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A space to talk openly about weight loss journeys and challenges. Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. You may wish to speak to a medical professional before starting any diet.

2019 is the year we lose weight

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TulipsInbloom1 · 20/12/2018 23:34

Anyone in?

Im doing dry jan which will help, better meal planning, and upping the water intake. No official "plan" in mind yet but will look to choosing one soon.

Im weighing in Jan1st, currently just shy of 14stone. I need to hit 9 1/2 to hit a healthy BMI.

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AFridgeTooFar · 07/01/2019 12:17

I DID share the link to my blog, on my other thread. But (a) there's no sales shite in there, and (b) it's just full of me banging on about...me! Explaining about my reasons for wanting to change, which would be a complete essay on here. I'm only mentioning it now in case any sales people do an advanced search on me and start on the "well, you did it!" shite. Also, it was MY THREAD, and it wasn't my first post (I've been around a while, I'm AllRoadsLeadToRadley, just with a day name change 🤣)

Anyway...enough pissedoffness, ladies. Onwards and downwards, huh?

TulipsInbloom1 · 07/01/2019 12:22

Kel feel free to join in with us, everyone is welcome, but if you want to promote your own business you will need to take that elsewhere.

Fridge atta girl

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AFridgeTooFar · 07/01/2019 12:29

We're all nice on here. Even me! 😀❤

HJWT · 07/01/2019 13:15

Thanks everyone ! I eat
B-2 boiled eggs
L-ham sandwich in brown w/ packet puff hoola hoops 😁
D-something with chicken (stir fry, roast dinner, chicken veg and a couple of small potatoes)

Iv limited myself to water only and 1 cup of tea/coffee a day, when i crave iv been having a couple of DD's christmas chocolate coins 😂😂

PinkHeart5914 · 07/01/2019 13:20

Keep going those of you that haven’t lost, weight loss is a funny old journey and some weeks it’s nothing or 1lb then others 4lbs go out of nowhere. If you have a calorie deficit then the weight will come off I think sometimes it just takes your body a while to catch up. It can be a struggle to find the willpower to keep going as it’s too easy to think well I lost nothing and fall in the doughnuts once again, so you have to try and change that mindset.

I had a good day food & exercise yesterday. It’s much easier to get out running with dh home at the weekends.

Today I have done 29km on the exercise bike before dh went to work.
Food plan:
Had porridge with blueberries for breakfast & coffee
Lunch was a chicken salad sandwich, packet of mini gingerbread, multi grain cracker
Dinner is going to be veg chilli and rice will have a no sugar jelly after

SurfnTerfFantasticmissfoxy · 07/01/2019 13:21

I'm in. A combination of chemotherapy in 2017 and having to take tamoxifen daily has meant my weight's gone from 8st 10 up to 10st 7 😢

LittleDoritt · 07/01/2019 13:33

I'm struggling a bit today. I'm so tired. So so so tired. If I had a chef on hand I would happily eat a lovely healthy plate of food but I just CBA to make anything. I've picked at a bit of pork and spinach and come for a lie down. I know if I don't eat I'll get unbearably hungry and go into self sabotage mode, but I don't have a single ounce of energy to do anything about it.

AFridgeTooFar · 07/01/2019 13:44

Doritt ❤❤❤❤

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AFridgeTooFar · 07/01/2019 14:23

4lb is a fab start!

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LittleDoritt · 07/01/2019 14:58

Gods, they're out in force today.

Fiontar649 · 07/01/2019 15:12

They must have had a break for the holidays

AFridgeTooFar · 07/01/2019 15:34

I'm a little emotional.

I've just finished up editing the blog post I wrote yesterday (before I jumped on the scales. I wanted to focus on "non-scale" things).

Have you ever not fully believed something until you've written it down?

My whole attitude has changed! Toward food, toward myself...toward life!

NewFitMe · 07/01/2019 15:37

Fucking hell it happened. I literally just ate a massive box of chocolate 😭😭 and shit ton of bread and butter. I feel sick. And super annoyed tomorrow is a weigh in

AFridgeTooFar · 07/01/2019 15:52

New oh dear.

One bad day doesn't equal a failure!

❤❤❤❤

Simonsaysitschristmas · 07/01/2019 15:55

@NewFitMe easy to beat yourself up but please don’t. It’s one meal out of one day of 365 days of the entire year. Try not let it affect the rest of your day/week.

FATEdestiny · 07/01/2019 16:14

FATEdestinythank you so much for posting. A real life person showing it CAN be done is hugely inspirational.

Looking at what you dropped you had some weeks which were big drops of 4-7lbs but others where you had an 0.5 or a 1.5. They are all amazing losses but do you recall if this was down to doing anything differently or is it just that weight loss isn't linear?

@NakedAvenger

Significant loses, week on week, was massively motivating. I lost between 2-4lb (sometimes more) in all of the first 16 weeks from Jan-Apr, with my holiday being the only (understandable) exception.

I was big and was eating probably 800-1000 daily calories at the time, which is the reason for big losses.

It's interesting that weight loss slowed at the time i started "proper running" (when started running at least 5k every day). I always had a loss each week, just smaller. With hindsight, I was just giving myself permission to eat more because I was exercising more. I now know there was no need to eat extra for runs which are only 10km, certainly not 5km. But I started thinking things like:

"I need the energy to run"
"it's water weight from using my muscles"
"It's muscles being built"

None of these were true, I don't think. I just allowed myself to eat more calories, more calories than I was burning through extra exercise.

I would be upset with any loss less than 2lb. But then I also realised that I couldn't possibly keep losing 1 stone per month indefinitely. So I rationalized it that this must be the start of more reasonable 1lb/week losses. Then I'd go for it with strict calorie control the next weeks and realise I still could lose a lot each week if I focused.

I have always weighted myself daily, but recorded it weekly. This means there are no surprises. I can see weight creeping slowly either up or down and have time in the week to modify my diet according to how rapidly I want to lose.

On weighing daily - always do it first thing in the morning. As soon as I wake, after having a wee and poo. This allows for consistency, since everyone's weight goes up throughout the day and then drops over night.

So if I saw a gain on Sunday and Monday mornings, from the weekend, I would be very strict on my calorie deficit for the rest of the week. Then I had an overall weekly loss, even though I might have had a gain within that week.

I definaty recommend daily first thing in the morning weighing.

2019 is the year we lose weight
SusanWalker · 07/01/2019 16:39

NewFitMe don't worry I am in the same boat as you. I have not had a good week at all. I am now damage limiting as much as I can but expect a gain tomorrow. I have made my peace with it now.

I am still struggling with the after effects of a cold and my son not sleeping at all well all holidays (he has ASD). I had to have a nap this afternoon I felt so exhausted. Being tired is hell for weight loss i find.

Anyway my shop arrived today and I am being careful for the rest of the day then starting with a clean slate tomorrow. It's all I can do apart from give up.And I'm not doing that.

hendricksy · 07/01/2019 17:46

I'm doing Veganuary and have gained weight despite sticking to 1200 cals or less a day 🙄🙄... I gained a stone when I went vege a years ago and was hoping to lose being a vegan 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

AFridgeTooFar · 07/01/2019 17:50

hendricksy what are you eating?

I'm a day vegan! 😂

AFridgeTooFar · 07/01/2019 17:51

FAT vegan...not day!

PinkHeart5914 · 07/01/2019 17:57

NewFitMe Not point beating yourself up my love, it’s done now and you can’t change it. You can however get back on plan tomorrow and keep going forward. I think most people give in to temptation at some point along the way of losing weight and that’s fine, it’s what you do after that that’s important.

certainlymerry · 07/01/2019 18:00

One of the issues I am having is with MFP. The amounts and weights are crazy. A cappuccino varies wildly . How do I know how much is in a cappuccino from a cafe for example? What is a 'cup' of dhal and how do I calculate the calories if it homemade. It's a bit of minefield really.

AFridgeTooFar · 07/01/2019 18:10

If it's homemade, I'm afraid you have to weigh all the ingredients, create a "recipe" and put the ingredients in there. I've had to do that with loads of my food this week.