One of the benefits of being a 50 year old cancer survivor is that I really do not give a fig about what most people think of me 🤣.
I don’t see any of the above, I don’t feel invisible at all.
Social norms mean that people are unlikely to say ‘by god Pen, your’re looking hefty’, they are more likely to say ‘you look well, have you lost weight’, etc., etc.. I remember saying to my friend who had been on MJ (I didn’t know), ‘bloody hell you look fabulous’. I didn’t say don’t lose any more, but I thought it tbh. Not jealous, I just thought she looked really good where she was, healthy and strong.
I met someone I hadn’t seen for a while at work recently, refused a biscuit and said I was dieting and that I’d lost a stone. He said I can tell but i would never mention these things 😅.
Don’t sweat the small stuff is my life mantra.
I’ve got 0.8lb before I move into the next stone bracket. I don’t do stones generally, but I’ll take the victory when I get there. 🏆