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The royal family

PR Disasters Chapter 15

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FenellaFeldman · 31/05/2026 22:26

The saga continues

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JudgeJ · 07/06/2026 22:31

LaMarschallin · 07/06/2026 11:57

My father had a job with an American company in the late 70s so we lived abroad, not in the US but amongst an American community, for a couple of years.
A frozen silence ensued when, while we were planning an early start to a trip with some friends, my mother invited one of the husbands (who was boasting about finding getting up early easy) to "knock me up in the morning"...
It certainly overshadowed my embarrassment at mentioning a rubber to one of my school friends.

On a road trip in the USA years ago we were avoiding the I95 and travelling through very rural Georgia, we stopped for fuel and OH went into the shop to pay. Youngest child followed, stood just inside the door and called to her Daddy across the shop full of tough looking Georgians 'Daddy, ask if they sell rubbers,we wore our one out last night'.
He later said he was sure some of the bystanders reached for their sidearms, but he managed to explain the confusion, that they had spent a couple of hours drawing the sights and erasing errors!

YouputthetwatinKathleen · 07/06/2026 22:36

RecoIIectionsMayVary · 07/06/2026 22:30

I wasn't going to add (as it was me that caused the derail, but I did try not to by directing it to the poster)
But Boy can definitely be derogative in the UK. Not the term boys and girls but the way in some profession they say ' I will send The Boy,' it dehumanises and belittles often a young person who is a man, but due to inexperience is called the boy. I've seen it a lot.

Which profession uses "Boy" as a belittling term for a junior employee?

Rhaidimiddim · 07/06/2026 22:46

RecoIIectionsMayVary · 07/06/2026 22:30

I wasn't going to add (as it was me that caused the derail, but I did try not to by directing it to the poster)
But Boy can definitely be derogative in the UK. Not the term boys and girls but the way in some profession they say ' I will send The Boy,' it dehumanises and belittles often a young person who is a man, but due to inexperience is called the boy. I've seen it a lot.

I have never heard the term "I will send the boy" used in the UK to refer to anyone who is not actually just a boy (as in, not an adult human male).

LondonRidge · 07/06/2026 22:57

Stop going off topic pls it’s hard enough to keep up with these as it is!

Recklessismymiddlename · 08/06/2026 07:31

JudgeJ · 07/06/2026 22:05

I remember the Who ha over Peter selling his first wedding to Hello, but it was a different time and place.

I seem to recall Zara being asked if her wedding would be in Hello, she had already done a feature with them when she lived with the jockey, and her reaction was along the lines No, that caused such a stink!

It was very very tacky.

MyAutumnCrow · 08/06/2026 07:52

So Peter Phillips and Autumn Kelly sold their wedding spread to Hello.

But Harry doesn’t know anyone who would sell private details to the media … no-one at all. He told the court during the ANL case.

IcedPurple · 08/06/2026 08:18

JudgeJ · 07/06/2026 22:05

I remember the Who ha over Peter selling his first wedding to Hello, but it was a different time and place.

I seem to recall Zara being asked if her wedding would be in Hello, she had already done a feature with them when she lived with the jockey, and her reaction was along the lines No, that caused such a stink!

She and Mike had no problem selling baby pictures to Hello however.

That's even tackier than wedding pics.

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JaneJeffer · 08/06/2026 08:19

RecoIIectionsMayVary · 07/06/2026 22:30

I wasn't going to add (as it was me that caused the derail, but I did try not to by directing it to the poster)
But Boy can definitely be derogative in the UK. Not the term boys and girls but the way in some profession they say ' I will send The Boy,' it dehumanises and belittles often a young person who is a man, but due to inexperience is called the boy. I've seen it a lot.

What I think of when someone says “The Boy”

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JSMill · 08/06/2026 08:32

I think the reason why there was a stink over PP selling his photos was a lot the family didn’t realise and thought they were letting their hair down behind closed doors. Did the Queen really not know?

IcedPurple · 08/06/2026 08:39

JSMill · 08/06/2026 08:32

I think the reason why there was a stink over PP selling his photos was a lot the family didn’t realise and thought they were letting their hair down behind closed doors. Did the Queen really not know?

Any event where the Queen was present would be locked down and have massive security. It's not like a 'Hello' magazine could just stroll in and take pics of the royals knocking back the brandy on the sly. Of course, it might have been assumed that they were just 'normal' photographers and that the photos would be private. But surely the royal security would have checked them out in advance and know exactly who they were?

Peter and Zara have always taken care to protect their relationship with the senior royals. As indeed have Hello magazine. I find it hard to think they'd publish potentially embarrassing photos of the Queen partying, but I do wonder what else could be in that 100 (!) page special?

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MyAutumnCrow · 08/06/2026 09:29

It is a bit mind-boggling that Peter Phillips and Autumn Kelly apparently didn't think ever to mention that they were expecting Hello! photographer(s) and a writer(s) at the wedding reception, having done a lucrative deal allowing publication of said photos in an extensive spread. And as you say, @IcedPurple, very odd that these Hello! people weren't checked out.

Did Peter Phillips downplay it, do you think @JSMill? 'One or two dignified photographs, granny, that's all.' Were people further misled at the reception? 'They'll be finished up soon - we just want some shots for our album.'

Even at my family events, that level of intrusion by a photographer would be noticed and stopped. But all this was ok with the royal family 'privately' in attandance, with their protection officers? Really makes you wonder how Peter Phillips pulled it off.

I'd also wonder why someone as apparently meticulous as Princess Anne didn't think to ask about the photographer's contract and the payment amount. A magazine didn't hand over half a million quid back then for a few tasteful photos.

But most of all, it says to me that Peter knew that whatever he did, after a routine telling-off he would be forgiven by granny and mama. And probably the others. And that cash money was more necessary to him that protecting their feelings and their blushes. Maybe that explains Anne's less-than-optimal and unphotogenic outfit for this wedding. And Sarah Chatto's and her daughter's. Could be a big F* You to Peter.

StrawberryWasp · 08/06/2026 09:40

I read that Kate attended Peter's first wedding without William who was on service somewhere?

It was Chelseas first family engagement and the girlfriends stuck together for support.
Apparently there are photos in Hello of them on the dance floor together.

I'd like to see those released again and watch Monteicito explode 🤣

MyAutumnCrow · 08/06/2026 09:42

StrawberryWasp · 08/06/2026 09:40

I read that Kate attended Peter's first wedding without William who was on service somewhere?

It was Chelseas first family engagement and the girlfriends stuck together for support.
Apparently there are photos in Hello of them on the dance floor together.

I'd like to see those released again and watch Monteicito explode 🤣

Are these still on the internet or have they been scrubbed?

StrawberryWasp · 08/06/2026 09:44

Good Times 😬

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Mylovelygreendress · 08/06/2026 09:44

StrawberryWasp · 08/06/2026 09:40

I read that Kate attended Peter's first wedding without William who was on service somewhere?

It was Chelseas first family engagement and the girlfriends stuck together for support.
Apparently there are photos in Hello of them on the dance floor together.

I'd like to see those released again and watch Monteicito explode 🤣

William went to a close friend’s wedding in Africa so Catherine attended without him .

StrawberryWasp · 08/06/2026 09:45

I've found one of them at the wedding.
No dancing ones though.

I guess someone might need to get hold of the copy of the Hello to see all the photos?

StrawberryWasp · 08/06/2026 09:46

Mylovelygreendress · 08/06/2026 09:44

William went to a close friend’s wedding in Africa so Catherine attended without him .

Ah thanks!

Cocolapew · 08/06/2026 09:51

There was one of Catherine dancing on X last night, I don't know who posted it though.

StrawberryWasp · 08/06/2026 09:53

Looks like they may be on tictok which I can't access.
But got a screen shot:

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YouputthetwatinKathleen · 08/06/2026 09:54

StrawberryWasp · 08/06/2026 09:53

Looks like they may be on tictok which I can't access.
But got a screen shot:

Gosh, Chelsy's dress there reminds me of Meghan's tumbling pigeon dress.

StrawberryWasp · 08/06/2026 09:56

It's really hard to believe that Harry was miserable as The Spare and mistreated by his awful family back in those days.

He obviously really liked Kate, and Kate and Chelsea got on well.

He's totally rewritten history. Its so sad.

StrawberryWasp · 08/06/2026 09:59

It also disproves the lie that Kate is cold and standoffish.

Only when she senses she needs her guard up it seems.

She's obviously enjoys having a laugh and letting her hair down when among friends or people she trusts.

YouputthetwatinKathleen · 08/06/2026 10:04

StrawberryWasp · 08/06/2026 09:56

It's really hard to believe that Harry was miserable as The Spare and mistreated by his awful family back in those days.

He obviously really liked Kate, and Kate and Chelsea got on well.

He's totally rewritten history. Its so sad.

Yes, if you look at google images, there are loads of pictures of the 3 of them at that wedding laughing uproariously.

Thedom · 08/06/2026 10:07

There are some in this article

rebeccastarrbrown.com/2017/05/17/peter-phillips-autumn-kelly-hello-magazine/

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