Lubilee don't worry about the questions - that's what this thread is here for 
Re: maintenance/WOE, tbh everyone does it differently. I can only speak for myself in that I really tend not to eat white carbs at all anymore - no bread, no rice, no pasta, etc. But I do drink wine (mostly red) and I do eat chocolate (always 70% or more) on a pretty regular basis!
That, for me, is enough. I just don't miss carbs, so having a bit of rice etc just isn't an issue. Low-carb eating is delicious and flexible enough imo. However, for other people having a small bowl of wholewheat pasta or the odd slice of toast once in a while might work for them. Everyone finds their own level and what works for me might not work for you.
My reasoning is probably that I've bought in quite heavily to the whole science behind what eating high levels of carb does to your body. I just don't want to eat that stuff anymore! I don't think that grains are particularly healthy, for example. I am also worried that adding regular carbs will be the start of a slippery slope...
So for me, high-carb foods are something that just won't ever be a regular part of my life again. After all, when I can happily eat a massive Indian takeaway without ever touching the rice or naan, why worry?
(however, before I start sounding too smug, look back through the threads and see I've fallen off the wagon many times - and all of this goes out of the window if dp brings home tiramisu
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IMO The Idiot Proof Diet Book is really good at the whole 'reintroduction of carbs' issue. Worth a look.