I almost feel a bit sorry for her, she came into the RF without Harry making protocol/history/traditions really clear to her and she floundered in an environment she had absolutely no control over
I don’t have any sympathy for her whatsoever, the RF offered Sophie to guide her plus Susan Hussey and the Queens Equerry Major Nana Kofi Twumasi-Ankrah, the latter Meghan was apparently “insulted” by according to Omid Scobie, fancy being insulted by being offered the help of a black man, one could even interpret that as Meghan being racist. She was offered more help than any other royal bride and she turned it all down apparently saying anything she needed to know she could ask Harry. Meghan isn’t some helpless child, most people with average intelligence would make it their priority to learn about the company or institution they were joining so either Meghan is of low intelligence or is completely up herself thinking she knows best, probably a combination of the two.
They should have had a 2 or 3 year long engagement so she got her feet wet before committing fully, and I equally blame the RF and Harry for that.
The RF had no choice, I’m sure that’s what they wanted but can you imagine how that would have been interpreted by Harry and Meghan? They would without doubt have taken that as Meghan being othered and the RF being racist, no other royal bride was expected to be engaged for 2 or 3 years. William did suggest Harry slow down and we all know how Harry reacted, he hit the roof with William, I don’t blame the RF at all, they were between a rock and a hard place, it’s them I feel sorry for.