Hello All,
I really had the urge to join this thread. I bought the Paul's book and journal back in September 2006 and did well for a while, however some how I lost the plot and when back to my old habits! Why I ask myself!
I've lost over 4 and 1/2 stone with Rosemary C, however the weight loss has not been consistant and it has taken me over 5 years. I've got to a stage where I am fed up 'dieting'...I've recently reflected that the reason why I gain weight after coming off a diet plan, is because I haven't ever changed my habits! I can follow Weight Watchers, Calorie Counting, Slimmers World and Rosemary C diets and the weight drops off, however as Paul says it's an external control over my eating!
So I thought to myself...OK what do I need to do to get this weight off and keep it off?! I then thought you silly moo! The answer has been in your weight loss cupboard (I have a cupboard full of healthy eating, diets and clear books that make you think you're not following a diet) I am a world expert.
So last week I opened Paul's book and all a sudden a 'normal life' free from food and diets is close...I have never forgot the rules, but I had forgotten the indepth of it all!
I have now been on it over a week, and I can feel the changes
1)I havent had to keep a food diary - What a relief
2)I feel hundred times better about my body
3)I am sure I have lost weight!
4)The guilt of naughty food has gone.
I also realised that I self sabitage my confidence. I realise that when I ask my partner "Do I look alright?" I am sending myself down a spiral of self dislike...what I mean is for me Alright is just about ok, I dont feel great but it will do. So when I ask my Dan do I look alright I am looking for him to say I look better than Alright, however as Paul says in the book when he says I look Lovely (which is better than alright) I disbelieve him, as I dont feel lovely so his compliment doesnt fit with my image of myself. Yet when he says yes I look alright, I still feel bad as he has reaffirmed (in my eyes) that I just about look ok....Poor sod, he cant win.
So now I simply say...How do I look? That way I am more receptive as I am not starting on a downer on myself.
Has anyone experienced this, since being on Paul's programme??
Great Thread and sorry for the long message xx