That's really nice of you wizzler, thanks 
Loooong post to follow, sorry in advance!
Okay, I've been mulling over something today and want to ask how you react to being given compliments or attention? Do you accept compliments easily and do you enjoy receiving attention?
I only ask because last night at Asda (after wi) a very odd thing happened to me. Was minding my own business walking in when I suddenly became aware of a group of about 5 blokes staring at me and talking to each other. As I passed I couldn't hear what they were saying but they were making 'approval' noises, not rude or anything though.
Anyway, thinking it was all very weird, went into the shop, got my things and went to the checkout. Was standing waiting to get served when I felt someone at the next checkout staring at me. Was one of the blokes from earlier...
I tried not to look at him but he kept trying to catch my eye. I just didn't know what to do! He wasn't being lewd or intimidating or anything. But I didnt know what to do! Felt so uncomfortable and embarassed. Eventually completely turned my back to him so that I wouldnt catch his eye.
When I thought about it on the way home I realised this is the first bit of attention I have received in a long, looooong time from someone other than dh. And it is so foreign. Am used to being invisible and try to stay in the background as much as possible. Don't even do things like wear colours, only black, as colours tend to put you more on show I feel. And I'm just not comfortable being on show.
A few people have complimented me this week and I just don't know how to react to this. Get all embarassed and counteract it by saying things like 'Oh I've still got loads to lose' or 'Well my belly is still huge' etc.
Are you all the same? If so do you think it is because we dont believe we deserve attention or people saying nice things about us? Do you think that once we are slim we will get to the stage when we DO believe 'we are worth it'...?
Sorry to ramble...