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Why is Sarah Ferguson at the Easter service?

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Lazycatsitsonthemat · 20/04/2025 22:29

I am really perplexed about why SF attends all Royal events since the death of the Queen when Andrew
is present. She behaves like his wife but she isn’t his wife. What on earth is going on? I cannot think of another situation like this where an ex wife lives with her ex husband and attends all public events with him as though they are still married. It’s bizarre.

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steff13 · 21/04/2025 04:18

Maddy70 · 20/04/2025 22:47

They clearly had to get divorced because she had an affair but they are still living together and living as a couple. It's the worst kept secret

I'm in the US so I don't super pay attention to the royal family but this is what I thought the situation was. I remember when I was little seeing tabloids at the grocery store with things that she had done that were supposedly embarrassing to the royal family. So I assumed that that was part of the reason for the divorce but they continued to be a couple despite the divorce.

LBFseBrom · 21/04/2025 04:36

Why not? She was in the wilderness, vilified, for a long time, she isn't a bad person, just a human being who made mistakes but that is ages ago. She is a good support, loyal, never says anything bad about anyone so why should she not go to church with the family. Jesus didn't exclude people.

AutumnLeaves24 · 21/04/2025 04:38

Laserwho · 20/04/2025 23:23

She's attending church with her daughters, it us her life

Why are you quoting my post then saying that? It's not me saying she needs to get a life??

RareGoalsVerge · 21/04/2025 04:53

My favourite uncle got divorced about 30 years ago. I don't much like his ex wife who is the mum of my cousins. He is now married to a lovely woman who I really like, and the cousins are in their 40s and have kids of their own. The ex-wife still comes to large-group family gatherings where there's no pressure on numbers because she's still part of the family as the grandma of my cousins' children.

Sarah Ferguson is the grandma of Sienna, Athena, August and Ernest as well as being the mother of Beatrice and Eugene. She is part of the wider family.

Divorce doesn't make people stop existing.

DreamTheMoors · 21/04/2025 05:03

Tbrh · 21/04/2025 01:59

Yep keep H&M in the tabloids to take the attention to what W&K are doing, not alot!

Edited

I subscribe to Apple News.
The other day there were four positive Wales articles and SEVEN anti Sussex articles. So many I went back and counted to make sure.
Seven in one single day.
Somebody’s keeping up.

GildedRage · 21/04/2025 05:05

She’s family.

TheGaaTheSkaAndTheRa · 21/04/2025 05:45

I'm with @HufflebuffsAreOn Andrew shouldn't have been there but having SF there too just adds to the sleaze factor.

As the modern parlance goes, the optics are bad.

Blobbitymacblob · 21/04/2025 05:46

All this talk about Henry VIII is rather beside the point. The more relevant example might be George of Hanover, who, at the time of his coronation, was fifty something-th in line for the throne - the rest had to be skipped as unsuitable for religious reasons (being they catholic at a time when the treatment of catholics under the law was similar to the treatment of Jews in the early years of the nazis). It’s an interesting precedent to consider how far the divine right of kingship can be stretched to find a suitably religious candidate to head the Church of England.

Forefather of the current lot, he was similarly scandalous - made his public appearances in the company of both of his mistresses, while having his wife’s lover murdered and the queen locked up for her infidelity; public rows with his son, and even a nice little spot of insider trading at one point.

It’s really interesting to see a thread objecting to SF’s presence rather than Andrew’s - public opinion has softened, and the strategy of increasing her public profile as his partner since his disgrace seems to be paying off.

stayathomegardener · 21/04/2025 05:54

Helpforthosethatneedit · 21/04/2025 02:28

A lot of this if rumours I've heard from people slightly inside or papers, but this is my understanding and probably not that correct, but here goes.

Prince philip never liked s.f., rest of the family did and knew she was good for Andrew. Andrew was the favourite son at the time and no-one would have been good enough, but she was considered particularly common. But her toe-sucking gate after his misdemeanours meant they were made to divorce. Even at the time, insiders knew they were always an on-again, off-again couple who never lost their feelings. She made mistakes in the eyes of the rf (weight watchers adverts etc) after the divorce. Financially she was reckless i think, but costs to see her kids and feel secure would gave been high. Going to u.s. was considered a betrayal. After Prince Philip's death she started attending things again and now she's the more popular of her and Andrew, she's welcomed back into the fold slightly. Also, partly because one of their children (can't remember if Beatrice or eugenie) was extremely close to the Queen and she's her mother, she was allowed back in as a mark of respect. Very complicated! The Queen gave Sf and Andrew some corgis in her will. I think they've always loved each other deeply/understood each other. With the pressure of rf, a marriage was perhaps too intense.

I find Sophie Wessex interesting. Edward became favorite after Andrew married and again, sophie's common-ish with pr background made the rf very suspicious of her. She's navigated it incredibly well (especially after nearly dying in childbirth, but keeping pretty hush on it as wasn't that long after Diana died). Sophie has been incredible and worked diligently for rf and was very close to the late Queen.

I am not sure Sophie has navigated it well thinking back to the fake Sheik sting years ago. Super embarrassing.

DaphneduM · 21/04/2025 06:17

PickettWhiteFences · 21/04/2025 01:44

I have always got the impression Kate was never all that enthuastic on public life. Even before the cancer diagnosis she only did the bare minimum in terms of engagements but used the excuse of young children. Not sure if that will wash any more.

I absolutely agree. I actually don't think she can cope with the expectations of public life. A shame really - perhaps if she'd used her very good education in a professional role for a few years before marriage, she would understand the ways of the world and be more confident. I wonder what excuse they'll use when the shield of the kids is no longer credible as they'll be growing up and doing their own thing? Personally I think William is bone idle and should have been supporting his father more. Three holidays and the football this year, with a few token engagements thrown in - not a good look. Also if Kate is strong enough to go ski-ing twice then she's fit enough to do a bit of 'work'.

ResultsMayVary · 21/04/2025 06:23

TooExtraImmatureCheddar · 20/04/2025 22:50

I am more bothered that William, who will be the next head of the Church, couldn’t be arsed showing up in one of the major religious festivals.

I wonder if he and Kate, especially given she's recovering from cancer, have been encouraged by Charles to enjoy their time together as a family before they need to step up as King and Queen. Kate will want to be well and strong to take on the demands of the role. I assume they know more than us about the King's prognosis

GeorgeMichaelsCat · 21/04/2025 06:26

Lazycatsitsonthemat · 20/04/2025 22:54

I don’t think so. He looks very disconnected from her and their body language doesn’t suggest they are a couple. It’s just all so odd.

I heard they were living as husband and wife and have been for some time. If that is the case, no wonder she is invited.

wordler · 21/04/2025 06:35

ResultsMayVary · 21/04/2025 06:23

I wonder if he and Kate, especially given she's recovering from cancer, have been encouraged by Charles to enjoy their time together as a family before they need to step up as King and Queen. Kate will want to be well and strong to take on the demands of the role. I assume they know more than us about the King's prognosis

Possibly - also Charles and Camilla spent the 20 years before he became monarch doing Easter up in Scotland not in Windsor with the late Queen.

So the heir not attending the Windsor service has precedence.

Most likely William is not going to get 20 years to have Easter on his own terms like his father did.

TheMovieFlopped · 21/04/2025 06:44

Lazycatsitsonthemat · 20/04/2025 22:34

They aren’t children though! Why doesn’t SF get a life of her own?

Cant Hear You Royal Wedding GIF

Her adult children have babies of their own. SF is a granny and she is spending time with her family like a lot of people do over the Easter period.

MikeRafone · 21/04/2025 06:45

SF is there to produce threads/talk like this, which is the distraction or cover up as to what is Andrew doing at the event

if SF wasn’t there this thread would be about why is Andrew there when he’s not supposed to be at public events

yes, it’s a church service fir family but tittle tattle doesn’t care about that

so let Sarah come as the distraction

Nominative · 21/04/2025 06:50

HufflebuffsAreOn · 20/04/2025 23:22

Andrew shouldn’t have been there, never mind Fergie. Where was William? He should be there - lazy, entitled vibes, that one.

Andrew is as entitled to go to church as anyone. William was with his family, he was probably being the reverse of lazy. Did you go to church yesterday?

Nominative · 21/04/2025 06:53

sofasoda · 21/04/2025 00:15

William's spending Easter with his wife and kids. Hopefully having a nicer one than last year, when they had to tell their children that mum had cancer and she started chemo.

I don't care if they go to church or not but the above is a weird excuse.

Why doesn't anyone need an excuse not to go to a particular church service? Tbere's never been a three line whip on the Easter service.

SwanOfThoseThings · 21/04/2025 06:54

She might be divorced from Andrew but she's still the mum of Beatrice and Eugenie, who reliably show up at the Royal church services every year. It doesn't seem unreasonable for the Yorks to show up as a family.

She does do her own thing year round - she's published some Mills and Boon type novels recently 😆

Tbrh · 21/04/2025 06:57

Nominative · 21/04/2025 06:50

Andrew is as entitled to go to church as anyone. William was with his family, he was probably being the reverse of lazy. Did you go to church yesterday?

Yes, I'm sure he was watching the kids, cooking tea, doing the dishes and cleaning the house. Life must be exhausting for him. Did you miss the point that he's the future King and head of Church? 🤨

HufflebuffsAreOn · 21/04/2025 06:58

Erm no, I’m not religious. Not that anyone cares being as I’m not in the Royal Family.

Very weird to me that this whole thread is about why a woman who has divorced out of the family is there but when I say that I think Andrew shouldn’t be there I get pelters.

FWIW, if Andrew wants to go to church, none of my business, he can do what he wants. But… it is not a good look for the royal family to be seen with him in my view. He is despicable.

Nominative · 21/04/2025 06:58

TheHerboriste · 21/04/2025 01:42

I’m not a william basher but that is really very odd.

Did you think it was odd when Charles didn't turn up when he was PoW? It happened frequently.

Sevenamcoffee · 21/04/2025 07:03

My parents split up but still functioned to some extent like a couple. Even when living separately he would be round doing her decorating and we would all have Christmas together and this kind of thing. Royals live in a massive house so can choose to avoid each other when they want to. However in this case it’s possible they reconciled but it was too complicated to explain to the public at the time.

fuzzybearssister · 21/04/2025 07:04

@HonoriaBulstrode

I am more bothered that William, who will be the next head of the Church, couldn’t be arsed showing up in one of the major religious festivals.

www.edinburghlive.co.uk/news/uk-world-news/real-reason-kate-middleton-prince-31476434

Radra · 21/04/2025 07:08

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 21/04/2025 01:29

And skiing might have taken its toll on the PoW so that she needs to rest??? Is that beyond the realms of compassion?!

This might be my favourite royal sycophant post ever!

Absolutely hilarious.

We should have compassion because luxury skiing holidays are exhausting

CurlewKate · 21/04/2025 07:08

I don’t think William usually goes to the Easter thing, does he?

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