I’m sad to see there are quite a few negative and judgmental posts about this thread elsewhere on Mumsnet. Saying we’re eating crappy food, are too stupid to understand the science behind it and lazy for taking the easy fix.
This has reinforced my decision to not tell a single soul beyond my very supportive mum and husband about this medication. Even if someone asks, I will lie.
I think it’s probably some jealousy- some slim people have worked very hard to stay slim, especially in the competitive/ highly achieving circles I’ve mixed with.
I have a horrible memory of a high flying, attractive and stylish colleague slagging off a “fat” client calling her a lazy cow etc, criticising the woman’s intellect because of her weight. I said nothing because I was more junior and I regret that. I’ve a high achieving friend who suddenly started hanging out with another friend because of her drastic weight loss. So many women have a toxic attitude towards weight management and judge us for it.
I have some great friends, but I know that some people judge fat women because they see loss of control as a character flaw … they also dislike the body positivity movement… and now they will criticise women like us because we have a BMI high enough to access to weight loss medication. I will avoid any talk of weight loss so I don’t fall into any traps.
That was all a bit deep but needed to share!