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Meghan back on Instagram

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PrettyFlyforaMaiTai · 01/01/2025 17:21

Looks like she’s back on Instagram

www.instagram.com/meghan/reel/DESeJO5vFSN/

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Serenster · 02/01/2025 12:31

Do you acknowledge that this is a thread where posters are just bitching about Meghan then? And that's absolutely normal for a group of adults?

Do you acknowledge that this is a board where posters are just bitching about people who are born into, or marry into the Royal Family then? And that;s absolutely normal for a group of adults?

Uricon2 · 02/01/2025 12:33

kirinm · 02/01/2025 12:26

How is asking you if you mock other people a personal attack?

I am sporadically on these threads but they're so unpleasant to read, it's very very occasional.

if asking if somebody is a bully to everyone or just Meghan makes me condescending than so be it.

That was about me. You then changed your mind

okay, not a bully, just constantly mocking somebody.

If a Royal Duchess living on millions in a mansion in California feels bullied by my (I think fairly mild) comments on here, then I am clearly more fearsome than I thought.

ETA I have never (knowingly) gone on one of the "positive" threads about H&M to disparage them as people who like them are entitled to their opinions also.

IcedPurple · 02/01/2025 12:36

kirinm · 02/01/2025 12:26

How is asking you if you mock other people a personal attack?

I am sporadically on these threads but they're so unpleasant to read, it's very very occasional.

"Bullying", "bitching' 'mocking' or whatever you want to call it are not against forum rules in themselves .If you believe these rules have been breached, you are free to alert the monitors.

If you find these discussions 'unpleasant', other threads are available. Nobody is obliged to tailor these discussions to your personal requirements.

kirinm · 02/01/2025 12:36

Thedom · 02/01/2025 12:29

I think a lot of people are dismissive of the Duchess of Sussex, the self aggrandising, faux philantrophy, employee and family bullying, publicly marginalising her husband, aka 'This One' , along with casting aspersions on a whole country, that is not something most people would hold in high regard.

Commenting on their massive publicity machine when it cranks into action for her image management is only to be expected, the propaganda is going to be commented on negatively.

Free speech and all that !! even if she and her husband would prefer free speech be buried for the masses.

It's one post on instagram and she's had her marriage questioned, piss taken out of her clothes, of her writing in the sand, of her name, of her use (or lack or) of the word 'the' in her instagram handle.

She doesn't have enough followers, she's monetising her instagram account - noting that she gets criticised for literally trying to do anything to make money. She's been called cruel. Attracting the wrong type of follower - middle aged woman rather than young women despite her being in her 40s. She's failed at being a royal, failed in Hollywood, her other instagram accounts failed. Catherine can be forgiven for her similar video but not Meghan because there's always something wrong with her doing something pretty much the same. She was thoughtless about posting this given what happened in New Orleans. Even more thoughtless because he had an ISIS flag even though that wasn't known at the time, All criticisms levelled against her from one post on instagram.

kirinm · 02/01/2025 12:37

Serenster · 02/01/2025 12:31

Do you acknowledge that this is a thread where posters are just bitching about Meghan then? And that's absolutely normal for a group of adults?

Do you acknowledge that this is a board where posters are just bitching about people who are born into, or marry into the Royal Family then? And that;s absolutely normal for a group of adults?

I don't think the level of bitching is normal at all.

Aspargar · 02/01/2025 12:38

kirinm · 02/01/2025 12:36

It's one post on instagram and she's had her marriage questioned, piss taken out of her clothes, of her writing in the sand, of her name, of her use (or lack or) of the word 'the' in her instagram handle.

She doesn't have enough followers, she's monetising her instagram account - noting that she gets criticised for literally trying to do anything to make money. She's been called cruel. Attracting the wrong type of follower - middle aged woman rather than young women despite her being in her 40s. She's failed at being a royal, failed in Hollywood, her other instagram accounts failed. Catherine can be forgiven for her similar video but not Meghan because there's always something wrong with her doing something pretty much the same. She was thoughtless about posting this given what happened in New Orleans. Even more thoughtless because he had an ISIS flag even though that wasn't known at the time, All criticisms levelled against her from one post on instagram.

She’s a celebrity. The worst thing for a celebrity is to not talk about them at all, not the chatter on MN

Aspargar · 02/01/2025 12:40

kirinm · 02/01/2025 12:37

I don't think the level of bitching is normal at all.

Do you think it’s normal to get this rankled about a few MNrs mocking a celebs insta post?

kirinm · 02/01/2025 12:45

@Aspargar it's far from 'a few'.

loropianalover · 02/01/2025 13:12

IcedPurple · 02/01/2025 12:16

I'm not sure. She still hasn't cracked a million, and that's peanuts in social media terms.

The 'big names' you speak of have tens or even hundreds of millions of followers. They also have some substance to their fame that goes beyond being married to the 5th in line to the British throne. Frolicking on the beach in beige clothes is going to get very boring unless she has something else to offer.

Oh apologies, I definitely didn’t mean that she is ‘one of them’, just that I can see she’s employing that strategy. It’s possibly how she views herself (her name is pretty instantly recognisable to be fair, but the popularity and interest is no longer there).

I also raised an eyebrow earlier seeing she’s still not hit one million! People have definitely grown weary of her rebrands.

Serenster · 02/01/2025 13:13

It's one post on instagram and she's had her marriage questioned, piss taken out of her clothes, of her writing in the sand, of her name, of her use (or lack or) of the word 'the' in her instagram handle.

It’s one post on instagram from a Hollywood actress who had a part on a long-running cable drama and who was pivoting to being a SM influencer and starting to dip her toes into being a philanthropist who then met and married a Prince from the UK. Who be came one of the most famous women in the world, literally overnight, and who also then started setting out her narrative to the world. Who immediately started to sport a wardrobe of couture clothing (starting with her engagement photoshoot) and a lifestyle based around holidays (18 in her 18 months in the Royal Family), private jets, getaways in New York hotel suits and borrowed celebrity villas… and the occasional royal engagement.

Who appears to have bullied her staff, and started collaborating directly with a friendly journalist to settle some scores she had held for a while against her family and others. And then lied in Court about that.

Who 18 months later stood in a country of immense deprivation and told the world she was surviving, not thriving, and complaining that no-one had asked her if she was okay.

Who released her and her husband’s manifesto for a “progressive new role” within the royal family just a couple of months’ later that was focussed on giving them the ability to monetise their royal roles, something that the couple griped they were currently prohibited from doing.

Who when told “no” to that then went on a multi-year, multi-project smear campaign against their former family, using every platform available to them to call them cold, unfeeling, racist, unwilling to help Meghan, collaborators with the press against Meghan and Harry, bad parents and far far more. (Many of the allegations were things we knew Meghan and Harry had done themselves, by the way). In the meantime, Meghan was also painting herself as exceptional, adored and saint-like (in, amongst other things, Finding Freedom which she directly contributed to, their Netflix documentary - the pilot of the plane knelt down and thanked her for her service, remember - and articles about her - in The Cut she told the world that someone had told her people rejoiced in the streets of South Africa when she married). She paid a lot of money to PR firms to keep her name in the press and for her and Harry to be awarded spurious awards - for fighting racism in the Royal family, anyone? Something Harry had already walked back…

Who entered into multi-million pounds creative contracts from Netflix and Spotify despite having no experience and produced very little that drew a genuine audience, and who had the dubious pleasure of being dubbed “f**ing grifters” by one of the executives who had worked for them. Not to mention launched a lifestyle brand last year and then did precisely nothing about it. And who found that the Hollywood industry insider press reporting that the bullying of staff seemed to have been carried over in their new endeavours.

So please don’t pretend “one post on instagram” doesn’t bring with it several years now of hubris, ego and outrageous behaviour. Meghan’s supporters may have the memory of a goldfish, but please credit the rest of us with a working recall.

Thedom · 02/01/2025 13:15

this is a thread where posters are just bitching about Meghan then?

people are commenting and discussing her instagram debut and everything that has brought her to the point of setting up a personal SM account for public consumption.

she turns up to Invictus to steal the limelight.

This is exactly what happened in Germany and at the pre event in Vancouver, she wore a range of outfits, some of which were more than inappropriate, when she could have worn Invictus branded clothes, which is actually what most of the families of those participating wore. Yes, she is the founders wife and it would be expected she would be there to support him and the games, but being front and center in sharing the hosting with him was beyond reasonable for a lot of people. That is not bitching or bullying, that is commenting on something that a lot of people generally found insensitive and ill considered.

No one has made any of this stuff up, it's there for public commentary. Obviously not everyone finds it distasteful, but a lot of people did and it has become a discussion point as a result.

Aspargar · 02/01/2025 13:15

kirinm · 02/01/2025 12:45

@Aspargar it's far from 'a few'.

Yes, it very much is

ShesNotACowShesAFox · 02/01/2025 13:16

The sand video is cringe and it all just comes across as a desperate attempt to copy BIL and SIL, who I just think she must be obsessed with

Aspargar · 02/01/2025 13:17

Perfection @Serenster

JSMill · 02/01/2025 13:26

What a great post @Serenster.

TulipTiptoer · 02/01/2025 13:40

Gosh, some people are incredibly triggered by Meghan to feel so aggrieved by her. They need to step back and make a conscious effort to ignore what she is doing. I am sure they will feel better for it.

PrettyFlyforaMaiTai · 02/01/2025 13:40

Aspargar · 02/01/2025 12:08

Yes, too many rebrands

  1. She tried to rebrand from insta influencer to Royal. That was a disaster of epic proportions
  2. She tried Royal to philanthropist/feminist global leader. That didn’t work out
  3. We had global leader to entertainment production (NF/spotify). That didn’t work out
  4. We had boss lady producer to Trad-wife jam maker, that came to nothing
  5. Now we've got ‘just Meghan’ …’joy’ influencer

So rebrand meghan 5.0 and back to where she was 10 years ago.

It reminds me of her South Park USP profile 🤣

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Thedom · 02/01/2025 13:41

Absolutely on point Serenster.

Let's not overlook their campaign against Social Media platforms and the harm they are worried they can do. Now here she is promoting a very curated video, the aesthetics and presentation trying to impart an mage of a carefree woman with flowing locks, dressed in virginal white, dancing around on an empty beach filmed by an adoring husband.,

All after years of complaining about SM.

So much for authenticity.

Of course people will discuss it.

pelargoniums · 02/01/2025 13:41

loropianalover · 02/01/2025 13:12

Oh apologies, I definitely didn’t mean that she is ‘one of them’, just that I can see she’s employing that strategy. It’s possibly how she views herself (her name is pretty instantly recognisable to be fair, but the popularity and interest is no longer there).

I also raised an eyebrow earlier seeing she’s still not hit one million! People have definitely grown weary of her rebrands.

The popularity might not be there for her any more (of course it isn’t, there’s been a targeted hate campaign since she left the royal family), but the interest is certainly there: look at this thread. The daily mail has NINE stories spun off this one Instagram post alone. Largely she’s driving a lot of hate clicks, which is brutal: the fail is making money from people’s dislike of her but she’s unable to monetise the interest herself.

TulipTiptoer · 02/01/2025 13:48

pelargoniums · 02/01/2025 13:41

The popularity might not be there for her any more (of course it isn’t, there’s been a targeted hate campaign since she left the royal family), but the interest is certainly there: look at this thread. The daily mail has NINE stories spun off this one Instagram post alone. Largely she’s driving a lot of hate clicks, which is brutal: the fail is making money from people’s dislike of her but she’s unable to monetise the interest herself.

What an insightful post.

One very short instagram post and she is pilloried. And just because she talks about the dangers of social media, she is never allowed to post anything anywhere. Not have an IG account, nothing?

The media make a fortune out of stirring up hate about her.

I thought it was a nice beach scene, it's wasn't even half a minute long! It hardly rivals Kate & William's ten minute floaty video

Thedom · 02/01/2025 13:49

And what about them giving the 'Scoop', first look and background details to People Magazine??

Let's be real about their very own hype.

BemusedAmerican · 02/01/2025 13:57

My reaction when I saw the Instagram jump was "bots". I'm not mean or overly critical, just realistic.

ShesNotACowShesAFox · 02/01/2025 13:57

Let’s not forget Meghan is Hollywood through and through. She was raised in Hollywood by a father who worked in TV, and her normal is very different to the normal of the RF. in Hollywood, fakeness - fake teeth, faces, relationships, houses, lifestyles - is not something that’s frowned upon or considered low brow. It’s expected. Another thing that’s expected and normalised is thinly veiled rivalries. Hollywood stars have survived on these for decades. And EVERYTHING - from outfits, to home aesthetics, to words used and now social media content - is carefully curated to play on these rivalries and keep the ‘stats’ relevant. Again it’s not frowned upon, it’s normal. It’s just that no one says it out loud.

Another MO of Hollywood is curating press to wage smear campaigns - look at what Justin Bandoni has done to Blake Lively. This is bread and butter of Hollywood stars. It’s what H&M have done and it’s what they reckon K&W have done because that’s the world Meghan is used to and doesn’t get that the RF doesnt operate the same way.

I believe Meghan when she said she couldn’t believe she had to curtsy to the Queen. She thought that was for show only. Of course she does. She’s Hollywood, everything public facing is done for the benefit of promoting an image and she assumed the RF were the same rather than a long standing institution steeped in and surviving on traditions and order. In Hollywood they smile and preen and gush about their family and then in private they sleep in seperate beds, go visit their lovers and argue with each other. And yes the RF have done the latter but they never have bothered to hide it.

And because Harry is something of a half wit who fell for a pretty woman he goes along with it and is susceptible to the fakeness.

When Meghan was in Suits she seemed to exude “cutesy non controversial actress not especially talented so playing on the wellness hippy lifestyle brand”. Everything she does - the ever changing brands, hippy like drivel, California laid back girl, writing inspirational messages on bananas, is what thousands of cutesy non controversial not especially talented actresses has done before her. And she’s picking up from where she left off.

I genuinely think she either knew the score marrying into the RF, and thought she’d go in and shake things up (only to be shouted down and told to get in line behind Kate) or she thought the RF was another faction of the Hollywood style principle of living, and realised that actually it’s lots of ribbon cutting of factories in places like Hull, and thought “fuck this I’m going home”

Mylovelygreendress · 02/01/2025 14:09

Great post @Serenster 👏

Aspargar · 02/01/2025 14:12

TulipTiptoer · 02/01/2025 13:40

Gosh, some people are incredibly triggered by Meghan to feel so aggrieved by her. They need to step back and make a conscious effort to ignore what she is doing. I am sure they will feel better for it.

Gosh, you seem incredibly triggered by this thread to feel so aggrieved by it. Perhaps you should step back and make a conscious effort to ignore this thread. I’m sure you will feel better for it.

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