@claudiawinklemansfringetrimmeri think just talk with her about ‘healthy’ not ‘fat’. I’ve told DD that it’s important that she eats the right foods and does activities to be healthy, to grow strong muscles, she’s a big girl, a head taller than others in her year and sturdy and she’s asked whether she has fat legs before and I’ve said no, she has strong legs, legs that carry her body around, that run and jump etc. I’ve told her I’m trying to eat better and do exercise because I need to be healthier and I want to be stronger.
For those feeling like tedium is setting in, what can you do this weekend that is different? Is there a park you can get to that you haven’t been to before? How about a local raved about vegan restaurant you’ve never tried, or a farmers market you can visit for some local seasonal veg dishes? Adventure golf, bowling, roller rink, go ape…?
We tried a hotpot restaurant a few weeks ago and it was brilliant, a completely different eating experience to anywhere we’ve tried before, for anyone not familiar, you get a big bowl of soup in a special fitting in the table that keeps heating it throughout the meal, you then get loads of small plates of ‘stuff’ - noodles, raw thinly sliced beef, mushrooms, water chestnuts, prawns… whatever you want, and you cook them in the soup at the table. It’s a family style experience, everyone dipping there chosen items in till it’s cooked and refilling their bowls, it was fun, healthy food and a bit of a novelty.
Ive found it helps to do something that gets me out of the rut, this weekend we’re heading to a Lego event at the Space Centre, I get to spend all my money in the gift shop (my favourite part of any tourist attraction) and DH and DD will build stuff out of blocks.