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A space to talk openly about weight loss journeys and challenges. Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. You may wish to speak to a medical professional before starting any diet.

2019 is the year we lose weight

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TulipsInbloom1 · 20/12/2018 23:34

Anyone in?

Im doing dry jan which will help, better meal planning, and upping the water intake. No official "plan" in mind yet but will look to choosing one soon.

Im weighing in Jan1st, currently just shy of 14stone. I need to hit 9 1/2 to hit a healthy BMI.

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yikesanotherbooboo · 28/12/2018 09:33

I'd like to join; I can't bear to weigh myself but am about 3 stone overweight. This has all crept on over the last 5 years since the menopause. Previously I was a normal weight without trying ;although I always vaguely wanted to lose half a stone I could never quite be bothered to do so.
I am not very active; have a sedentary job and drink to much alcohol which leads to immoderate snacking. Worry ( of which I have quite a lot) also sends me to the rubbish .i need to be disciplined ie cut out snacks and slash my alcohol intake; my basic diet is fairly good as I am cooking for a teenager still. Here goes...

danni0509 · 28/12/2018 09:36

How do people find sweeteners in tea?

I can drink a coffee with no sugar but have to have sugar in my tea. Going to buy some sweeteners and replace the sugar.

Will I be sick ? Grin

Zazu44 · 28/12/2018 09:42

Yikes that's me!! 3 stone on post menopause too and bloody difficult to get off! Joining SlimmingWorld again on Sunday, More so I can be accountable and weigh in every week AND it's written down.
Going to up my exercise but just slowly as I'm rubbish at sticking to things.

Post menopause seems to change your body completely 😞

sherrysfortea · 28/12/2018 10:21

Are people starting New Year's Day or the day after? Also if anyone is considering e exercise I use a really good app called Aaptiv which has loads of home workouts

scarletsadie · 28/12/2018 10:27

Zazu and Yikes, this is me too. Depressing isn't it?

I have been poorly over Christmas and hardly eaten, this has saved me from gaining at least another half a stone Grin

Not sure of my current weight, I will report back, I am around two stone overweight, probably more.

Tumtimes1 · 28/12/2018 10:27

I’m in! Doing dry January too. Weight about 13st 6 and would like to be about 11st as a starting weight.

SpikyHedgehogg · 28/12/2018 10:31

I'm starting Monday 31st :)

Zazu44 · 28/12/2018 10:46

Thanks Scarlet will take a look at the app. I really like Lucy Wyndham-Read, some great workouts on YouTube for all levels.
Starting 31st

danni0509 · 28/12/2018 11:11

I'm doing my food shop on Sunday the 30th. Plan on eating shit that day kind of like a last supper!

And start fresh Monday 31st December with my healthy food shop.

I would start the 1st jan but it's a Tuesday and I don't start diets on Tuesdays Grin

danni0509 · 28/12/2018 11:16

Last year I lost 1st 12lb in 14 weeks.

That was including my birthday, my ds birthday and my dh birthday days out eating shit which turned into 3 separate weeks off the wagon bcos I can't get back on track straight away.

Not doing it this year.

Have 5 stone to lose by 1st July.

Not sure if possible but I'll see what I can do!

Make sure you take some pics ladies! I've got start date pics and a pic on week 14 before I gave up and the difference is unreal.

Kicking myself for putting it all plus more back on.

danni0509 · 28/12/2018 11:22

What diet is everyone planning on doing?

I've been paying for weight watchers online since MAY £12.95 a month still paying now and not using, such a waste!

Not sure if to do it again but always feel hungry on ww though & slimming world I don't like.

Not sure whether to invent my own or not.

DartmoorDoughnut · 28/12/2018 11:24

I’m in please! Have about 2stone to shift

Nothingoriginalhere · 28/12/2018 11:25

Can I join too please, i remained slimming world last night the millionth time but am desperate to lose 3 1/2 st. Am doing dry Jan but from now as I would like to lose half a stone at least by 15th Jan as I'm.having a hysterectomy then.
Am hoping 2019 is my year to be happy with my body at last.
I will.have to stop.my normal x3 per week boot camp sessions but am planning on walking and then getting back into running which I used to love and following sw but without all the yoghurt and low calorie stuff that I normally eat just because I can and sticking to speed foods and wholegrain.

Lilybobtail13 · 28/12/2018 11:59

I'm in, I've got about 2 stone lose to be at a comfortable weight. Currently trying to eat the remaining crap in the cupboards ready for healthy food shop this weekend. I have tried calorie counting, ww and sw in the past with reasonable degrees of success but it's all short term and the pounds soon pile back on. I need to make changes to my diet and exercise schedule which is currently nonexistent for the long term. Hopefully 2019 will be the year!

SusanWalker · 28/12/2018 14:58

I've been careful yesterday and today but starting properly tomorrow as I have a big food shop coming tonight. Good idea about the pictures. I'm also going to do my measurements later as I always mean to do that and never do.

I also have an online weightwatchers membership that I need to cancel. I can't get on with the new system at all. I also find that if I'm counting i eat lots of snacks because I have points or whatever left, whereas if I try and eat three healthy meals a day with maybe a piece of fruit or a yogurt if I'm really hungry I don't think about food so much. Otherwise I'm constantly trying to work out if I can have a chocolate bar.

certainlymerry · 28/12/2018 17:37

I don't find slimming clubs work for me. I don't like the foods they are promoting, and don't agree with the approach. I don't like eating crap and am not a big meat eater. I need to watch portion control, move more and cut down a lot on alcohol. Calories counting has always worked well for me I just need to get into a disciplined frame of mind . MFP is good but I get lazy about recording what I'm eating and give up. I find it hard to calculate the calories if I am making a meal myself unless I am weighing every ingredient too. Simple foods are the easiest so I know what I am eating.

magoria · 28/12/2018 17:56

Can I slink out of the shadows and join in too. Will weigh on 1st so I know what I am and how much to lose but think i am looking at at least 6 stone.

I was doing quite well but just in December alone have put on everything I lost last year!

I am planning on calorie counting, cycling and clubbercise. I have cancelled my gym membership because I just wasn't getting there.

Sad thing is I lose weight really easily I just don't stick to it.

LittleDoritt · 28/12/2018 18:07

I'd really like to join too. I'll weigh on the 1st and start then, but I have at least 6 stone to lose. I've been at the mercy of my weight and my lack of willpower for so long. Going to spend the next few days solidifying my "plan" for 2019 in my head, but I'll definitely be doing dry January. I'd like to start C25k too but I'm so big that I'm worried it'll wreck my knees.

Mumofgirls83 · 28/12/2018 20:06

I'd like to join too please! I've been trying to lose the weight for about a decade! I'm less than I was when I got pregnant 19 months ago and lost almost 2 stone after birth but seem to have put 1.5 stone back on in as many months!!!

I would like to lose 3 stone. Will weigh on the first. Plan on doing dry jan and have ordered Tom kerridge's lose weight for good - anyone know if this is any good? I'm better when I don't feel like I'm on a diet!

I've booked 2 PT sessions and hope to join the gym (finances permitting) but if not my PT has said she can do some work outs from home.

This year I've just got to focus!! Wink

KateGrey · 28/12/2018 20:24

I’m going to cut down over the weekend but start next week. I really need to shift at least 5 stone. My kids want me to go swimming but I’m too embarrassed and I feel like crap too. If anyone wants a buddy give me a shout as I’m definitely going to need support I think.

FATEdestiny · 28/12/2018 21:08

@RedPandaMama

Unless you're really short I can't see how having such a huge calorie deficit can be healthy for your body, do you not feel really hungry all the time having just 2 meals a day and that kind of exercise?! I don't see how you aren't burning muscle as well as fat.

I could be kind and consider this one-size-fits-all assumptions that the diet industry pushes to keep themselves viable. In myself, I know these kinds of things were the "fat girl excuses" I used to tell myself as a size 24 morbidly obese 41yo.

This exemplifies perfectly why I loath commercial diets as merely there for marketing and profit. Rather than educating on nutrition and self discipline.

Fat Girl Excuse 1
Nowhere have I mentioned what my calorie deficit has been throughout my 8 stone weight loss, but it's assumed that it I must eat more than I need to fit into a marketing ideal.

Fat Girl Excuse 2
The suggestion that having 2 meals instead of 3 is the factor affecting hunger. The inferance that calorie consumption needs to be eaten at 3 times a day or it is somehow wrong, especially (it is inferred) if exercising daily.

Fat Girl Excuse 3
That hunger is bad. No, I never go hungry in the sence you mean. But yes, I might be starting to feel hungry at 11am and ready to have lunch at 12pm. Likewise 5pm in readiness for dinner at 5.30. That's it.

Fat Girl Excuse 4
An assumption that when there is ample fat stores available, that the body will break down muscle mass instead of fat if in calorie deficit (?!). Terrible science. Terrible advise.

Fat Girl Excuse 5
That eating mostly lean protein and veg, fruit and pulses, at a calorie deficit while also partaking in daily exercise is not healthy ?! WTF

I say "Fat Girl Excuses" in reference to me before I took control, no one else. So please don't take offence to my language. I decided to "Think Like A Healthy Person" instead and lost 8 stone in 9 months and started running every day.

historyrocks · 28/12/2018 22:04

Can i join? I want to lose at least half a stone—not much, but I’ve been trying to lose weight over the last few months and am getting no where. I used to be able to lose weight quite easily, but it aeema to have changed since entering my 40s, and my whole body shape has changed

It’s made harder by the fact I have joint/muscle problems that stop me running/cycling/going to the gym. Some days I end up crawling up the stairs. Thankfully I am able to do yoga and horse riding. I’m going to try to practice yoga at least a few times a week.

CarrotPuff · 29/12/2018 18:25

Danni, personally, I don't think you need to pay someone to tell you how to lose weight. We all know what food is healthy and what isn't.

If you do need some kind of rules, why not just stop snacking and cut out all the sugary crap at least during the week. That'll be a start. You can aim for more healthy meals later on.

I've already started and had a cheeky peek at the scales today - seem to have lost 2lbs, which I know is just water, but I'll take it regardless!

TulipsInbloom1 · 29/12/2018 20:51

Weighed in at 13 1/2 today. Have subsequently down a half bottle of wine and a block of brie. Im trying to convince myself that ridding the house of food and wine is half the battle.

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certainlymerry · 29/12/2018 21:09

The trouble ,s Christmas makes you hungry. You get used to eating a lot and feel hungry all the time afterwards. I am trying to get back to normal. low fat or low carb is the only thing that has worked for me before. I now don't believe low fat is all that healthy, and low carbing takes a while to get into.

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