Small whinge ahead. Usual disclaimers of, I love my partner, I know how lucky I am, etc.
He has a different sleep schedule to me, so his natural waking hours are 1pm - 2am. This means he's often cooking his main meal at 10pm or later and, in case I haven't mentioned it before, he's a fantastic cook. He makes the whole house smell like spices and herbs and buttered chicken.
My natural waking hours now I'm not drinking heavily are 8am-10pm. Used to be later but got seemingly permanently altered by having kids.
So I'm upstairs getting ready for bed, on a calorie deficit, and the house suddenly smells delicious. My stomach is rumbling like mad.
There isn't anything I can do about this, but I have more understanding for how I put so much weight on pre Mj. We started living together in 2021 and I went from 10 stone 10lbs to 17 stone 2lbs. That 10pm meal and another few beers really piled on the pounds.
I'm glad I have mj as a 10pm meal shield for now but no idea what my long term strategy is! It smells like a curry house in here!