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The royal family

PR disasters thread 23

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BigWillyLittleTodger · 11/07/2026 23:05

Let the games continue…….

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HoldMyWine · 14/07/2026 12:50

bluegreygreen · 14/07/2026 11:14

You could be right @Ohpleeeease.

Equally, even if uncomfortable, some people won't use anecdotes such as the 'hilarious' one reported here
https://archive.ph/TXxX8

What the hell is he wittering on about here? He’s just not funny or quick enough to have bants with the likes of Marler.
Responding to an anecdote about the 36-year-old Marler’s bowel control, the Duke said: “Normally once you’re 40 or older, never trust a fart. But you’re young and you, on the M25, sh-t your pants via a fart? That’s hilarious.”

Starryfifty · 14/07/2026 12:51

I don't get the Charles Spencer relationship? I never knew they were close and he hosted them at Althorp. Does he have grandchildren? Maybe he wants the hamlets to have a relationship with them ?

jeffgoldblum · 14/07/2026 12:58

MrsGusset · 14/07/2026 12:26

May I present U with a rosette for managing to remember that Jeff.

Why thankyou @MrsGusset! It’s always a pleasure to have my stalwart status recognised and rewarded!

NormalAuntFanny · 14/07/2026 12:59

WhyamIinahandcartandwherearewegoing · 13/07/2026 17:17

Every journey of a thousand miles begins with one footstep,' the source added.

As if anyone in palace pr would come out with this sort of psycho-pish.

We all know where that little nugget of therapy speak came from…..

Not entirely on topic but isn't the quote "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step"

And yes I let my pedantry rip without checking on Google first :-)

LifeIsTooShort247 · 14/07/2026 13:00

Lunde · 14/07/2026 12:32

She could be supportive without turning it into the Meghan show. I think it's not so much whether she goes or not - it's more that she seems unable to attend events in support of her husband and play a secondary role to Harry. She always has to be the centre of attention - front and centre of the photos - like the cringy Sentebale polo match where she refused to let Sophie C present the trophy or even stand next to Harry, gripping onto him like a vice. Or that hilarious polo match in Santa Barbara where she refused to let go of the trophy and pushed her way through the middle of the team for the photo. There are many more examples - "leading the troops" by marching in hot pants, grabbing microphones, making sure she gets on the stage/into photos by hanging on to "her man" like a teenager .... etc etc 🙄

Compare to Sunday at Wimbledon. Did we see William pushing his way into the prize giving? Did he demand to stand in the centre of the photos clutching onto Kate? No he didn't because he knew it was her patronage and her day and was happy to just be supportive.

Thanks for replying properly rather than just dismissing what I said or assuming I'm a bot or using AI. It's just how I write. I know people on here like evidence, so it only took me a few minutes to find the thread and the quotes.

Whether Meghan "pushed her way" into photos is really a matter of opinion. None of us were there. We've all been in group photos where people get shuffled about and someone says, "No, stand there instead." We don't know what was actually happening. Personally, I'm not into dissecting every clip, photo or facial expression. So much of it is open to interpretation, and people often see what they expect to see.

My point to the previous poster wasn't about what Meghan does when she's there. It was about the claim that by not turning up she isn't supporting Harry.
When she goes, she's accused of making it all about herself. When she doesn't, she's criticised for not supporting him. Whatever she does seems to be the wrong choice.

You mentioned Meghan standing in the middle of the polo team photo as an example of her making it about herself. But how is that different from Catherine standing in the middle of a polo team photo at the polo chartiy event William's was at? I'm not saying either of them did anything wrong. I'm just questioning why one is criticised for it and the other generally isn't. That's why I do wonder if there are double standards.

IcedPurple · 14/07/2026 13:02

Starryfifty · 14/07/2026 12:51

I don't get the Charles Spencer relationship? I never knew they were close and he hosted them at Althorp. Does he have grandchildren? Maybe he wants the hamlets to have a relationship with them ?

Earl Spencer seems to have fallen out with his own daughters, famously being absent at their weddings. I doubt he's that concerned about his grandchildren's future relationships.

I have some suspicions that the whole visit may have been about the rumoured 'Diana documentary' on NF. Perhaps the Earl is going to be a part of it and that explains the Althorp stay? As far as I'm aware Harry has never been close to him and his family, so having them stay does seem a bit odd.

Starryfifty · 14/07/2026 13:13

IcedPurple · 14/07/2026 13:02

Earl Spencer seems to have fallen out with his own daughters, famously being absent at their weddings. I doubt he's that concerned about his grandchildren's future relationships.

I have some suspicions that the whole visit may have been about the rumoured 'Diana documentary' on NF. Perhaps the Earl is going to be a part of it and that explains the Althorp stay? As far as I'm aware Harry has never been close to him and his family, so having them stay does seem a bit odd.

I think CS is smart enough to know it's a busted flush. How many documentaries / films have there been ?? Only thing that might generate interest is if PW was also involved and it was focusing on what kind of parent she was etc but PW wouldn't touch it.

BigWillyLittleTodger · 14/07/2026 13:21

This will never not be funny 🤣 the polo guy had her number! The claw tries to grab his award and he’s not having any of it, he rewards her by making sure his elbow keeps her out of the shot, well done that man!

https://youtube.com/shorts/LGf_HJXZZDs?is=9DtQXBN2gMzRjt5w

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IcedPurple · 14/07/2026 13:21

Starryfifty · 14/07/2026 13:13

I think CS is smart enough to know it's a busted flush. How many documentaries / films have there been ?? Only thing that might generate interest is if PW was also involved and it was focusing on what kind of parent she was etc but PW wouldn't touch it.

No William wouldn't go anywhere near this proposed 'documentary' and would likely be quite angry about it. Didn't he (and Harry) say back in 2017 that they wouldn't be speaking publicly about Diana again? Not sure Earl Spencer would want to antagonise the future King for the sake of a crap NF 'documentary', but hard to know really.

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Starryfifty · 14/07/2026 13:25

BigWillyLittleTodger · 14/07/2026 13:21

This will never not be funny 🤣 the polo guy had her number! The claw tries to grab his award and he’s not having any of it, he rewards her by making sure his elbow keeps her out of the shot, well done that man!

https://youtube.com/shorts/LGf_HJXZZDs?is=9DtQXBN2gMzRjt5w

Why on earth would she grab his award??? She looks so awkward

Vespanest · 14/07/2026 13:25

I do think the marler interview is a risk with very little reward, especially as it's of British interest. These yearly weeks of exposure are not going to have the impact Harry wants. Invictus next year could have a better chance but once he's back in the US these events in hindsight rarely move the needle.

Ohpleeeease · 14/07/2026 13:28

Whether Meghan "pushed her way" into photos is really a matter of opinion. None of us were there. We've all been in group photos where people get shuffled about and someone says, "No, stand there instead." We don't know what was actually happening.

We do know though, @LifeIsTooShort247 because Sophie Chandauka later described what had happened and it was entirely consistent with how onlookers had viewed the Markle manoeuvre. Nobody else on that podium (apart from H because he’s scared shitless of her) has endorsed MM’s version of events.

On the subject of double standards, you ignore the fact that MM and the PoW do not have equal status. They aren’t judged by the same standards, why would they be?

But for the sake of accuracy, the PoW was presenting the winning trophy at the polo so of course she would be in a central position, she had an actual role. MM wasn’t on the stage for any other reason than to get herself seen.

jeffgoldblum · 14/07/2026 13:30

Ohpleeeease · 14/07/2026 13:28

Whether Meghan "pushed her way" into photos is really a matter of opinion. None of us were there. We've all been in group photos where people get shuffled about and someone says, "No, stand there instead." We don't know what was actually happening.

We do know though, @LifeIsTooShort247 because Sophie Chandauka later described what had happened and it was entirely consistent with how onlookers had viewed the Markle manoeuvre. Nobody else on that podium (apart from H because he’s scared shitless of her) has endorsed MM’s version of events.

On the subject of double standards, you ignore the fact that MM and the PoW do not have equal status. They aren’t judged by the same standards, why would they be?

But for the sake of accuracy, the PoW was presenting the winning trophy at the polo so of course she would be in a central position, she had an actual role. MM wasn’t on the stage for any other reason than to get herself seen.

@Ohpleeeease, I’d be flattered but not interested if it was me.

Ohpleeeease · 14/07/2026 13:38

I did say I was holding my nose when I posted about the Marler podcast. I’m increasingly frustrated with the slack that people cut H which allows him to think he can get away with stuff. I’m less interested in the podcast silliness and more concerned with how he throws his weight around when he doesn’t get his way.

The media fawning over Invictus Harry does not address the Harry who reduced Angela Kelly to tears or who demanded the name of whoever made the original decision about his security.

Alison Hammond’s behaviour was bizarre btw, I think she may need her HRT adjusting.

Ohpleeeease · 14/07/2026 13:39

jeffgoldblum · 14/07/2026 13:30

@Ohpleeeease, I’d be flattered but not interested if it was me.

Noted, Jeff!

HoldMyWine · 14/07/2026 13:43

Starryfifty · 14/07/2026 13:25

Why on earth would she grab his award??? She looks so awkward

So funny. Whoever that guy is deserves another award for putting her in her place.

DJPJ · 14/07/2026 13:44

bluegreygreen · 14/07/2026 11:14

You could be right @Ohpleeeease.

Equally, even if uncomfortable, some people won't use anecdotes such as the 'hilarious' one reported here
https://archive.ph/TXxX8

“Responding to an anecdote about the 36-year-old Marler’s bowel control, the Duke said: “Normally once you’re 40 or older, never trust a fart. But you’re young and you, on the M25, sh-t your pants via a fart? That’s hilarious.”

That's so gross.🤢

This bit is interesting tho:

The Duke joked about his friendship with Marler’s fellow former rugby player James Haskell, who has his own podcast with Mike Tindall, the Duke’s cousin-in-law. Speaking on stage during a live version of The Good, The Bad and The Rugby at Hay Festival, Tindall recently referred to when Prince Harry “used to be fun”.

BigWillyLittleTodger · 14/07/2026 13:44

Starryfifty · 14/07/2026 13:25

Why on earth would she grab his award??? She looks so awkward

Because she has to be the centre of attention at all times, fortunately that young chap was having none of it, you could see the irritation on his face, the elbow move was inspired.

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jeffgoldblum · 14/07/2026 13:48

Ohpleeeease · 14/07/2026 13:39

Noted, Jeff!

I wanted to say I fully agree with your post about Harry always getting away with his bad behaviour!!
why more isn’t being made of the white pill reveal is shocking!
we know if this was any other royal or indeed one nameless individual that the howls of outrage would be something to behold!
but nothing! 🤷‍♀️

DJPJ · 14/07/2026 13:59

jeffgoldblum · 14/07/2026 12:10

I admit to racking my brain but I’m drawing a blank on this name!!

edit , I think I’ve got it!! , ignore me brain slower than usual! 🙄

Edited

Hilariously it also translates in French as fruit-bat, fox or shark as well as reddish / red haired - wonder if it was PH all along….. all very ‘Sunset Beach’

Lunde · 14/07/2026 14:02

BigWillyLittleTodger · 14/07/2026 13:44

Because she has to be the centre of attention at all times, fortunately that young chap was having none of it, you could see the irritation on his face, the elbow move was inspired.

I used to have my own version of the elbow move when I commuted by tube and men used to try and press themselves too close.

Lunde · 14/07/2026 14:14

LifeIsTooShort247 · 14/07/2026 13:00

Thanks for replying properly rather than just dismissing what I said or assuming I'm a bot or using AI. It's just how I write. I know people on here like evidence, so it only took me a few minutes to find the thread and the quotes.

Whether Meghan "pushed her way" into photos is really a matter of opinion. None of us were there. We've all been in group photos where people get shuffled about and someone says, "No, stand there instead." We don't know what was actually happening. Personally, I'm not into dissecting every clip, photo or facial expression. So much of it is open to interpretation, and people often see what they expect to see.

My point to the previous poster wasn't about what Meghan does when she's there. It was about the claim that by not turning up she isn't supporting Harry.
When she goes, she's accused of making it all about herself. When she doesn't, she's criticised for not supporting him. Whatever she does seems to be the wrong choice.

You mentioned Meghan standing in the middle of the polo team photo as an example of her making it about herself. But how is that different from Catherine standing in the middle of a polo team photo at the polo chartiy event William's was at? I'm not saying either of them did anything wrong. I'm just questioning why one is criticised for it and the other generally isn't. That's why I do wonder if there are double standards.

But why was Meghan even there at the Sentebale polo? She had RSVP:d that she was not attending. She wasn't presenting the trophy - Sophie C was ... so why would she refuse to step sideways?

This is what people mean - Harry's polo trophy - Harry's charity but she takes it upon herself to decide where people stand and bosses around the Chair of the Sentebale Board, while gripping onto Harry to put herself at the centre of the photo.

This constant overstepping as Harry's wife (rather than any official capacity in the charity) is what aggravates people and turns these events into the HAM show and overshadows the actual charity. IMHO - if Meghan had just decided to join the team and Sophie C onstage and just stood respectfully on the end - I doubt it would have been controversial. But literally ordering the charity's chair about so she can stand in the centre is very odd behaviour.

Ohpleeeease · 14/07/2026 14:14

jeffgoldblum · 14/07/2026 13:48

I wanted to say I fully agree with your post about Harry always getting away with his bad behaviour!!
why more isn’t being made of the white pill reveal is shocking!
we know if this was any other royal or indeed one nameless individual that the howls of outrage would be something to behold!
but nothing! 🤷‍♀️

I know, I found that anecdote genuinely chilling. I don’t know why the DM hasn’t made much more of it, unless CG just wants the episode quietly buried because it’s part of her wild past and digging that up might result in more embarrassment for her.

There’s no doubt H has been lucky though.

noonames · 14/07/2026 14:15

DJPJ · 14/07/2026 09:53

Oh I wonder if the reddish one is back in town - I recall them boasting that they had two computer screens running simultaneously to check back on RF thread posts and to be able to pull and repost their saved evidence (mostly print media montages). Seemed to have disappeared when they shat their pants in public by leading the ‘Where’s Kate’ campaign on here.

Back with a different name I think - too cowardly to stand by their nasty Kate posts once the diagnosis was made public.

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