that excuse .. I live alone no 17 cats , I had 2 but they both died in lockdown
Could you say to him .. look love I'm feeling fat can you buy me diamonds instead of chocolate.. or at least a nice candle ...
I'm terrible for sweets and ice cream savoury doesn't bother me too much

@Bibidy wait, there is an orange Yorkie?

@Tynks !!!!!!! ✋
There are also orange giant buttons

Hello @Bibidy you can rant away here lol
We need help though .. are you by any chance in the teeth wiring business ?

@66babe

Well I don't have that excuse .. I live alone no 17 cats , I had 2 but they both died in lockdown Could you say to him .. look love I'm feeling fat can you buy me diamonds instead of chocolate.. or at least a nice candle ... I'm terrible for sweets and ice cream savoury doesn't bother me too much

Aw I'm so sorry about your cats :(

DP's trying to be on a bit of a health kick with me now so I'm hoping he will chill with the sweet treats a bit as I would likely not get them myself.

Problem is he's never done WW or SW so doesn't have the knowledge of how much he could actually have instead of that one chocolate bar or fizzy drink, so then he doesn't get it when I don't want to have it. I feel like it would help him a lot to do one of those plans for a bit but I know he never would. He's also one of those people that wants all the extras with meals, like garlic bread with pasta or naans with a curry, so even when I make healthy meals he ends up adding all that and then it gets chucked if I don't join in with it. Which I should probably let happen but I just can't!! I hate waste and also I'm weak LOL.

[quote Tynks]@Bibidy wait, there is an orange Yorkie?[/quote]
Yes!! Never seen it before but got one in Devon.

A lady brought her husband once to join our fat club , he looked horrified !!! But within about a month he was our poster boy , had all the women's attention, loved all the attention and started wearing nicer clothes etc lol
Threaten him with WW 😂

@66babe just think, you could be the poster girl for fat club.

Oh no .. I'm more of the last in first out kind of gal .. I actually really don't enjoy it at all
Just like the pressure of the scales
Annoys me to pay a fiver for someone to weigh me when I've got scales at home and I find the clapping and "it's fine you've put on 3.5 this week " a bit sanctimonious
Mind you ... I'm 54 and will probably still be the youngest

@66babe I would weigh myself and spend the £5 on chocolate.

Laughed out loud at the 'I've put on 3.5lbs and it's fine'

I would get all embarrassed at the clapping thing. I couldn't handle the clapping during the lockdown and I didn't clap. I work for the NHS!

Oh my days ! @Tynks
We really are twins ! So do I lol