@Spectre8 I'm going to watch it and I'm honestly going to try to be objective.
There have been positive threads started by people who approve of M&H and I don't go near them because people have a right to their own opinions and to express them without derail. The reluctance to engage in debate on threads that criticise them is IMO in very large part due to the baseless accusations of racism which get thrown in sooner or later and I for one am heartily sick of (and I really doubt I'm alone) I think much of what you may see as defensiveness stems from that, which lots of us have experienced. It is not pleasant and in another league to the usual "forelock tugging, sycophantic peasants fawning over the Royals" (&c, &c)
I really feel that if people who think we're unfair to Meghan really read these threads they would realise they are very far from the "Our Darling Prince Harry Fan Club" and he gets quite as much flak, sometimes rather more, as he should.