@Seaitoverthere , my God, you poor thing. It sounds like you've been through the wringer! I had peri symptoms start about 6yrs ago (and initially thought it was everything but peri!). So, extreme tiredness, memory fog, flushes/night sweats, periods stopping, MS aches/pains etc. Went to my GP but they didn't do anything at all. Covid arrived.
I asked GP several times after covid to help me address these problems, but they told me that it was not likely to be peri as I was too young. Didn't check me for other things. (I get it, I know how busy they are). About 3 yrs ago, I saved up and went to a private GP for a full check over (to make sure it wasn't an underlying health issue). Massive range of blood tests and other tests done - all clear. Symptoms continued, weight kept increasing. Got another full check over a year or so later - everything still clear. One of the doctors I work with suggested it could be early onset menopause (I was really worrying what on earth was going on with me). Saved and went to see a private gynaecologist, who did a third full check over to rule out other causes (again everything clear) and then put me on HRT - with tweaks every approx 3 months. Symptoms improving but shifting the weight is bloody difficult.
It's bloody awful isn't it? I'm really hoping that I'm approved and that this helps to kick start things for me. I'm scared that if I don't address this soon, I'm going to be in big trouble healthwise a few short years in the future. I'm 44, I'm a single parent and I work FT. I need to be able to keep working in my job and keep healthy for my kids. Even my colleagues have commented on the weight: not in a horrible way, but we were looking at staff pics from >6yrs ago and the difference in my appearance is marked (it would be different with a 20kg weight increase!!). I'm also well known amongst my colleague to rarely eat cake/cookies/UPF food, not take sugar/fizzy drinks, rarely take alcohol etc (I prep/batch cook stuff and bring it in to eat)....so I know it isn't diet.
Def going to start to monitor food/macros, do frequent weigh ins, ensure I have plenty of water and keep prepping/batch cooking stuff. Still waiting to hear from Zava. I've sent the pics etc that they have asked for. Hope they won't take long to check them, and I hope they approve it all!!