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Prince Harry's Wreath

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Profhilodisaster · 18/08/2025 16:29

So apparently Prince Harry has asked someone to lay a wreath on his behalf to honour the 80th anniversary of VJ Day.
I know the military meant a lot to him but he's being called out on it as he mentions his grandfather. I'd like to think he did this with the best intentions but the cynic in me wonders if he did it as a dig at William for only posting a message on social media.

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jumpingthehighjump · 21/08/2025 12:49

I think Harry has made mistakes but they are nowhere near the level of mistakes Andrew has made.

^^ This. And to try and liken Meghan dancing in the delivery suite as some sort of grifting crime as bad as Andrew is just laughable!

Please don't tell me that Harry is now committing the crime of the century for shock horror laminating a sheet of paper ... just hear yourself 🤣

I only come on these threads for the laughs honest I do!

I think his tribute was heartfelt, personal and I liked it. As a PP said he would've been criticised for not doing anything as he's criticised for breathing even

MrsLeonFarrell · 21/08/2025 12:49

LifeOfAShowGirl · 21/08/2025 12:48

Harry is held to different standards and you know that. The only reason people are angry is because it’s shown William up.

I'm not angry. I don't think Harry showed William up, they both released statements in their own way. I hold Harry to the same standards as every other minor royal. Just because some people think one way doesn't mean everyone does.

jumpingthehighjump · 21/08/2025 12:50

LifeOfAShowGirl · 21/08/2025 12:48

Harry is held to different standards and you know that. The only reason people are angry is because it’s shown William up.

Exactly! And we can't have that can we lol

LifeOfAShowGirl · 21/08/2025 12:52

jeffgoldblum · 21/08/2025 12:49

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Some random comment on Twitter means nothing to be honest

LifeOfAShowGirl · 21/08/2025 12:53

MrsLeonFarrell · 21/08/2025 12:49

I'm not angry. I don't think Harry showed William up, they both released statements in their own way. I hold Harry to the same standards as every other minor royal. Just because some people think one way doesn't mean everyone does.

Of course it did. Minor royalty could be bothered to send a wreath. William got someone else to post a statement.

Mylovelygreendress · 21/08/2025 12:55

Still no explanation about why Harry didn’t criticise Andrew in Spare .
Is it a case of grifters sticking together?

MrsLeonFarrell · 21/08/2025 12:56

LifeOfAShowGirl · 21/08/2025 12:53

Of course it did. Minor royalty could be bothered to send a wreath. William got someone else to post a statement.

You believe it showed William up, I don't. We can agree to disagree.

Rhaidimiddim · 21/08/2025 12:56

Ploachedplorridge · 21/08/2025 03:06

Fwiw I’m twixt and between on this one. I think it’s entirely appropriate for Harry to leave a wreath because of his involvement with Invictus and injured veterans.

I don’t think we know enough about William’s situation to judge him for not attending the VJ commemorations. I have a family member who has suffered similarly to Catherine and their recovery has been much longer and much more arduous than you might imagine. So while I think he should have been there, he may have very good reasons not to be.

Coming from a forces family, I don’t think these commemorations are remotely archaic. I am not a monarchist but anyone with the most cursory understanding of current world events must surely understand the importance of learning about, and remembering our history, and those lost. I would have thought that is just as pertinent today as it ever was.

At the same time, I also have some sympathy for Rhaidimiddim‘s view about our group of countries needing to look forward as well as looking back, and that’s something that we have difficulty doing because we don’t really have a good sense of where we sit on the world stage any more.

Especially now we have rejected the left-centrist Christian democrat position of the EU and it’s pretty obvious that we are not transforming in to the Singapore-on-sea beloved of Brexiteers, and owing to recent events, our so-called special relationship with the USA is in decline.

Where, in all of this muddle, as the global power axes shift, does a Royal Family sit or fît exactly? Does the institution of the monarchy help us as a group of nations to move forward?

I agree with a lot of your post. It is important to remember what older generations sacrificed; but the World Wars are history now - taking to the teenage grandsons about them is the equivalent of having talked to me, at the same age, about something that happened in 1895.

The institution of the monarchy should help us move forward, but I don't think it has in recent years. The Late Queen got stuck at around 1970.

I think W& C's approach - putting together initiatives that are directly relevant to young people, then building ceremonies and celebrations around them makes the RF more relevant to the younger generations. Like the Earthshot awards and the Catherine's Christmas concert.

LifeOfAShowGirl · 21/08/2025 12:57

Mylovelygreendress · 21/08/2025 12:55

Still no explanation about why Harry didn’t criticise Andrew in Spare .
Is it a case of grifters sticking together?

Haven’t read it so I don’t know. I’d imagine it’s because it’s a very murky area and saying the wrong thing could easily bring about a lot of legal issues.

jumpingthehighjump · 21/08/2025 12:57

Mylovelygreendress · 21/08/2025 12:55

Still no explanation about why Harry didn’t criticise Andrew in Spare .
Is it a case of grifters sticking together?

Given Andrew's siblings have made no statements, I am not sure why a nephew should. And he is friendly with Eugenie I believe.
I think if Andrew's two brothers or sister had made some sort of comment, he would have done. But as usual they say nothing.

Mylovelygreendress · 21/08/2025 12:58

Harry usually relishes a legal fight !

Mylovelygreendress · 21/08/2025 13:01

jumpingthehighjump · 21/08/2025 12:57

Given Andrew's siblings have made no statements, I am not sure why a nephew should. And he is friendly with Eugenie I believe.
I think if Andrew's two brothers or sister had made some sort of comment, he would have done. But as usual they say nothing.

Why ? Because Harry criticised his father , stepmother , brother and sister in law for silly reasons ( lipgloss anyone?) yet his uncle escapes any harsh words .
Andrew’s siblings haven’t written books slagging off family members .

jeffgoldblum · 21/08/2025 13:04

Mylovelygreendress · 21/08/2025 13:01

Why ? Because Harry criticised his father , stepmother , brother and sister in law for silly reasons ( lipgloss anyone?) yet his uncle escapes any harsh words .
Andrew’s siblings haven’t written books slagging off family members .

He was also very quick off the mark to deny physical attacks on Andrew and defend him from the allegations that he insulted Meghan.

littlemissworry97 · 21/08/2025 13:11

BigWillyHazyHarold · 18/08/2025 17:54

He should've shown respect for his grandfather in life, particularly at the end stage.

This.

BigWillyHazyHarold · 21/08/2025 13:12

Andrew is an utterly odious individual, entirely morally bankrupt and a horrific stain on the Royal family as far as I'm concerned. He is a nasty person on every level and should have been dealt with severely right from the beginning.

Harry's a bit of a twat, a spoilt brat and a whiny, entitled numpty with very few working brain cells. Harry's made a mess of his life and blames everyone but himself which gets real tedious real quick. I don't like him, I find him very annoying, but he's nowhere near Andrew's level of rot.

On William's absence: I would usually be forgiving but I do think this was a misstep. This was important enough that I would have liked him to have been there. However at the end of the day The King is Head of State and William isn't.

LifeOfAShowGirl · 21/08/2025 13:16

jeffgoldblum · 21/08/2025 13:04

He was also very quick off the mark to deny physical attacks on Andrew and defend him from the allegations that he insulted Meghan.

Probably because he could see that whoever it was that had actually attacked Meghan was using Andrew as a scapegoat and that is also unacceptable.

jeffgoldblum · 21/08/2025 13:23

LifeOfAShowGirl · 21/08/2025 13:16

Probably because he could see that whoever it was that had actually attacked Meghan was using Andrew as a scapegoat and that is also unacceptable.

You just explained Harry’s silence about (only ) his uncle as it being a murky area and saying the wrong thing could easily bring about legal issues?

but why would he even comment to rebut something that doesn’t show him in a bad light and frankly makes Andrew look worse for making comments about Meghan?
why stir up comments for no reason? , why defend his uncle when it raises more questions about his motives?

LifeOfAShowGirl · 21/08/2025 13:25

jeffgoldblum · 21/08/2025 13:23

You just explained Harry’s silence about (only ) his uncle as it being a murky area and saying the wrong thing could easily bring about legal issues?

but why would he even comment to rebut something that doesn’t show him in a bad light and frankly makes Andrew look worse for making comments about Meghan?
why stir up comments for no reason? , why defend his uncle when it raises more questions about his motives?

i don’t see it as a defence. Merely stopping other members of the family getting away with pretty shit behaviour.

jeffgoldblum · 21/08/2025 13:35

LifeOfAShowGirl · 21/08/2025 13:25

i don’t see it as a defence. Merely stopping other members of the family getting away with pretty shit behaviour.

But he isn’t doing any such thing!
either he is silent about Andrew because he fears reprisals or legal issues or he’s not.
andrew would never say or do anything if he had said things about him in spare anymore than his other family members have, Andrew wouldn’t take legal action against him because discovery would likely bring other things to light .

people have questioned why he never said anything but as always it was forgotten, then here comes harry making a mountain out of molehill and bringing it to people’s attention again , obviously people will question why exactly these stories were worth the trouble, why he wants people to think he has a postive relationship with Andrew ( now the most unlikeable and nefarious royal) .
he should have continued saying nothing.

Mildorado · 21/08/2025 13:53

Mylovelygreendress · 21/08/2025 12:55

Still no explanation about why Harry didn’t criticise Andrew in Spare .
Is it a case of grifters sticking together?

Yes, that's so odd, isn't it? Criticism of the others on a petty level eg Kate and the lipgloss, but Andrew? Or even Fergie? Tumbleweed.......

LifeOfAShowGirl · 21/08/2025 13:54

Mildorado · 21/08/2025 13:53

Yes, that's so odd, isn't it? Criticism of the others on a petty level eg Kate and the lipgloss, but Andrew? Or even Fergie? Tumbleweed.......

Again.

it wasn’t relevant. But you will find every reason under the sun to criticise Harry, but not the members of the family standing by Andrew.

Mildorado · 21/08/2025 13:55

LifeOfAShowGirl · 21/08/2025 13:54

Again.

it wasn’t relevant. But you will find every reason under the sun to criticise Harry, but not the members of the family standing by Andrew.

I think you have the wrong poster. On the recent Andrew thread I was very critical of him and his grasping wife.
Stop making sweeping and incorrect assumptions.

Mildorado · 21/08/2025 13:56

I think your summary is spot on, @jeffgoldblum . I find it strange, but every single time someone mentions it, they get heavily criticised.
Interesting.

Mylovelygreendress · 21/08/2025 14:00

LifeOfAShowGirl · 21/08/2025 13:54

Again.

it wasn’t relevant. But you will find every reason under the sun to criticise Harry, but not the members of the family standing by Andrew.

I disagree . Harry was angry that he wasn’t allowed half in half out so it would have been the perfect opportunity for him to say that it was unfair when his Uncle was creaming off millions through shady deals .

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