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Best wedding favour you've had!

308 replies

gemloving · 31/07/2022 16:51

Just that - let me know please ✨

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dustandroses · 14/08/2022 07:04

Wedding favours are supposed to be 5 almonds or bonbons, they are symbolic and traditional but like everything else (including this thread) it’s the competition isn’t it. The quest to have the most memorable, quirky, thoughtful, sophisticated tat. Even on this thread you have posters writing about why their favours were a cut above.

It has been a laugh out loud thread though, so pretentious.

SmallPrawnEnergy · 14/08/2022 07:08

Draughtycatflapreturns · 05/08/2022 01:44

My best favour was being pounded by the groom while the bride lauded it over her single girlfriends.

Was the favour you realising you’re human trash?

FriedasCarLoad · 14/08/2022 07:30

Best favours were edible (especially sweets or chocolate), or at a couple of weddings a caricaturist. I don't understand why some PPs hate the idea - it isn't compulsory, and is really fun.

No favours at our wedding, although there was an enormous amount of food and a free bar, so I guess any mumsnetters would have enjoyed that aspect!

BusySittingDown · 14/08/2022 07:55

Lostgerbil · 05/08/2022 20:50

I'm not really a fan of wedding favours tbh. Like lots of people say they tend to be something you don't need, that you then have to carry with you and then feel guilty if you want to give it away ect. When there is a paid bar I think a drink token is a good idea.

At our wedding we didn't have wedding favours, but made our own place settings and hand wrote a note to each guest with a personal message on the back. Where we knew the guest well (most people other than plus ones) we also thanked them for personal things they had done for us in the past (we made the place settings quite big so plenty of space). We had a big wedding, so it took a while to write them, but I think people appreciated it.

Hope no one thought we were cheap for not buying wedding favours! I just wanted something personal and it was a nice opportunity to thank the people who meant so much to us. We sent thank you cards for our gifts and to say thank you for coming, with a group photo from the day, but the messages on the place settings were meant to be more personal and people could easily recycle it if they didn't want it.

We did buy an aged appropriate present for all the children though. We hoped it would help keep them entertained during the speeches!

@Lostgerbil, I think you win! That's absolutely lovely, such a lovely thought and must have taken you forever.

Bath bombs and scented candles, although lovely - a lot of people are allergic to bath bombs, I like scented candles but my DH has a strong aversion to them so I can't burn them at home. I always feel a bit disappointed when I receive one as a gift as I can't use it! So favours like those I would probably leave behind.

IceStationZebra · 14/08/2022 07:56

Worst was a wooden heart with my name scratched into it - also worked as a place setting but now it just clutters up my jewellery box.

I think they’re all a bit naff really, although I like the retro value of sugared almonds.

GretaVanFleet · 14/08/2022 20:26

Just remembered two weddings.
Wedding 1 had no favours but did have a free bar, a massive buffet and a hog roast.
Wedding 2 had glasses that were bigger than a shot glass but smaller than a tumbler had the couple’s initials either side of the crossed irons logo for West Ham ⚒filled with haribo and a small tube of bubble mixture for blowing bubbles (do you see what they did there) the buffet was nearly gone by the time the last two tables went up.
So in the spirit of this thread, I’m blaming everything good at wedding 1 and everything bad at wedding 2 on the favours or lack of.

cocktailclub · 14/08/2022 22:22

I love it how some posters talk about the favours at their own weddings as being well received and going down a treat. Exactly how would you know, people were probably being polite or so hungry or bored they used them.
They all sound pretty naff and mostly self indulgent apart from the charity donations.
Agree just like party bags.
Just save your money and spend it on things people care about like a donation or enough food your guests aren't hungry.

Johnnysgirl · 15/08/2022 15:50

Haribo and bubbles...
Exactly what you'd expect to find in a 5 year old's party bag 🤦‍♀️
What are these people on?! Bet they'd also tell you it went down a storm with their guests 😂

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