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Twistybranch · 21/09/2024 10:31

See all these wise posters, lots of what we have said has been ‘confirmed’ by other sources

article in the DM:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/royals/article-13874743/Harry-Meghan-Hollywood-turns-Sussexes-ALISON-BOSHOFF-venom-schadenfreude.html

https://archive.ph/xgEdv

One senior Hollywood publicist tells me: 'First of all, everyone industry-wide, EVERYONE reads The Hollywood Reporter. It's really striking that WME did not stop this running.'
She adds: 'WME normally – you would think – would have been threatening and denying access to other stars. Was this done here?

Thats exactly what we all thought! it’s strange how they are letting this stuff out.

As we have all seen in recent days, the dark art of covering up and killing stories- look at Al Fayed and what he got away with. So WME have done nothing???

Also, Harry attending an event in his own because Meghan is sick. No. This is part of separating their ‘brands’- I doubt she will attend any future events like these with Harry.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13875773/sick-meghan-markle-prince-harry-kevin-costner-charity-event.html

Seems like the wheels are falling off to me!

Has Hollywood turned on the Sussexes? Industry bigwigs reveal all

Days after a ­brutal take-down in The Hollywood Reporter, which labelled Meghan as 'Duchess Difficult', neither she nor Harry attended her talent agent's Emmys after party.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/royals/article-13874743/Harry-Meghan-Hollywood-turns-Sussexes-ALISON-BOSHOFF-venom-schadenfreude.html

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BigWillyLittleTodger · 28/09/2024 16:32

Lifestooshort71 · 28/09/2024 14:47

If one could work out the number of hours this year that their children had neither parent at home, I wonder how that compares to a standard family in the UK where both parents work full time and their children are in wraparound weekly care, albeit with a grandparent (Doria in their case) doing a regular shift? There may not be much in it. I'm always wary of judging people's childcare arrangements as we don't know all the facts (and it's none of our business, tbh).

Totally unfair comparison, Meghan and Harry are multi millionaires who don’t ever have to work a day in their lives if they so wish, they could spend all their time with their children 24/7 unlike most parents who need two incomes just to pay the bills.

Alectoishome · 28/09/2024 16:43

Onlyonekenobe · 28/09/2024 16:13

He's either so weak he can be manipulated to do this terrible thing. Or he's so self absorbed he doesn't empathise with those he supposedly loves. Or so stupid he doesn't understand the consequences. Or so heartless he doesn't care.

Probably some of all the above.

As for the RF bringing him back into the fold: better to have your enemies inside the tent pissing out than outside pissing in, as he has been. They’ll give him just enough to bring him back and keep him in line/hock to them. Meghan would be unfortunate collateral damage, but as they have children she wouldn’t be treated badly.

The RF will always put the integrity of the monarchy first. How could they have them back?
They are probably disliked more than even Andrew, and thats saying something. That have told the world that the Brits are racist, that we made her race such an issue. That this country was not safe for her children.

When in reality they were cheered and celebrated and many, many millions of taxpayer money in austerity Britain were spent in her quest to have a bigger wedding than W&C.

Surely the only way they would have Harry back is without Meghan, and even then he'd have to live in quiet, sheepish obscurity like his disgraced Uncle.

Onlyonekenobe · 28/09/2024 16:56

Hmmm. I don’t know. Andrew’s entitlement and arrogance are off the charts. Almost equal to Meghan’s. But he’s much much older and has nothing left to offer the RF or the public. He also has three siblings.

Harry is a different kettle of fish. His actions may have been deplorable but they weren’t criminal or deviant. If his family welcomes him back, it’ll be difficult for the public to object, really. Once William is king, who will be his back up? His cousins all have plans of their own, and other than Beatrice none of them seem willing or keen.

A better template would have been Diana, if she had lived. That said, she was always loyal to the institution and respectful to the monarch.

I think Harry’s reintegration could be a PR story to beat all PR stories. He’d have to go a public and authentic mea culpa + learning curve + flawless service from then on. And put his children through rigorous “training” if they’re to be a part of the family too (it’s not like Meghan would object to her kids princessing and princeing on a global stage).

I can see it happening, and I can see Harry doing it.

Needanewname42 · 28/09/2024 17:32

The RF have brilliant PR people at the finger tips.
Even if it involves a long road they managed to turn Camillas and Sophie & Edwards reputations around.

I can definitely see it happening for Harry alone, but not for them as a couple.

MrsLeonFarrell · 28/09/2024 17:38

Needanewname42 · 28/09/2024 17:32

The RF have brilliant PR people at the finger tips.
Even if it involves a long road they managed to turn Camillas and Sophie & Edwards reputations around.

I can definitely see it happening for Harry alone, but not for them as a couple.

Even the best PR can only turn reputations around if the individual involved is willing to accept advice. I see no evidence that Harry has the patience or humility to work to change how he is perceived.

As far as he is concerned he is fine, it's everyone else that's the problem.

CoffeeCantata · 28/09/2024 17:38

I've figured out why Meghan is staying back in Montecito while Harry goes to Africa - she's conducting the Spanish Inquisition into which member of their current staff blabbed to the HR!
@cheezncrackers

This frightening thought occurred to me too. We're told that one of the 12 people who spoke to the HR still works for them, so I can only imagine the atmosphere in that office right now! I'm seeing Meghan strutting up and down between desks, wearing 3 inch stilettos, arms folded but fingers still tapping, glaring at everyone in turn to see who breaks down and begs forgiveness! Scary stuff...

Harry probably thought he'd be safest out of the way.

CoffeeCantata · 28/09/2024 17:41

JSMill · 28/09/2024 13:25

@Hiji didn't she get Archie to hand out things to homeless people? I feel very uncomfortable with the idea of young children handing out charity to adults. It may be good for the child but I feel it's condescending to the adult.

I agree that would be very uncomfortable. Clearly she's copying Diana who took the princes to visit homeless people and AIDS sufferers - but they were much older, and simply accompanied her.

Archie's to young to understand the situation, so really, it's just a performative stunt.

Alectoishome · 28/09/2024 17:47

CoffeeCantata · 28/09/2024 17:38

I've figured out why Meghan is staying back in Montecito while Harry goes to Africa - she's conducting the Spanish Inquisition into which member of their current staff blabbed to the HR!
@cheezncrackers

This frightening thought occurred to me too. We're told that one of the 12 people who spoke to the HR still works for them, so I can only imagine the atmosphere in that office right now! I'm seeing Meghan strutting up and down between desks, wearing 3 inch stilettos, arms folded but fingers still tapping, glaring at everyone in turn to see who breaks down and begs forgiveness! Scary stuff...

Harry probably thought he'd be safest out of the way.

How can they stand it. Imagine having to work for a talentless creature like her who now fancies herself as some kind of Marie Antoinette.

Flouncing about like the Queen of Sheba like she never earned $10 an hour acting out blow jobs in cars.

No wonder she knew she had to be back in the US to launch her full Cruella mode, in US it seem that whoever has the most money has the most status, not quite as simple as that in the UK where poor manners and how you treat the people working for you, show you up for the trash you are.

Uricon2 · 28/09/2024 17:50

CoffeeCantata · 28/09/2024 17:41

I agree that would be very uncomfortable. Clearly she's copying Diana who took the princes to visit homeless people and AIDS sufferers - but they were much older, and simply accompanied her.

Archie's to young to understand the situation, so really, it's just a performative stunt.

Very much so. Huge difference between taking older kids (privately) to see that not everyone has their privilege and fortune and performative "charity" where you involve a tiny child who can't possibly understand, with a journalist in tow. Weren't some of these "gifts" donated from the back of a Porsche at one point?

Diana's actions obviously stuck with William, Patron of Centrepoint. I think he does show a genuine care about homelessness.

Crabbyappletree · 28/09/2024 18:06

Twistybranch · 28/09/2024 12:20

Yes both of them talk a lot about the kids….but are always away, even on Mother’s Day. Tells you all you need to know.

if they are like this when they are this little- then it’s spells bad news for as the kids grow older. The kids will always remember

Ive always got the feeling that Meg never really bonded with lili. It’s only after her birth did they really hide both kids from view. She didn’t go out as much when Archie was little- but she’s been out and about for years now. It’s all very strange. Especially how exited they were to have a girl.

Neither of them sound like normal parents when they talk are asked about the children (versus saying pre-rehearsed things about them). Always generic remarks and not particularly warm or prsonalised, always slightly panicked looking when asked.

Twistybranch · 28/09/2024 18:12

Complete sidetrack:

But bringing back Meghans clapback and her employees talking about all the things she buys- dog leash for a new dog, skin hamper for dry skin etc. Always thinking of others

Do you remember when in Spare, Harry claims W&C were upset that they weren’t given Easter gifts (by which they mean the kids obviously). Harry and Meghan pretending they didnt know that was a thing.

For someone who is supposed to be so thoughtful etc….she doesn’t buy the kids an Easter basket? Baring in mind, Easter gift baskets are a much bigger thing in the US than they are here (here a choco egg will do)

It was obviously done deliberately- it’s like saying you didn’t know you give presents at Xmas! Bull!

Imagine doing that to little kids.

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Uricon2 · 28/09/2024 18:19

Good points @Twistybranch .

Clearly they learned fast and/or remembered.

https://www.townandcountrymag.com/society/tradition/a60309784/prince-harry-meghan-markle-easter-decorations-egg-hunt-shop/

ETA my one and only uncle of any significance in my life had very serious MH issues. This has made me remember the eggs he always got us, chosen with love and care.

Alectoishome · 28/09/2024 18:19

Twistybranch · 28/09/2024 18:12

Complete sidetrack:

But bringing back Meghans clapback and her employees talking about all the things she buys- dog leash for a new dog, skin hamper for dry skin etc. Always thinking of others

Do you remember when in Spare, Harry claims W&C were upset that they weren’t given Easter gifts (by which they mean the kids obviously). Harry and Meghan pretending they didnt know that was a thing.

For someone who is supposed to be so thoughtful etc….she doesn’t buy the kids an Easter basket? Baring in mind, Easter gift baskets are a much bigger thing in the US than they are here (here a choco egg will do)

It was obviously done deliberately- it’s like saying you didn’t know you give presents at Xmas! Bull!

Imagine doing that to little kids.

What stood out to me about the easter thing is that W&C wouldn't just suddenly take umbridge about Easter gifts. Clearly Harry had been buying for the children in previous years and then it stopped. The only reason his brother would mention it would be from hurt that the children no longer get a gift from their uncle, which George at least was probably old enough to notice. They are nasty.

EdithWeston · 28/09/2024 18:25

MrsLeonFarrell · 28/09/2024 17:38

Even the best PR can only turn reputations around if the individual involved is willing to accept advice. I see no evidence that Harry has the patience or humility to work to change how he is perceived.

As far as he is concerned he is fine, it's everyone else that's the problem.

Agree

For Sophie and Edward, they didn't change the PR, they changed the substance. They ended their outside business interests (they were essentially "half in/half out" and it went very badly wrong) and carried out all the duties assigned to them, and built up charitable expertise. The PR was the same as ever - churning out press releases on what they do (even though for years they had next to no coverage), never did what is now called clapping back, and let the good works and general royalling speak for itself.

Camilla - essentially the same approach. No attempt whatsoever to counter directly the absolutely shitty public perception. Instead it was work on the substance - a small number of good causes and letting it grow over years

I really don't see that their aim is reputation management. It's working on the substance that builds the reputation and the rest will follow

MrsLeonFarrell · 28/09/2024 18:28

EdithWeston · 28/09/2024 18:25

Agree

For Sophie and Edward, they didn't change the PR, they changed the substance. They ended their outside business interests (they were essentially "half in/half out" and it went very badly wrong) and carried out all the duties assigned to them, and built up charitable expertise. The PR was the same as ever - churning out press releases on what they do (even though for years they had next to no coverage), never did what is now called clapping back, and let the good works and general royalling speak for itself.

Camilla - essentially the same approach. No attempt whatsoever to counter directly the absolutely shitty public perception. Instead it was work on the substance - a small number of good causes and letting it grow over years

I really don't see that their aim is reputation management. It's working on the substance that builds the reputation and the rest will follow

Yes substance over style. And it's eminently doable in the Royal family because they are working with longer timescales than most people in the public eye.

But Harry just wants to counter every negative story rather than make a positive effort.

hepsitemiz · 28/09/2024 18:29

cheezncrackers · 28/09/2024 10:02

I agree, but he's made it very clear that he thinks he had a right to tell his story and that now he's got it all off his princely chest we should all forgive, forget and go right back to loving him again and forgiving all his princely foibles. It's not just the British public - he'd like Dad and Willy to get over themselves and welcome him back with open arms too.

After apologizing, of course! Don’t forget the apology he’s waiting for 😉

Lifestooshort71 · 28/09/2024 18:35

BigWillyLittleTodger · 28/09/2024 16:32

Totally unfair comparison, Meghan and Harry are multi millionaires who don’t ever have to work a day in their lives if they so wish, they could spend all their time with their children 24/7 unlike most parents who need two incomes just to pay the bills.

Does being multi-millionaires mean not going to work then? Hmmm. I get tired of the 'poor hard-done-by' children theme that keeps recurring - they live a life of luxury and will never have money worries, they probably have a doting granny on tap and a parent there most of the time.

Twistybranch · 28/09/2024 19:10

Well spotted! @Uricon2

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CoffeandTiaMaria · 28/09/2024 19:33

MrsLeonFarrell · 28/09/2024 17:38

Even the best PR can only turn reputations around if the individual involved is willing to accept advice. I see no evidence that Harry has the patience or humility to work to change how he is perceived.

As far as he is concerned he is fine, it's everyone else that's the problem.

And the second things stop going his way he’ll turn nasty and vindictive, do a ‘tell all’ interview, write another book etc etc.
I honestly can’t see how he can ever be trusted again.

MrsLeonFarrell · 28/09/2024 19:38

CoffeandTiaMaria · 28/09/2024 19:33

And the second things stop going his way he’ll turn nasty and vindictive, do a ‘tell all’ interview, write another book etc etc.
I honestly can’t see how he can ever be trusted again.

This is the real problem isn't it. I would always hope for reconciliation because I bet it's difficult for everyone, but he put a lot of private stuff out there and that's something that must be hard to get over.

Needanewname42 · 28/09/2024 19:45

MrsLeonFarrell · 28/09/2024 19:38

This is the real problem isn't it. I would always hope for reconciliation because I bet it's difficult for everyone, but he put a lot of private stuff out there and that's something that must be hard to get over.

I totally agree.
It can't be nice for anyone, least of all Charles.
I also feel for Harry's kids they appear to be completely isolated from all extended family, on both sides.

Uricon2 · 28/09/2024 19:46

CoffeandTiaMaria · 28/09/2024 19:33

And the second things stop going his way he’ll turn nasty and vindictive, do a ‘tell all’ interview, write another book etc etc.
I honestly can’t see how he can ever be trusted again.

I don't honestly see how he can be. So much damage, so much betrayal. I know that The Crown on Netflix was very flawed in how they presented loads of things, but in essence they were right in the fact that the successors have to protect the monarchy, as it exists.

2 people have put themselves in opposition within the last 100 years. Edward Windsor and Harry.

Good luck, the modern Prince Hal, who hasn't seemed to realise that in the grand scheme of things, you're not that important. It is the way it is and better than you (Anne, Edward) got heir heads around it and make a huge contribution.

Rhaidimiddim · 28/09/2024 19:48

StrawberryWasp · 28/09/2024 13:51

The narrative developing that M is toxic and Harry is a good guy who can be rehabilitated without her, is making me cross.

I hold him more accountable for the vicious self absorbed public unkindness to his family than her. Because they are his family.
He should have had more loyalty, more care more love for these people who've been in his whole life than we could ever expect M to have.

Ok she's obviously a determined hard nosed women who wants what she wants and doesn't let others get in her way. Fair enough. Maybe not the nicest women ever but they are qualities that get you somewhere. (E.g. bagging a Prince). But equally you may seem a bit of a bitch to others.

So you can understand her ditching and dissing his family. They were inconvenient to her aims & oersonally they are unimportant to her.

But for him to do this? It's the deepest worst betrayal. Hurting those you've loved, who are closest to you, attacking them so publicly accusing them of the worst things, when you know they can't defend themselves, when they are at vulnerable points in their lives.
It's unforgivable. Someone who will betray his own family, hurt them so much in the way he has is someone who can never be trusted again.

He's either so weak he can be manipulated to do this terrible thing. Or he's so self absorbed he doesn't empathise with those he supposedly loves. Or so stupid he doesn't understand the consequences. Or so heartless he doesn't care.

She is what she is. Go getting and ruthless. It's quite simple to understand her.

But what he's done is much more malevolent.

This poor Harry, she's so evil stuff is just wrong imo.

💯

Rhaidimiddim · 28/09/2024 20:29

Onlyonekenobe · 28/09/2024 16:56

Hmmm. I don’t know. Andrew’s entitlement and arrogance are off the charts. Almost equal to Meghan’s. But he’s much much older and has nothing left to offer the RF or the public. He also has three siblings.

Harry is a different kettle of fish. His actions may have been deplorable but they weren’t criminal or deviant. If his family welcomes him back, it’ll be difficult for the public to object, really. Once William is king, who will be his back up? His cousins all have plans of their own, and other than Beatrice none of them seem willing or keen.

A better template would have been Diana, if she had lived. That said, she was always loyal to the institution and respectful to the monarch.

I think Harry’s reintegration could be a PR story to beat all PR stories. He’d have to go a public and authentic mea culpa + learning curve + flawless service from then on. And put his children through rigorous “training” if they’re to be a part of the family too (it’s not like Meghan would object to her kids princessing and princeing on a global stage).

I can see it happening, and I can see Harry doing it.

Nope. I cannot see this happening. We expect a certain type of behaviour from the RF and H has deviated from this big-time, not least in maligning the British press and public.

If the RF try to slot him back in, there will be serious pushback. Against H in a public role, and against the RF for breaking their (informal social) contract with them public.

If we generally tolerate a constitutional monarchy, we won't tolerate one that expects us to respect H after all he has done.

GailPlattsDeadHusband · 28/09/2024 20:42

Sorry to derail but I've been tucked up in bed all day with a very bad cold. I decided to finally give End Game a read to get the day in. On the library app as I refused to buy it.

I'm almost done. It's positively dripping in venom towards the RF. (I know Sussex Supports like to say our threads are just as venomous about the Sainted duo).

I had a quick nose at Mr Scobie's twitter, while he is still on team Sussex I think he's been "Markled" since its publication. No more inside scoops being fed to him.

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