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Opinions may Vary . A genuine question about why Meghan and Harry seem to attract such differing views.

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BasiliskStare · 02/07/2025 19:31

I post this more in hope than experience but I would be really interested in a proper discussion about those who are fans or supporters of them , those who aren't and indeed ( of which there are many ) , those who are indifferent.

So - I'll start. There was an interesting post on another thread which said M&H come over as David and Goliath , standing up against "the Institution" - my paraphrase.

No spitting , no fighting , mind the furniture 😂

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MadeInGrimsby · 03/07/2025 17:50

jeffgoldblum · 03/07/2025 17:47

Do explain why you keep referring to Catherine’s cancer as a “narrative “, only hers never Charles .
im assuming you are aware of the technical meaning of the term “narrative “ .
also why was it complicated?
she was unwell, had surgery and they discovered cancer.
your words seem to be alluding to this being a “ complicated “ story!
are you attempting to frame this as untrue?

Yes, I'm trying to work out what was "complicated" about it...

JSMill · 03/07/2025 17:51

wordler · 03/07/2025 17:48

I wouldn't have commented on the engagement photo threads because I was still giving her the benefit of the doubt at the time but they were both (the on the day announcement one and the official one) very odd.

I started off excited by the idea of Harry marrying Meghan - I totally bought the idea of the Fab Four and thought it was going to be nice for Kate to have another outsider in the fold with her - someone to discreetly roll eyes with at the weirder traditions and protocol etc.

So all the initial red flags I shrugged off as it being because she was American and used to the celebrity circuit.

That really odd pose she did for the outdoor engagement announcement press call - the very cringy engagement interview - the official engagement shoot where Harry is in smart casual and Meghan is wearing a $75,000 evening gown - I remember thinking it was odd but just teething issues with a new situation.

All the wedding drama in the tabloids I assumed was just the tabloids stirring. I thought the bump holding was very 'hollywood performative' but again mostly tabloid fodder.

I did start to feel uneasy when they did all the weird shenanigans around Archie's birth, and thought the "no one asks me if I am okay" interview was a very bad idea.

I was disappointed at the initial announcement of Megzit and officially the end of any Fab Four option, and I was astounded by the website they published - it was clearly going to end in tears.

The Oprah interview was my wake up call - that manipulative performance by Meghan was the start of seeing her in a very different light.

Yes that pretty much sums it up.

LivelyMintViper · 03/07/2025 17:59

Yup the Oprah interview finished her for me too. Also, the fawning credulity of Oprah really jarred

RandyRedHumpback · 03/07/2025 18:00

MadeInGrimsby · 03/07/2025 17:42

@CatHairEveryWhereNow - "a concerted effort to rewrite history"
Very true. The narrative of the support from the people and press in the UK is one they will suppress and deny because it doesn't suit their victim narrative.

They literally had to make up UK news headlines to use in the Netflix doc - one headline they used about Meghan called "Princess in Crisis" was actually from a US tabloid about Catherine . As well as using footage from a Harry Potter premier and Katie Price's court case to illustrate paparazzi interest in H&M. WRT to Oprah interview, the headlines she used at the start of the interview had to be censored out of the programme for UK audiences because they were effectively made up and lies. Articles on all this below.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-63837131

https://pressgazette.co.uk/news/meghan-headines-montage/

The Duke and Duchess of Sussex seen in the trailer for Harry & Meghan

Harry and Meghan's Netflix trailers criticised over 'misleading' clips

There are at least five allegations of footage or stills being used in editorially questionable ways.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-63837131

LemondrizzleShark · 03/07/2025 18:00

MadeInGrimsby · 03/07/2025 17:49

@LemondrizzleShark are they the worst?.
Not racist.
"The photos look very American to me" really?
That's a bad comment?!
Have a look at my post upthread with the wedding pictures. All positive.

I have no idea if they are the worst, I just copied the negative ones off the first page. Lots of deletions but obviously I have no idea if they were attacking Meghan or other posters.

You said you “didn’t recollect much negativity. The threads on here, like the UK press, were very positive about them”. Another poster said she didn’t recall anyone on here saying Meghan was too American. I am refreshing your memories.

MadeInGrimsby · 03/07/2025 18:02

LemondrizzleShark · 03/07/2025 18:00

I have no idea if they are the worst, I just copied the negative ones off the first page. Lots of deletions but obviously I have no idea if they were attacking Meghan or other posters.

You said you “didn’t recollect much negativity. The threads on here, like the UK press, were very positive about them”. Another poster said she didn’t recall anyone on here saying Meghan was too American. I am refreshing your memories.

Well, it remains unrefreshed! "The pictures look very American!' 😂
They had a lot of positivity and support. I've no idea why you need to go scratching around for mild comments to disprove that.
Did you watch the wedding at all?

MadeInGrimsby · 03/07/2025 18:03

@RandyRedHumpback , that's beyond deceit, isn't it?
They are completely and shamelessly dishonest. The "critical headlines" on the Oprah interview were made up as well. Such liars.

wordler · 03/07/2025 18:06

@RandyRedHumpback As well as using footage from a Harry Potter premier and Katie Price's court case to illustrate paparazzi interest in H&M.

That bit made me really side eye the production team of that documentary.

One of the editors/producers had clearly typed into a stock video collection Harry Sussex paparazzi photographers, and without double checking, gone with the best two bits of footage which as you say were a Harry Potter premier press bank and the Sussex court footage of Katie Price!

RandyRedHumpback · 03/07/2025 18:06

LemondrizzleShark · 03/07/2025 17:45

Ok, here are a few quotes from the engagement photos threads. All from one page, so not cherry-picked. Not racist, but definitely not all positivity and love:

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· 21/12/2017 21:15

Hmmm, the photos look very ‘American’ to me - very posed and not believable.

KiaOraAura · 21/12/2017 21:50

I laughed when I saw them. Ridiculously posed looking, especially that black and white one with her hand on his face. Looks like a Christmas advert for H Samuel.

ElizabethG81 · 21/12/2017 22:26

£56,000, fucking hell. I'm getting Marie Antoinette vibes.
The photos look like they're straight out of an ad campaign, Harry's even been practicing the Blue Steel look.
They're just another pair of rich twits, but they're going to try to lord it over us all with their "we're here to change the world" bollocks, while wearing couture gowns in the middle of the day.

I mean, if this was the worst things said about them on MN at the time - they are very lucky indeed! The last one sounds like your typical republican. The others are about not liking photos - a matter of personal taste.

MadeInGrimsby · 03/07/2025 18:07

@RandyRedHumpback , but, but, but..... someone said that the pictures "looked very American"!.😵

MadeInGrimsby · 03/07/2025 18:08

wordler · 03/07/2025 18:06

@RandyRedHumpback As well as using footage from a Harry Potter premier and Katie Price's court case to illustrate paparazzi interest in H&M.

That bit made me really side eye the production team of that documentary.

One of the editors/producers had clearly typed into a stock video collection Harry Sussex paparazzi photographers, and without double checking, gone with the best two bits of footage which as you say were a Harry Potter premier press bank and the Sussex court footage of Katie Price!

So. They couldn't find pap harassment pictures. They couldn't find negative headlines.
So they made them up.

RandyRedHumpback · 03/07/2025 18:09

wordler · 03/07/2025 18:06

@RandyRedHumpback As well as using footage from a Harry Potter premier and Katie Price's court case to illustrate paparazzi interest in H&M.

That bit made me really side eye the production team of that documentary.

One of the editors/producers had clearly typed into a stock video collection Harry Sussex paparazzi photographers, and without double checking, gone with the best two bits of footage which as you say were a Harry Potter premier press bank and the Sussex court footage of Katie Price!

You know, I hadn't made that connection. That's truly amateurish! But the truth of the matter is, there was no paparazzi harassment of H&M in the UK.

RandyRedHumpback · 03/07/2025 18:09

X post with @MadeInGrimsby !

My2cents1975 · 03/07/2025 18:09

MadeInGrimsby · 03/07/2025 18:03

@RandyRedHumpback , that's beyond deceit, isn't it?
They are completely and shamelessly dishonest. The "critical headlines" on the Oprah interview were made up as well. Such liars.

Again, it is not about truth. It is about creating a narrative and either retrofitting real incidents or inventing imagined incidents to support the narrative.

For example, the Netflix reality series included footage of a Harry Potter premier, Katie Price at court and Catherine and Diana being physically harassed by photographers.

There was zero footage of the alleged harassment of M.

RandyRedHumpback · 03/07/2025 18:10

MadeInGrimsby · 03/07/2025 18:07

@RandyRedHumpback , but, but, but..... someone said that the pictures "looked very American"!.😵

Off with their heads!!!

threesocksmorgan · 03/07/2025 18:10

Interesting that this thread has turned the same as all the others

MadeInGrimsby · 03/07/2025 18:11

RandyRedHumpback · 03/07/2025 18:10

Off with their heads!!!

😂😂😂

MadeInGrimsby · 03/07/2025 18:12

RandyRedHumpback · 03/07/2025 18:09

X post with @MadeInGrimsby !

😘

RandyRedHumpback · 03/07/2025 18:12

threesocksmorgan · 03/07/2025 18:10

Interesting that this thread has turned the same as all the others

Well unless someone articulates their personal reasons for supporting H&M and provide some tangible supporting evidence, what do you want people to talk about?

MadeInGrimsby · 03/07/2025 18:12

RandyRedHumpback · 03/07/2025 18:09

You know, I hadn't made that connection. That's truly amateurish! But the truth of the matter is, there was no paparazzi harassment of H&M in the UK.

None whatsoever.
The only time they've been papped is in Canada and the USA.

wordler · 03/07/2025 18:14

MadeInGrimsby · 03/07/2025 18:08

So. They couldn't find pap harassment pictures. They couldn't find negative headlines.
So they made them up.

I actually think this was more likely to be a mistake by someone on the production team than a deliberate attempt to mislead because it was so easily exposed. It sounds like something that a junior member of the team was tasked to find and then no one did a second pair of eyes checking the footage.

The problem was starting with the premise that they'd been regularly chased by paparrazi - there was no evidence of that happening in the UK - from either side. No video of being chased by paps and no pap pictures appearing of them.

Compare to the harassment Kate and Diana used to get with big packs of photographers following them and yelling at them.

CatHairEveryWhereNow · 03/07/2025 18:15

Interesting that this thread has turned the same as all the others

I'm mostly indifferent to them - they are hardly that relevant to anyone.

Then you remember all their endless lies from them and their supporters and it does get much more annoying.

Weepixie · 03/07/2025 18:19

On the day of the wedding I was travelling from Italy to Switzerland by train and I’d timed my trains around the wedding so I’d be able to watch it online. I made myself comfy on the train and when the wedding started I turned my ipad towards the people I was sharing the table with and before we knew it others came from different parts of the carriage and we watched the wedding together. People were so good with each other and they’d have a few minute before making way for others who’d then watch for a few minutes before moving over for even more people. We were of various nationalities and it was a lovely trip. Everyone was so happy.

MadeInGrimsby · 03/07/2025 18:21

wordler · 03/07/2025 18:14

I actually think this was more likely to be a mistake by someone on the production team than a deliberate attempt to mislead because it was so easily exposed. It sounds like something that a junior member of the team was tasked to find and then no one did a second pair of eyes checking the footage.

The problem was starting with the premise that they'd been regularly chased by paparrazi - there was no evidence of that happening in the UK - from either side. No video of being chased by paps and no pap pictures appearing of them.

Compare to the harassment Kate and Diana used to get with big packs of photographers following them and yelling at them.

Well, whichever way you look at it - it's a lie.
That dishonesty has become their hallmark.
True about Kate and Diana.

Mylovelygreendress · 03/07/2025 18:22

MadeInGrimsby · 03/07/2025 17:27

Really? That wasn't apparent. Have a look at my post above, noting the popularity of their marriage from...the tabloids!
Harry did not have to warn off the press about Meghan, no-one knew who she was. I have no idea why they chose to spread that false story.

Meghan was forcing Harry’s hand . According to people more in the know than me , Meghan wanted to hurry things along and threatened to leave if he didn’t issue a statement. Knowing what we know now about Meghan’s relationship with the truth , I am pretty sure some stuff would be exaggerated.
If i remember correctly the then POW was undertaking an important visit and the statement ( which he was advised not to issue) did not go down well.

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