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William's non attendance to important events

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Spectre8 · 20/08/2025 07:33

Since there is a flurry of discussion on another thread its probably best to create a thread for it to take place here and not derail another one.

So William is not attending a number of important events the recent one being the VJ day..lots of you think he should have after all he is the future King and if he can't make time for these things then it begs the question what is the point of them?

So discuss away...what should he turning up to, what is his actual role if he starts to not do these types of things...

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Delphigirl · 20/08/2025 14:04

Aethelredtheunsteady · 20/08/2025 13:03

The Wales family have been skiing this year and on a billionaires yacht in Greece. Now they’re off to summer in Scotland. That’s more rest and recuperation than vast swathes of the population will get.

You forgot the trip to the mustique in the early months of the year

jeffgoldblum · 20/08/2025 14:04

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 14:01

I don’t know what the accusation is here but I find it utterly bizarre! I’ve not posted on the RF threads before, I commented on this one because I’m bored at work and it popped up on my active thread!

Again why do you automatically think this has anything to do with you?
main character syndrome?

jeffgoldblum · 20/08/2025 14:05

Tutorpuzzle · 20/08/2025 14:01

You are the literal opposite of calm, @jeffgoldblum , and people who like a reasonable debate don’t seem to be rising to you. Which seems to be annoying you further.

🤣🤣 you are really making me laugh!
thanks 🙏

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 14:06

jeffgoldblum · 20/08/2025 14:04

Again why do you automatically think this has anything to do with you?
main character syndrome?

Seeing this conversation continued from one where you “accused” me of being pro-Sussex, it’s a natural conclusion for one to draw.

Nevertheless, I await some actual good debate again, because I am still bored!

jeffgoldblum · 20/08/2025 14:08

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 14:06

Seeing this conversation continued from one where you “accused” me of being pro-Sussex, it’s a natural conclusion for one to draw.

Nevertheless, I await some actual good debate again, because I am still bored!

Do quote my post where I accused you of being “pro Sussex” ?
in fact I have not used “Sussex” on this thread at all !
I will be waiting.

SpidersAreShitheads · 20/08/2025 14:08

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 14:00

Like many others have pointed out, they’ve spent the last 15 years trying to say how they’re just like any other family. When they were in Anglesey they tried it on, that Kate was like any other forces wife (I am not begrudging the work that William did. It was good, but she wasn’t like another other forces wife). Then they had the children and it was all “oh I wish we knew how to deal with toddler tantrums!” and claiming they were like any other parents. If you’re going to pretend you’re like a normal family, people will expect you to behave like one.

I don’t think they ever tried to pretend they were EXACTLY like the average family, just that they were more relatable and shared some similar battles.

I mean, I’ve certainly never had to get an unruly 5yr old to behave while attending an event for the monarch with millions of eyes watching……but I absolutely have had to get children of that age to sit quietly on other occasions.

Different but relatable challenges that transcend wealth or social class 🤷‍♀️

To be more topical: cancer. Certainly money can buy you the best treatment but it can’t help your body shrug off the effects of chemotherapy, nor can it take away the paralysing fear that you might die and leave your young children without a mum.

I think W&C have tried to be less aloof and share more, because previous generations have been criticised for that. And now that’s being used as a stick to batter them with. They literally can’t win.

OneFunBrickNewt · 20/08/2025 14:08

Hopefully we'll have no more monarchs after Charles.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 20/08/2025 14:08

People are comparing them to normal family because they've spent the last decade or so with the whole "oh look relatable we are.. we're just like yoooou"

Yes, @Seagullsandsausagerolls, and that's why I'd suggest there's a danger in trying to push the relatability thing too far

I get why the idea appeals, but it leads to silliness like us being told they're treated just the same at school/in the services/whatever, and for those who care I'm not sure that does much for the RF's credibility

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 14:10

SpidersAreShitheads · 20/08/2025 14:08

I don’t think they ever tried to pretend they were EXACTLY like the average family, just that they were more relatable and shared some similar battles.

I mean, I’ve certainly never had to get an unruly 5yr old to behave while attending an event for the monarch with millions of eyes watching……but I absolutely have had to get children of that age to sit quietly on other occasions.

Different but relatable challenges that transcend wealth or social class 🤷‍♀️

To be more topical: cancer. Certainly money can buy you the best treatment but it can’t help your body shrug off the effects of chemotherapy, nor can it take away the paralysing fear that you might die and leave your young children without a mum.

I think W&C have tried to be less aloof and share more, because previous generations have been criticised for that. And now that’s being used as a stick to batter them with. They literally can’t win.

But I think a lot of these are not challenges that transcend class because their issues are very different. They don’t really deal with many tantrums do they, because the nanny deals with them.

Yes they’ve once or twice had to get a five year old to calm down, but they also get the option of leaving them at home, or handing them over to the nanny.

They have tried to position themselves as a run of the mill, slightly wealthy but relatable family. They can’t then be surprised when people get annoyed that they’re not acting like that anymore.

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 14:11

jeffgoldblum · 20/08/2025 14:08

Do quote my post where I accused you of being “pro Sussex” ?
in fact I have not used “Sussex” on this thread at all !
I will be waiting.

Not using the word Sussex is immaterial. I said that they could easily step down, someone made a comment about who would be next, and you then made a pointed comment about me knowing exactly who would be next - implying that I was stating they should step down so that Harry can be king. That wasn’t what I was saying at all.

Delphigirl · 20/08/2025 14:14

If William stepped down then George would be next. I don’t think William could abdicate on behalf of his child. And I doubt the child could abdicate until he was an adult and able to make that decision for himself. Then it would be Charlotte. I can’t see a scenario where Harry was king absent the whole Wales family dying.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 20/08/2025 14:15

OneFunBrickNewt · 20/08/2025 14:08

Hopefully we'll have no more monarchs after Charles.

Too late I'm afraid, OneFunBrickNewt

Though a republican, honesty compels me to agree that separating out all the monarchy's links would be a major process, and I'd be very surprised if there'd be much time for preparation before it becomes William's turn

Spectre8 · 20/08/2025 14:17

SpidersAreShitheads · 20/08/2025 13:57

No, but criticism should be fair, balanced, and informed - which very little on this thread seems to be.

And I would say that about anyone, even someone that I don’t like.

I understand some people like to speculate, but there are some posters here who seem utterly convinced they’re spouting cold, hard facts when the truth is that none of us know what’s currently going on.

I also think there’s a lot of jealousy. Why should Catherine be allowed to work so little and still have holidays when most people can’t do that?! That’s literally what’s being said here. It’s mad.

She’s in a wealthy, privileged family and I don’t begrudge her that. It would be lovely if we could all do the same. I care for three disabled family members and work, I’m exhausted. I haven’t had a holiday since 2013. As I said before, it’s not a race to the bottom but some people seem incapable of just being happy that someone else has an easier life. If Catherine stopped going on holiday, she’d still have a more affluent and privileged life. I still wouldn’t be going on holiday.

If people want to argue for a Republican state, that’s fine. But singling out a woman who appears to still be struggling with the after effects of cancer (physically and/or psychologically??) and who has three young children seems nothing less than sour.

Well maybe she shoukd start advocating for changes to help the people she represents. Or William could. Woukdnt they want their subjects to be able to have the same opportunity. There are many ways in which they could help.

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Aethelredtheunsteady · 20/08/2025 14:18

jeffgoldblum · 20/08/2025 13:36

No , they are rich, thats life I’m afraid 🤷‍♀️ , the heir is supported by the duchy , posters really need to actually fact check what the taxpayers actually pay towards the royal family!
then you can criticise that till the cows come home.

And how did he acquire the duchy?

Tutorpuzzle · 20/08/2025 14:18

Puzzledandpissedoff · 20/08/2025 14:15

Too late I'm afraid, OneFunBrickNewt

Though a republican, honesty compels me to agree that separating out all the monarchy's links would be a major process, and I'd be very surprised if there'd be much time for preparation before it becomes William's turn

We might finally get a written constitution though!

jeffgoldblum · 20/08/2025 14:18

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 14:11

Not using the word Sussex is immaterial. I said that they could easily step down, someone made a comment about who would be next, and you then made a pointed comment about me knowing exactly who would be next - implying that I was stating they should step down so that Harry can be king. That wasn’t what I was saying at all.

So I’m assuming “ yes” is obviously code for being a pro Sussex poster then?! 🤣🤣🤣

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 14:19

Delphigirl · 20/08/2025 14:14

If William stepped down then George would be next. I don’t think William could abdicate on behalf of his child. And I doubt the child could abdicate until he was an adult and able to make that decision for himself. Then it would be Charlotte. I can’t see a scenario where Harry was king absent the whole Wales family dying.

The laws can be changed (as they were when Charlotte was born)

it’s clear William and Kate don’t enjoy royal life as much as they once did. The celebrity aspect around them has faded, as the country is largely struggling. That is compounded with the fact that a large portion of the country has very negative feelings towards Camilla, and Charles, due to what happened with Diana.

in terms of William and Kate, They’re no longer getting married and having babies. They’re boring now - this is when other royals (Ann, the Spanish and danish royal families) came into their own, by doing more. They all seem to want to do less. I don’t doubt that some of that is related to the utterly miserable childhood they had, including the death of their mum playing out so publicly.

BUT, if they want to take the benefits of being working royals, they need to take the duty of actually working. It doesn’t seem that they’re willing to do that. There is nothing beyond silly family feuds that stops William, Harry and their spouses from sitting down with Charles, and laying out how they could end the monarchy without any fuss. Many of the minor royals have stepped away from working anyway. The younger generations are doing more normal things - lady Louise is away at university and we don’t hear much about her (for example).

They could paint it as a very good public thing. They could remain working closely with charities if they feel strongly about it, and exist in a very poignant and meaningful way. But they won’t, because of their egos and their reliance on public adoration. So they need to step up and being working royals.

BemusedAmerican · 20/08/2025 14:20

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 11:47

Andrew’s issues are not down to the fact his mother worked hard. Neither are Harry’s.

the fact of it is, the next generation of the royal family enjoys the celebrity aspect too much and the work aspect too little.

I disagree with you after reading the Lownie book. Andrew's alleged childhood trauma definitely made him into a man who was a risk to your national security as well as an Epstein supporter. BP seems turned a blind eye to much of Andrew's actions, and that includes QEII.

Harry also seems to have been majorly traumatized by his childhood. His actions have been a risk to your national security, and the American press has called him out for it. Read Mark Toth's columns on Harry.

In the meantime:
-William is criticized for too large a carbon footprint. He doesn't attend a sport event in Australia, and is criticized.
-William criticized for attending an event with son but not daughter.
-William criticized for attending an event with daughter not son.

  • William criticized for driving Andrew in car to church.
-William criticized for not attending church with Charles and Andrew ( no doubt he would have been stuck driving Andrew again) when William and family attend local church and are given home baked goods by vicar. -William attends funeral of Pope and criticized for wearing dark blue, within dress code. He is surrounded by flagrant violations of dress code, especially by several women and President Trump, but no one cares.
  • William criticized for not speaking Welsh. According to the Welsh language commission survey in 2021, 18 percent of the Welsh population speaks Welsh. Maybe William and the kids can start a virtual program where everyone in the UK, not just people born in Wales, learns Welsh together. This way people from England, Scotland, and Northern Ireland can communicate with their Welsh country people while on vacation in Wales.
  • on another thread, William stops charging some charities rent but their rent was so low they haven't saved much money with the change.

I haven't read about William shooting endangered species, attending orgies, or accepting shopping bags of cash.

My PR advice- William - I had to spend a few weeks documenting every activity in my day for consultants. Start posting daily lists of what you did the day before. You will probably bore the hell out of people "3 hours reviewing rent rolls. Priced radon removal from Dartmoor prison so that we can turn it into affordable housing. Should we hire an exorcist before we start work? Met with paranormal group who say that proposed cell phone tower will interfere with sightings of spectral hounds".

IAmATorturedPoet · 20/08/2025 14:20

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 14:11

Not using the word Sussex is immaterial. I said that they could easily step down, someone made a comment about who would be next, and you then made a pointed comment about me knowing exactly who would be next - implying that I was stating they should step down so that Harry can be king. That wasn’t what I was saying at all.

I think you may have read too much into that.

jeffgoldblum · 20/08/2025 14:20

Delphigirl · 20/08/2025 14:14

If William stepped down then George would be next. I don’t think William could abdicate on behalf of his child. And I doubt the child could abdicate until he was an adult and able to make that decision for himself. Then it would be Charlotte. I can’t see a scenario where Harry was king absent the whole Wales family dying.

Yes , you are right, William can only remove himself, he cannot remove his entire family.

Superhansrantowindsor · 20/08/2025 14:20

I normally support the Royal family but it does seem looking at the royal diary that William is not pulling his weight. Anne doing loads as usual.

jeffgoldblum · 20/08/2025 14:21

Aethelredtheunsteady · 20/08/2025 14:18

And how did he acquire the duchy?

It was automatically passed to him when Charles became king.

RoosterPotato · 20/08/2025 14:22

Livelovebehappy · 20/08/2025 13:36

And they’re not performing monkeys. I’m sure his diary is pretty full, and what might be ‘important’ events to you and I, might not be to him. They do do visits under the radar to places where there are no cameras. It would be draining if every single day they were attending events heavily attended by the press. I honestly don’t mind how little William and Kate do, as William is our future monarch. I do mind how little other fringe royals might do if they’re on the payroll, although I recall that has been ended by Charles now, so they have jobs.

What’s the point of them doing private events though?

Their roles are apolitical and they have no special skills or knowledge beyond fluffy public diplomacy/meet and greets.

Neither of them are able to contribute in any substantial manner behind the scenes - all they can do is bring the spotlight to issues and causes, and without events being public they can’t even do that.

Spectre8 · 20/08/2025 14:24

jeffgoldblum · 20/08/2025 14:20

Yes , you are right, William can only remove himself, he cannot remove his entire family.

So that role do you think he should be doing, whilst he is waiting to be King and then when he is King what are your expectations of his role?

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Aethelredtheunsteady · 20/08/2025 14:25

jeffgoldblum · 20/08/2025 14:21

It was automatically passed to him when Charles became king.

Exactly - accident of birth! What has he actually done to deserve all the vast wealth, privilege and forelock tugging?!

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