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Is there another couple in the world like The Sussexes?

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veraswaistcoat · 23/01/2025 10:54

I was musing last night about this aspect - they had the world at their feet. Despite what Sussex Supporters like to suggest most people in the UK nodded their heads " yes it was lovely Harry was getting married finally" . I had never heard of the bride myself as I don't watch American tv shows of that ilk. She was black or biracial? It didn't even enter my head what colour she was initially and then as coverage started it didn't make one iota of difference one way or the other. I recall the day of the wedding - it was sunny and the pubs were full of royal cheer broadcasting the wedding.

And then it all started to where we are today.

Are there any other couples in the world who have gone through such a downfall? Is this a feature of the social media arena today?
We see P Diddy and Blake Lively and others exposed now through SM.
You can't count the Duke and Duchess of Windsor in this category as they were always unpopular.

Can you think of any examples of people who have fallen so spectacularly?

I know people say " they live in California, they have money blah blah" but their reputation is one that most people would not want.

Is it purely because of their seeming complaining and sense of entitlement ? I mean you don't see the real philanthropists in this way - in fact you rarely hear about them and what they do.

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Onlystayingforhalfanhour543 · 29/01/2025 13:21

Mylovelygreendress · 29/01/2025 13:10

@Onlystayingforhalfanhour543

“Also, it’s irritating when posters think they can assess the level of risk to H&M better than the former head of counter-terrorism policing in England, Neil Basu, who said in an interview to Channel 4 News:
"If you'd seen the stuff that was written and you were receiving it, the kind of rhetoric that's online, if you don't know what I know, you would feel under threat all of the time," he said.”

He said that more than 2 years ago about Meghan’s time as a working Royal which was < checks notes > more than 5 years ago .
Given that I was ticked off by a poster to referencing the OW interview as it was “ years ago” , can you or another Sussex Supporter confirm how far back we can go when making a point ?

First, please don’t use the juvenile label of Sussex Supporter.

Just because I post something in favour of H or M doesn’t mean that I support everything they do, and not do I subscribe to membership of any silly group,

Do you honestly think that personal attacks in both broadcast and in print and on sm against H and M have got any less frequent recently?

Honestly, can you not see the blatant contradiction and irony in posters who start and contribute to many threads about H& M full of negativity and criticism; resisting the fact that H&M may consequently have security concerns for their dc?

Onlystayingforhalfanhour543 · 29/01/2025 13:23

FromTheOfficeOfJammyTodger · 29/01/2025 13:16

No, I mean tone policing. You can criticise away to your heart's content. Just don't tell me what or how to write.

With respect, I don’t think you quite understand the term criticism.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 29/01/2025 13:26

Jacquette · 29/01/2025 13:08

Isn’t the narrative of ‘business coupling, uncoupling and recoupling’ just a narrative constructed by tabloids and social media?

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It very often is, Jacquette, which is why some prefer to wait for what they actually do and say rather than some ridiculous version of it

AFAIK - though happy to be corrected - I don't think the couple themselves have commented on this beyond the original "salt and pepper" silliness, and "well placed sources" don't count for me unless they're named

Maybe let's just wait and see how they handle Invictus this time, and hope (however unrealistic that may be) that just for once they'll focus on the vets instead of themselves?

jeffgoldblum · 29/01/2025 13:27

@Puzzledandpissedoff , I'm not on twitter either but saw a post on another platform that had screenshot all the posts , most of them are really quite something!
And before anyone asks, no they were not predominantly from U.K. people!

To give a quick overview, most were not impressed with the charity using him as a patron when he's based in the US , a lot were saying that he was unsuitable because of his drug taking and behaviour.

Some were saying they found the charity worthwhile but wouldn't donate to anything using him as a figure head .

I wasn't negative about the charity itself, I will add I have sanitised and given a polite overview!

FromTheOfficeOfJammyTodger · 29/01/2025 13:29

Onlystayingforhalfanhour543 · 29/01/2025 13:23

With respect, I don’t think you quite understand the term criticism.

OK, as you are clearly being obtuse, you can criticise the contents of my posts, nobody is stopping you, certainly not me. You can criticise my posts on the substantive issues, and I am happy to engage if I think it is worth it. I am not interested in your criticisms of the tone of my posts and whether or not I come across as kind to you or anyone else, and I will not be changing my tone or terminology to suit you. Understand?

Spectre8 · 29/01/2025 13:30

Puzzledandpissedoff · 29/01/2025 13:26

It very often is, Jacquette, which is why some prefer to wait for what they actually do and say rather than some ridiculous version of it

AFAIK - though happy to be corrected - I don't think the couple themselves have commented on this beyond the original "salt and pepper" silliness, and "well placed sources" don't count for me unless they're named

Maybe let's just wait and see how they handle Invictus this time, and hope (however unrealistic that may be) that just for once they'll focus on the vets instead of themselves?

Just shows how people refuse to seperate rumours from facts. Tomorrow there will be some other rumour that will spawn a ton of comments about how awful they are doing it when they haven't even done anything yet! And if your going to steadfastly say you only criticise on their actions yet do it on rumours well you can't blame people for saying your just in it to bitch about people you don't like. Cos frankly thats what it is, gossipong bitching etc 🤷‍♀️

Thedom · 29/01/2025 13:30

Puzzledandpissedoff · 29/01/2025 13:19

Wellchild are receiving some really negative posts on X after posting Harrys' video

I'm not on Twitter/X, but what's he supposed to have done in the video @Thedom?

I thought Wellchild was one of the few remaining things Harry still gets good press for, so it would be a shame if he's trashed that too

Mainly posts about how can they continue to have him as a patron for a UK charity when he doesn't live in the UK, doesn't like the UK, (I guess a valid criticism) he only comes to the UK for court cases etc. Find someone living in the UK to be their patron. Lots of comments about him being a bully to his family and his drug taking, hence not a good example for a kids charity.

jeffgoldblum · 29/01/2025 13:32

With respect, I don’t think you quite understand the term criticism.

With respect @Onlystayingforhalfanhour543
This seems quite rude!

Mylovelygreendress · 29/01/2025 13:32

@Onlystayingforhalfanhour543
Please don’t tell me what I can and can’t say .
If you think I have broken any rules , report me .

Puzzledandpissedoff · 29/01/2025 13:32

I was just coming back to say I'd found it on Sky News, @jeffgoldblum (so please also ignore my request for info @Thedom)

As you suggest there's nothing wrong in what Harry said, so the objection seems to be that it's him saying it and that some don't want his toxicity around "their" cause ... which is fair enough I suppose, and something we may well see more of as the couple's reputations continue to slide

NotaRealHousewife · 29/01/2025 13:33

@Onlystayingforhalfanhour543 She understands it perfectly well

jeffgoldblum · 29/01/2025 13:36

I haven't watched the video @Puzzledandpissedoff ( sorry I find him to irritating now !)
But has also been mentioned that it's pre recorded and it appears he did a job lot of videos at the same time , green screen was also mentioned!
I have no idea if this is true or not .

Onlystayingforhalfanhour543 · 29/01/2025 13:37

MrsLeonFarrell · 29/01/2025 12:50

I can understand the need to get the Wales children used to public attention, interacting with crowds etc because of the position they are in. Harry and Meghan's children don't need the same preparation so I hope they are able to go as children and not treated as mini celebrities.

Yes I have some sympathy for this view.

i don’t think it’s right that the Wales children are in the public eye at all, It must be pretty awful for them actually and beyond worrying and stressful for their parents. Imagine reading unpleasant criticisms of your children in the press. You would feel so angry and helpless in defending them.

One can only imagine the press stories and level of intrusion when they are teens and how fame distorts friendships and professional and personal relationships in general.

But given that they are subject to this, then perhaps better to have some training in it.

I don’t personally enjoy seeing them in public though or looking at pictures of them. As children, they have had no say or ability to consent to having their images splashed all over the world press and the internet generally.

They pay a high price for their privilege.

Onlystayingforhalfanhour543 · 29/01/2025 13:41

FromTheOfficeOfJammyTodger · 29/01/2025 13:29

OK, as you are clearly being obtuse, you can criticise the contents of my posts, nobody is stopping you, certainly not me. You can criticise my posts on the substantive issues, and I am happy to engage if I think it is worth it. I am not interested in your criticisms of the tone of my posts and whether or not I come across as kind to you or anyone else, and I will not be changing my tone or terminology to suit you. Understand?

No, frankly I don’t understand why you are so resistant to a reasonable plea to remain civil in tone.

NotaRealHousewife · 29/01/2025 13:42

I wonder if the royal family or indeed any other celebrity actually read bad press

I can't imagine them flicking through Facebook, insta or the Daily Mail

You would need to be a monster to write awful things about children, best avoided

FromTheOfficeOfJammyTodger · 29/01/2025 13:43

jeffgoldblum · 29/01/2025 13:36

I haven't watched the video @Puzzledandpissedoff ( sorry I find him to irritating now !)
But has also been mentioned that it's pre recorded and it appears he did a job lot of videos at the same time , green screen was also mentioned!
I have no idea if this is true or not .

I was just wondering why they often do these addresses by what looks like the back door! If it's a green screen, that makes a bit more sense.

FromTheOfficeOfJammyTodger · 29/01/2025 13:43

Onlystayingforhalfanhour543 · 29/01/2025 13:41

No, frankly I don’t understand why you are so resistant to a reasonable plea to remain civil in tone.

Then remain in ignorance, and stop trying to derail the thread.

jeffgoldblum · 29/01/2025 13:45

Don't know @FromTheOfficeOfJammyTodger 🤷‍♀️ , I'm no expert and try not to view his or her videos because I'm sorry to say I find them very irritating!

Onlystayingforhalfanhour543 · 29/01/2025 13:46

FromTheOfficeOfJammyTodger · 29/01/2025 13:43

Then remain in ignorance, and stop trying to derail the thread.

For the sake of other users I would be delighted to stop this argument yes.

However, please note that it was your rude comment to Spectre8 that I was responding to in the first place.

FromTheOfficeOfJammyTodger · 29/01/2025 13:48

Onlystayingforhalfanhour543 · 29/01/2025 13:46

For the sake of other users I would be delighted to stop this argument yes.

However, please note that it was your rude comment to Spectre8 that I was responding to in the first place.

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In which case, do an advanced search on that poster and her posts across numerous threads and what they are often reduced to because of her, and understand why I don't wish to engage with her.

jeffgoldblum · 29/01/2025 13:49

I'm sure spectre is able to fight her own corner!
Saying you don't want to engage with a poster is not rude, it means just that .

NotaRealHousewife · 29/01/2025 13:49

jeffgoldblum · 29/01/2025 13:49

I'm sure spectre is able to fight her own corner!
Saying you don't want to engage with a poster is not rude, it means just that .

This

Onlystayingforhalfanhour543 · 29/01/2025 13:52

NotaRealHousewife · 29/01/2025 13:42

I wonder if the royal family or indeed any other celebrity actually read bad press

I can't imagine them flicking through Facebook, insta or the Daily Mail

You would need to be a monster to write awful things about children, best avoided

I imagine that the royal dc are protected from all print media as much as possBile. It’s trickier to protect them on line but one would hope they have strict filters or simply aren’t allowed access to phones.

All of this gets a lot more problematic as they get older; especially when friends start sharing devices or things they have read or seen on-line.

Spectre8 · 29/01/2025 13:54

FromTheOfficeOfJammyTodger · 29/01/2025 13:48

In which case, do an advanced search on that poster and her posts across numerous threads and what they are often reduced to because of her, and understand why I don't wish to engage with her.

Well tbh you are rude. You don't want to engage with me but then you are the one who did telling you don't wsnt to ...insinuating I'm not to comment on what you write. So as I said I can comment on anything posted here including your posts. You can't stop me. So you can choose to not engage which you had already decided but then go on to engage with me and be rude about it.

Its nice someone else pointed out your rudeness too.

NotaRealHousewife · 29/01/2025 13:55

Yes I can imagine it must get difficult as they get older

Very difficult to deal with and hard as a parent, nothing worse than seeing your child hurt

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