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VB's dress on Mrs Burnham - horrible

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TheBlueKoala · 20/07/2026 19:42

I'm not a fashion expert and I really don't care much for it but this was the most horrible dress I have ever seen. Even on a coathangar bodytype like VB herself it wouldn't look good but on an average body it's just hideous. That's 850 £ unwisely spent. She could and should have gotten a dress from M&S for 50£ and actually looked good.
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/fashion/people/middle-class-mrs-burnham-dress/

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WeirdyBeardyMarrowBabyLady · 20/07/2026 20:51

Should she have worn something that hides her stomach do people think? Would that have been better? Or would there then just be a need to find something else to criticise about her. By women for women and all that.

BrownBookshelf · 20/07/2026 20:51

Jane379 · 20/07/2026 20:49

Were people criticising her dress? I don't remember her dressing particularly poorly

Anyway, I think it'd stupid to criticise either woman for their clothing. As long as the clothing is suitable for a formal occasion, what's the issue? They're not models, or even public figures.

The husbands of Theresa May or Liz Truss (admittedly not there long) never had their style criticised.

Excellent point. This is about sexism, not politics. Women who are politicians or married to politicians of all stripes are subject to criticisms about their appearance and failure to get their names right that their male equivalents aren't.

ScarlettOYara · 20/07/2026 20:51

SurreySenMum26 · 20/07/2026 20:47

What I mean is he is normally very informal to appear a man of the people. That's blown out of the water as being down to earth I'd your wife wears a £850 dress. Bit like my mate who keeps telling me she is poor driving her Range Rover living in her 6 bed detached house. Sorry I can't relate that to working class life who ever earns it.

It's not "blown out of the water". Judge AB by his politics, not his wife's dress - or worse - her body shape in said dress.

TheStateOfThat · 20/07/2026 20:52

LocalHobo · 20/07/2026 20:49

Wow! I've actually never seen VB label worn by a 'normal' woman and I like it. Most females in VB look so asexual but this shouts real woman.

So women who are less curvy are not real women. Right. But then we have Andy telling us men can be women. 🤣

TheBlueKoala · 20/07/2026 20:52

Ihateknowingthis · 20/07/2026 20:39

She can wear whatever she likes.... but this doesn't flatter her at all.
Too small, too expensive for the look, and a poor fit.
I did read that she has had a double mastectomy but this dress did her no favours... maybe somebody will take her in hand and help her show herself at her best.

I see some bigger ladies that look fab cos they know what to wear.

Exactly this ! Anyone can look fabulous in a nice dress well cut suited to their morphology. This was not a nice dress and didn't suit her at all. I can't believe all the posters being outraged about the discussion about that. I'm close in age and morphology with the lady in question and this thread was something so superficial as treating a choice of dress. Ofcourse the escalating war in Iran is more important to think about. Or restricted abortion rights in many US states. Or the many unnecessary deaths in UK maternities due to them being understaffed etc etc. Sometimes it feels good to just think about something completely superficial like a dress...

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ExOptimist · 20/07/2026 20:52

Livelovebehappy · 20/07/2026 20:46

But surely a little bit of self awareness comes with the role of wife to the PM? Of course she’s her own person, but needs to be aware of the platform she is on. Her dh is announcing how he’s a man of the people, wants to help the ordinary man on the street, get the homeless off the streets, but his wife to his left supporting him is wearing a VB dress costing £850. Way out of the ordinary person’s budget.

But why should she dress like she earns £25k when she's a highly successful woman. She's the wife of the PM and presumably earns very well herself, I'm surprised for such a day she didn't spend more to be honest.

bert3400 · 20/07/2026 20:52

Why do people have to be so vicious. It's bad enough the media will criticize her every move I'm sure, OP you don't have to sink so low

RosemaryMintSageThyme · 20/07/2026 20:53

Agree! It was ugly. What a hypocrite family, feed the hungry, help the homeless, project for the poor, but here’s my wife in her £850 dress.

What’s wrong with M&S?

Agree it’s a superficial decision, “which dress do I wear?” and superficially, the style and colour did not suit her and I do not like VB as a designer. But come on, you are supporting the man in the most famous role in this country after the King. I don’t much like how they presented themselves, too much The Greatest Showman and his circus in town.

bafta16 · 20/07/2026 20:53

Can't stand VB.

Hope Andy sorts summat out sharpish.

keepincool · 20/07/2026 20:53

TheStateOfThat · 20/07/2026 20:37

Women can be men shaped as well…..Andy told us that.

Now that's funny! 🤣🤣🤣

MissFancyDay · 20/07/2026 20:53

ThisOneLife · 20/07/2026 20:41

“had” ?
Are you saying she no longer does?

Typo...she had another odd outfit on today.

SaySomethingMan · 20/07/2026 20:54

Would not want to comment on her body but she looks like she’s a gorgeous shape.

Your thread is very mean spirited.

Women go through enough without being attacked by other women.

TheStateOfThat · 20/07/2026 20:54

RosemaryMintSageThyme · 20/07/2026 20:53

Agree! It was ugly. What a hypocrite family, feed the hungry, help the homeless, project for the poor, but here’s my wife in her £850 dress.

What’s wrong with M&S?

Agree it’s a superficial decision, “which dress do I wear?” and superficially, the style and colour did not suit her and I do not like VB as a designer. But come on, you are supporting the man in the most famous role in this country after the King. I don’t much like how they presented themselves, too much The Greatest Showman and his circus in town.

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Or Primark? Maybe Sainsbury’s? They were selling dresses in B&M not long ago. That would have done.

ExOptimist · 20/07/2026 20:54

RosemaryMintSageThyme · 20/07/2026 20:53

Agree! It was ugly. What a hypocrite family, feed the hungry, help the homeless, project for the poor, but here’s my wife in her £850 dress.

What’s wrong with M&S?

Agree it’s a superficial decision, “which dress do I wear?” and superficially, the style and colour did not suit her and I do not like VB as a designer. But come on, you are supporting the man in the most famous role in this country after the King. I don’t much like how they presented themselves, too much The Greatest Showman and his circus in town.

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You can believe in all those things and still be a high earner you know. Hardly hypocritical.

Peopleshouldhavetails · 20/07/2026 20:55

It’s a dress - do you all really go about your day judging what people wear?
No wonder this country is crippling with anxiety.

People are allowed to wear what they want, you are allowed to have an opinion of course but how nasty to start a thread about it so everyone can pile on.

Just be nice and focus on important things

Ladybowes · 20/07/2026 20:55

Many of the posts on this thread sum up what I hate about Mumsnet. Mean nasty people with nothing better to do than try to bring other women down

ScarlettOYara · 20/07/2026 20:55

WeirdyBeardyMarrowBabyLady · 20/07/2026 20:51

Should she have worn something that hides her stomach do people think? Would that have been better? Or would there then just be a need to find something else to criticise about her. By women for women and all that.

Something else. I read an article by Hillary Clinton in which she said running for president would mean that her clothes and hair would be scrutinised in a way the male candidates would not. She was correct.

Barbarella73 · 20/07/2026 20:55

BeeBerry · 20/07/2026 19:55

It's fine. It absolutely doesn't deserve your hyperbolic description. She looks perfectly nice in a simple, understated dress. Wildly overreacting to women's clothing is sexist and boring.

Yes, all of this.

plasticplate · 20/07/2026 20:55

It was appropriate for the occasion.

Jane379 · 20/07/2026 20:55

TheBlueKoala · 20/07/2026 20:52

Exactly this ! Anyone can look fabulous in a nice dress well cut suited to their morphology. This was not a nice dress and didn't suit her at all. I can't believe all the posters being outraged about the discussion about that. I'm close in age and morphology with the lady in question and this thread was something so superficial as treating a choice of dress. Ofcourse the escalating war in Iran is more important to think about. Or restricted abortion rights in many US states. Or the many unnecessary deaths in UK maternities due to them being understaffed etc etc. Sometimes it feels good to just think about something completely superficial like a dress...

It feels unfair though as Ms Burnham isn't a public figure herself. It's different to criticising someone like an actress at the Oscars or Met Gala, for instance.

Barethe · 20/07/2026 20:55

She's a warm toned Spring wearing a dress in a colour meant for a cool toned Summer. Her hair is also the wrong shade of blonde. If you look at photos of her with more golden tones in her hair she looks far more beautiful.

However it clearly isn't the most horrible dress ever. it just wasn't her ideal choice of styling. She still looked perfectly nice,

banmusk · 20/07/2026 20:56

Blueyblueyblue · 20/07/2026 20:02

I was struck by how unflattering that dress was.

Me too, there are numerous other pics of her online looking cool & fab.

myeyelashes · 20/07/2026 20:56

Let's be honest - the first thing you see is her belly because of the colour and the bad fit. I wouldn't go out looking like that but if she's happy with it then 🤷‍♀️.

amargaritaplease · 20/07/2026 20:57

TheBlueKoala · 20/07/2026 20:52

Exactly this ! Anyone can look fabulous in a nice dress well cut suited to their morphology. This was not a nice dress and didn't suit her at all. I can't believe all the posters being outraged about the discussion about that. I'm close in age and morphology with the lady in question and this thread was something so superficial as treating a choice of dress. Ofcourse the escalating war in Iran is more important to think about. Or restricted abortion rights in many US states. Or the many unnecessary deaths in UK maternities due to them being understaffed etc etc. Sometimes it feels good to just think about something completely superficial like a dress...

No you sound unpleasant

DontrockthecaravanGeoffrey · 20/07/2026 20:57

"maybe somebody will take her in hand"

Or maybe she's a grown woman who has developed a style she enjoys and doesn't want to be taken in hand.