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The royal family

Prince William not in black at Pope's funeral

320 replies

Yellowdresses · 26/04/2025 19:58

I think William made a big mistake in not wearing a black suit to the Pope's funeral.
I think it was a sign of disrespect, particularly as he's going to head of the Church of England.

I know the invite said dark suits for men, but everyone else - except Trump of course! - knew that black was expected, and it's not as if he doesn't have a black suit.

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LovePeriodProperty · 28/04/2025 12:54

Serenster · 27/04/2025 14:28

The man in the top right is wearing white tie?? Maybe it was the only dark suit he had!

The ‘privilege of white’ is given to Catholic Royalty. Usually the women ( I think there are 5 or 6 ) but only for meetings with the Pope.
Im not aware its for men and not for funerals except members of various Holy Orders.
No idea if that guy is from a Catholic Royal Family…..he’s sat very far back if he is. High up Catholics and Cardinals etc are supposed to take the front seats but they obviously got pushed back for non Catholics who apparently are more important……even at a funeral!

LovePeriodProperty · 28/04/2025 12:57

Wouldyouelievriy · 27/04/2025 22:40

Thank you

Although @PrinceYakimov the women were asked to wear head coverings. Not just Catholic women, all of them.
Im surprised they ignored this mark of respect.

Its more disrespectful than not wearing a dark enough suit.

smilesy · 28/04/2025 13:13

LovePeriodProperty · 28/04/2025 12:54

The ‘privilege of white’ is given to Catholic Royalty. Usually the women ( I think there are 5 or 6 ) but only for meetings with the Pope.
Im not aware its for men and not for funerals except members of various Holy Orders.
No idea if that guy is from a Catholic Royal Family…..he’s sat very far back if he is. High up Catholics and Cardinals etc are supposed to take the front seats but they obviously got pushed back for non Catholics who apparently are more important……even at a funeral!

The “privilege of white” doesn’t mean wearing “white tie”. It refers to Catholic royal women being allowed to wear all white. White tie refers to a black tail suit as is usually worn to a state banquet, which is what that gentleman was wearing 😆

smilesy · 28/04/2025 13:22

LovePeriodProperty · 28/04/2025 12:57

Although @PrinceYakimov the women were asked to wear head coverings. Not just Catholic women, all of them.
Im surprised they ignored this mark of respect.

Its more disrespectful than not wearing a dark enough suit.

Again, no one seems to have minded that not all the women covered their heads. Georgia Meloni did not cover hers for example. It does seem a tad misogynistic and old fashioned. I don’t think the Catholic Church feels it needs to enforce this particular guideline too strictly. I don’t think it’s disrespectful. Unlike taking selfies and filming during the mass, which would seem to me to be many times worse

CoffeeCantata · 28/04/2025 13:23

I've seen some desperate threads on the RF board over the last few years, but this absolutely takes the biscuit for pathetic triviality. Talk about scraping a barrel.

There's no case to answer - William respected the dress-code. This must have been said about 40 times by pps, but still they come back with their ever-more-desperate jibes and goads.

Things must be bad for the Sussexes if this is all their apologists (and others) can muster!

CurlewKate · 28/04/2025 13:30

Do we know anything about the guy in white tie? As someone has said-that’s not what the privilege of white means. There are some pretty obscure Vatican rules, though….

CurlewKate · 28/04/2025 13:49

Apparently, White Tie Man is Prince Mariano Hugo of Winderich-Graetz. He’s a Gentleman of His Holiness-a ceremonial role that Francis was keen to get rid of. A bit like a Lady in Waiting. He was escorting the King and Queen of Norway-he’s distantly related to them. Don’t quote me-I found this out on Reddit!

smilesy · 28/04/2025 13:58

CurlewKate · 28/04/2025 13:49

Apparently, White Tie Man is Prince Mariano Hugo of Winderich-Graetz. He’s a Gentleman of His Holiness-a ceremonial role that Francis was keen to get rid of. A bit like a Lady in Waiting. He was escorting the King and Queen of Norway-he’s distantly related to them. Don’t quote me-I found this out on Reddit!

No the one that was on the picture earlier in the thread was a different one 😆. Maybe someone in a similar position though 🤷‍♀️

CurlewKate · 28/04/2025 14:00

@smilesyCurse you, Reddit expert!

CurlewKate · 28/04/2025 14:02

But presumably he’s also a GofHH? Obviously not wearing the bling because funeral….

smilesy · 28/04/2025 14:03

CurlewKate · 28/04/2025 14:02

But presumably he’s also a GofHH? Obviously not wearing the bling because funeral….

Probably

LovePeriodProperty · 28/04/2025 15:24

smilesy · 28/04/2025 13:13

The “privilege of white” doesn’t mean wearing “white tie”. It refers to Catholic royal women being allowed to wear all white. White tie refers to a black tail suit as is usually worn to a state banquet, which is what that gentleman was wearing 😆

Not necessarily
This guy wearing a white bow tie with Starmer is wearing the Papal Cross Keys.

So obviously someone high up, respected etc in the Catholic Church
There are different dress codes. The one published ie dark colours, black for women etc etc are not for them.

LovePeriodProperty · 28/04/2025 15:25

LovePeriodProperty · 28/04/2025 15:24

Not necessarily
This guy wearing a white bow tie with Starmer is wearing the Papal Cross Keys.

So obviously someone high up, respected etc in the Catholic Church
There are different dress codes. The one published ie dark colours, black for women etc etc are not for them.

Photo won’t load I’m afraid

smilesy · 28/04/2025 15:34

LovePeriodProperty · 28/04/2025 15:25

Photo won’t load I’m afraid

Yea we have established who they probably are if you look at the above posts. Still has nothing to do with “privilege of white” though. More like the “white tie” is a sort of uniform

LovePeriodProperty · 28/04/2025 15:34

smilesy · 28/04/2025 13:22

Again, no one seems to have minded that not all the women covered their heads. Georgia Meloni did not cover hers for example. It does seem a tad misogynistic and old fashioned. I don’t think the Catholic Church feels it needs to enforce this particular guideline too strictly. I don’t think it’s disrespectful. Unlike taking selfies and filming during the mass, which would seem to me to be many times worse

Although is it ok to say women have to wear black below the knee clothes.
Most followed that

I think if this was another religion in which women always covered their heads, or some where men have to they would have done it.

There are Many different religions steeped in history and rules and asking someone to respect that for one occasion isn’t much to ask I think.

DreamTheMoors · 28/04/2025 18:07

GoYonSanNiIchi · 27/04/2025 01:44

His country is at war, so he is wearing military style clothing 24/7, so he can what; fight the Russians when they jump out from under a sofa in the oval office or from behind the tabernacle at the pope's funeral?

It is a gimmick so, whatever, but he is maintaining that image at the expense of the dignity of events like the funeral and it is fine to call it out.

Which do you find more offensive:

President Zelenskyy’s attire?

Or the fact that he and the country he leads didn’t crumple within hours when Russia invaded them?

You seem particularly offended.
I doubt it’s his clothing.
lol

GoYonSanNiIchi · 29/04/2025 00:36

DreamTheMoors · 28/04/2025 18:07

Which do you find more offensive:

President Zelenskyy’s attire?

Or the fact that he and the country he leads didn’t crumple within hours when Russia invaded them?

You seem particularly offended.
I doubt it’s his clothing.
lol

I seem particularly offended by his clothing?

It wasn’t supposed to come across that way.

the stupidity of the war in Ukraine certainly bothers me

mathanxiety · 29/04/2025 02:38

Abra1t · 27/04/2025 17:51

If the Vatican meant black suits, not dark, why not specify as they did for women’s outfits?

At my parents’ requiem masses in England the men wore dark navy or dark grey. Black suits aren’t really a thing where we are.

They're clearly a thing elsewhere, and I think St. Peter's Square counts as elsewhere.

So many others seem to have been able to interpret the instructions to mean black suit, and it's puzzling that some prominent Anglophones missed the mark or decided that what was acceptable where they lived would do fine for the occasion.

Sunholidays · 29/04/2025 03:39

The King of Jordan and the Duke of Luxembourg, not anglophones, wore dark blue and looked great.
Black is not the only dark colour there is, even the Vatican knows this.

Topseyt123 · 29/04/2025 03:43

mathanxiety · 29/04/2025 02:38

They're clearly a thing elsewhere, and I think St. Peter's Square counts as elsewhere.

So many others seem to have been able to interpret the instructions to mean black suit, and it's puzzling that some prominent Anglophones missed the mark or decided that what was acceptable where they lived would do fine for the occasion.

Yes, and it was fine for me occasion. Totally. Why wouldn't it be?

Spectre8 · 29/04/2025 06:39

CoffeeCantata · 28/04/2025 13:23

I've seen some desperate threads on the RF board over the last few years, but this absolutely takes the biscuit for pathetic triviality. Talk about scraping a barrel.

There's no case to answer - William respected the dress-code. This must have been said about 40 times by pps, but still they come back with their ever-more-desperate jibes and goads.

Things must be bad for the Sussexes if this is all their apologists (and others) can muster!

Hahaha coming fromna person who spends their time doing the same when its about H&M ...that's what you call pathetic trivality and scraping a barrel.

Reetpetitenot · 29/04/2025 06:51

mathanxiety · 29/04/2025 02:38

They're clearly a thing elsewhere, and I think St. Peter's Square counts as elsewhere.

So many others seem to have been able to interpret the instructions to mean black suit, and it's puzzling that some prominent Anglophones missed the mark or decided that what was acceptable where they lived would do fine for the occasion.

Good grief. Why do you think the Vatican stipulated dark suit for men if they wanted men to wear black. They were capable of stipulating black for women attendees.

I think between them the Vatican and the royal family and their advisers know slightly more about protocol than you. Give it a rest, you're coming across as petty and ridiculous now.

smilesy · 29/04/2025 07:12

mathanxiety · 29/04/2025 02:38

They're clearly a thing elsewhere, and I think St. Peter's Square counts as elsewhere.

So many others seem to have been able to interpret the instructions to mean black suit, and it's puzzling that some prominent Anglophones missed the mark or decided that what was acceptable where they lived would do fine for the occasion.

No “interpretation” was required. “Dark colour” meant just that. “Black” was specified for ladies, but not for men as pp have said. What has “Anglophones” got to do with it? You are making shit up 🙄

Calliopespa · 29/04/2025 07:27

Dark Suit is a dress code in itself that falls short of Black Tie ( which does require a black suit) and White Tie ( which also does). Dark Suit is also sometimes referred to as Formal Suit. It’s usually as formal as daywear gets for men other than Morning dress or Morning suit.

It basically means anything other than light grey or tan - usually charcoal, navy or black. It doesn’t require black.

I think this whole discussion is a sad diversion from what was a truly moving funeral, attended by many people who had all clearly made an effort to look respectable according to their background and culture in order to pay their respects.

The best suits of all, I think, were the pall bearers. It was the perfect shade of navy under the sun. But I think everyone tried.

NormaMajors1992coat · 29/04/2025 07:44

So many others seem to have been able to interpret the instructions to mean black suit, and it's puzzling that some prominent Anglophones missed the mark or decided that what was acceptable where they lived would do fine for the occasion.

You still haven’t explained why you think the correct “interpretation” of dark suit is black suit, and not dark suit? Do you agree that there are other dark colours apart from black?