Some more musings from my holiday with gastric sleeve friend...
To be completely honest, since she announced she was having it done, I have probably not been the most supportive friend. Not being negative to her or anything like that but just not being there very much. I feel bad about that and know it is a reflection of my own feelings about what she has done (which are possibly a little confused🤦♀️🤷♀️). Backstory, she was always slim and athletic and then peri/menopause hit, she stopped exercising and gained some weight.
I think I felt it was unnecessary surgery, permanent and would change her lifestyle completely (not in a positive way 😬)
For reference, I am 10 weeks in on MJ and am on my second 5mg pen. Have good supression so am not eating between meals/overeating when I do but can definitely enjoy my food! Feels a bit like nirvana if I’m honest 😁
Friend seems to be full much more quickly than I am and has to eat very slowly. Obviously, the quantity of fluids she can drink is vastly reduced too and I noticed she drank about 300ml of water yesterday. All of her meals go cold as she eats so slowly. She was sick on the plane on the way here as she said she ate too quickly as we hadn't eaten for a while (we had delays).
I did ask if she had considered Ozempic or similar before such a drastic change and she pulled a revolted face and said she had - a daily tablet which had her throwing up for a week - couldn't remember the name.
I can't say I have changed my view that she did something silly (not morbidly obese, no weight related health issues, went to Istanbul and paid for it) and it will impact her hugely as she ages (early 60s now) but I have got over my selfish concerns about how it will impact ME and our social life!
Anyway, thanks to anyone who has read my judgementmal drivel. I am trying to be a better friend and get over myself, I promise!