at eff off!
I am a size 10 now (5ft8) which is extraordinary to me really, and I love it. Jeans are a 10 as are dresses, some tops I'd get a 12 as my shoulders are quite wide, but I haven't much bazoomerage left really, which is sad, but amazing what you can do with a good bra!
I won't be an 8 ever, so the last 3 pounds won't actually make any difference on the clothing front, tis a psychological target.
And its one step at a time isn't it?
We are in this for the long haul, there are no quick fixes.
Small steps, significant progress. When you lose a pound that takes you into the next stone category, it's so brilliantly motivating isn't it, even though it was only a pound. And when you move into healthy BMI, its fabulous. But it's long haul, and then maintaining for a life time.
And I do find the weight loss threads on here very supportive, I started with a group coming up for two years ago and we are still going, but people are doing different things, but then this thread has been excellent as it is so focussed.
I do worry about maintaining though, and i worry that I won't know when to stop, or how to stop. But I will figure that bit out when I get there. 