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MrsCarson · 08/08/2024 15:37

I watched it on the CNN website, it was a load of twaddle, but they seemed fine together, she was her usual most important self and he was the side kick.

BigWillyLittleTodger · 08/08/2024 15:52

I do not doubt Meghan when she speaks about how she was feeling when pregnant. I do doubt her story that no one helped.

I’ve never believed her I’m afraid, abusive men use the threat of suicide to control their wives “if you leave me I will kill myself” and it’s clear Meghan needs to be in control, coupled with the fact she cosplays Diana whenever the opportunity arises who threatened to throw herself down the stairs when she was pregnant, Meghan knew exactly what buttons to push with Harry.

BunnyLake · 08/08/2024 16:03

elprup · 05/08/2024 09:25

Oh sorry - whereabouts? I couldn’t see a thread.

I know Daily Mail links are a no no, but I was drawn in by the headline and did find some of the article quite amusing - specifically these bits 😂

'I am so, so happy you're here. Thank you,' said Meghan, giving the famous American television host that special big hug she reserves for famous American television hosts.

'We always talk about in the olden days if your kids were under your roof, you knew what they were up to,' he said, making a steeple with his fingers to illustrate the shape of a roof, presumably so that any hobbits or igloo-dwellers out there would know what he was talking about.

I thought him doing that roof gesture was very odd but quite funny and childlike. He is (or they are) ‘fascinating’ as my son would say, and it’s not a compliment when he says it lol.

BunnyLake · 08/08/2024 16:16

Re her ‘haven’t scratched the surface yet’ I believe she’s saying that because her other ventures have failed. She’s having to circle back to old news because she hasn’t really got anything new or viable going on.

I think Harry wasn’t using comforting body language because he’s knows it’s a load of crock and my guess is he’s bored with her (but obviously hasn’t a clue what to do about it).

My other guess is he looks longingly at Ben Affleck and wonders why he too can’t rid himself of a narc wife the way Ben can (it’s called having talent Harry, and oodles of money).

Thinkingabouttherapy · 08/08/2024 16:20

Here’s an interesting video of a Queen & Commonwealth trust event for International Women’s Day which took place a couple of months later (March 2019)

Watch Adwoa Aboah talk (from about 15:20 in the video) about her suicide attempt. And then listen to Meghan’s speech, which follows.

such a contrast.

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smilesy · 08/08/2024 16:20

BigWillyLittleTodger · 08/08/2024 15:52

I do not doubt Meghan when she speaks about how she was feeling when pregnant. I do doubt her story that no one helped.

I’ve never believed her I’m afraid, abusive men use the threat of suicide to control their wives “if you leave me I will kill myself” and it’s clear Meghan needs to be in control, coupled with the fact she cosplays Diana whenever the opportunity arises who threatened to throw herself down the stairs when she was pregnant, Meghan knew exactly what buttons to push with Harry.

It’s very difficult to say that you disbelieve someone’s declared suicidal ideation and obviously we have no real idea of exactly how the Duchess was feeling. However, there are so many inconsistent and downright bizarre claims in both her and Harry’s account of this episode that it does seem unlikely that she is being entirely truthful. MrsLeon is applying her own standards of honest expression of feelings which, unfortunately may not be the course of action that Meghan is following. It is difficult to believe that she felt this way, received no help apparently and yet recovered quickly

GiveMeSpanakopita · 08/08/2024 16:25

H+M are a fascinating case study in what happens long-term when PR goes wrong.

Also a salutory reminder that PR alone is no substitute for substance.

Their case study should be taught in college Communications courses.

smilesy · 08/08/2024 16:26

GiveMeSpanakopita · 08/08/2024 16:25

H+M are a fascinating case study in what happens long-term when PR goes wrong.

Also a salutory reminder that PR alone is no substitute for substance.

Their case study should be taught in college Communications courses.

In other words, don’t be all mouth and no trousers 😆

BigWillyLittleTodger · 08/08/2024 16:27

I’ve always found it strange that this episode was never mentioned again, nothing in Spare, nothing in the six part reality show or any other interview or book that I know of.

GiveMeSpanakopita · 08/08/2024 16:37

smilesy · 08/08/2024 16:26

In other words, don’t be all mouth and no trousers 😆

Well, yeah, but more than that tbh. Don't make grand announcements you can't follow through on. Don't make highly specious word salady speeches about love and authenticity that, souffle-like, collapse at the slightest pressure of scrutiny.

Above all, don't assume that just because something seems old-fashioned and conservative, it's automatically useless. Meghan's derision of the RF on her Netflix show (the curtseying, the reservation of character, the non-propensity to hug strangers) implies that she thought that she saw zero value in the RF way of doing things and thought that she could sweep it all away, new broom like, and tun it into a hard shiny Californian confection.

But as time goes by it's looking more and more like the stodgy old suet pudding Windsor way of doing things - turning up, being stoical, talking to hoi polloi, not complaining - actually gives an institution far more mileage and sustainability than flash, pizzazz and the constant rehashing of old traumas.

I think what I'm getting at is...maybe the boring old stiff upper lip attitude of our ancestors...has something to be said for it after all. Maybe those old fuddy duddies actually knew a thing or two of what life is all about?

Who knows?

WillowWands · 08/08/2024 16:41

Likewhatever · 08/08/2024 13:49

I think she was actually very good at that part of the job, if it was all she had to do she would have been a great success. Unfortunately there’s a lot more to it than charming a reception line.

I think she is good at the surface charm thing. Talking about the weather etc, but she has no depth beyond that. I doubt she spent hours doing research and taking a genuine interest like some of the other members of the family.

WillowWands · 08/08/2024 16:42

GiveMeSpanakopita · 08/08/2024 16:37

Well, yeah, but more than that tbh. Don't make grand announcements you can't follow through on. Don't make highly specious word salady speeches about love and authenticity that, souffle-like, collapse at the slightest pressure of scrutiny.

Above all, don't assume that just because something seems old-fashioned and conservative, it's automatically useless. Meghan's derision of the RF on her Netflix show (the curtseying, the reservation of character, the non-propensity to hug strangers) implies that she thought that she saw zero value in the RF way of doing things and thought that she could sweep it all away, new broom like, and tun it into a hard shiny Californian confection.

But as time goes by it's looking more and more like the stodgy old suet pudding Windsor way of doing things - turning up, being stoical, talking to hoi polloi, not complaining - actually gives an institution far more mileage and sustainability than flash, pizzazz and the constant rehashing of old traumas.

I think what I'm getting at is...maybe the boring old stiff upper lip attitude of our ancestors...has something to be said for it after all. Maybe those old fuddy duddies actually knew a thing or two of what life is all about?

Who knows?

I agree with this.

Atethehalloweenchocs · 08/08/2024 16:54

Jan Moir is vile. Why would anyone read her?

smilesy · 08/08/2024 16:56

GiveMeSpanakopita · 08/08/2024 16:37

Well, yeah, but more than that tbh. Don't make grand announcements you can't follow through on. Don't make highly specious word salady speeches about love and authenticity that, souffle-like, collapse at the slightest pressure of scrutiny.

Above all, don't assume that just because something seems old-fashioned and conservative, it's automatically useless. Meghan's derision of the RF on her Netflix show (the curtseying, the reservation of character, the non-propensity to hug strangers) implies that she thought that she saw zero value in the RF way of doing things and thought that she could sweep it all away, new broom like, and tun it into a hard shiny Californian confection.

But as time goes by it's looking more and more like the stodgy old suet pudding Windsor way of doing things - turning up, being stoical, talking to hoi polloi, not complaining - actually gives an institution far more mileage and sustainability than flash, pizzazz and the constant rehashing of old traumas.

I think what I'm getting at is...maybe the boring old stiff upper lip attitude of our ancestors...has something to be said for it after all. Maybe those old fuddy duddies actually knew a thing or two of what life is all about?

Who knows?

I agree. There is so much emphasis by the Sussexes on how they feel and how they are victims that it is defining them completely. There is little prospect of feeling inner peace if you are constantly railing against perceived slights and injustice. Sometimes it’s better just to suck it up. When life gives you lemons make Lemonada ..oh, wait 😂

GiveMeSpanakopita · 08/08/2024 16:58

WillowWands · 08/08/2024 16:41

I think she is good at the surface charm thing. Talking about the weather etc, but she has no depth beyond that. I doubt she spent hours doing research and taking a genuine interest like some of the other members of the family.

I think she is good at the surface charm thing.

Never trust anyone who is highly charming on the surface and otherwise in private. Sociopathic trait.

QueenofTheBorg · 08/08/2024 17:01

Thank you @GiveMeSpanakopita for your interesting posts on this thread.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 08/08/2024 17:12

BigWillyLittleTodger · 08/08/2024 16:27

I’ve always found it strange that this episode was never mentioned again, nothing in Spare, nothing in the six part reality show or any other interview or book that I know of.

It definitely was mentioned in Spare, BigWillyLittleTodger, and I'm almost certain it made it into the Netflix 6-parter, though I'm not going to watch the whole thing again to check (it was bad enough the first time Hmm)

Very brave of you though, to say on here that you didn't believe it Wink

BigWillyLittleTodger · 08/08/2024 17:29

Puzzledandpissedoff · 08/08/2024 17:12

It definitely was mentioned in Spare, BigWillyLittleTodger, and I'm almost certain it made it into the Netflix 6-parter, though I'm not going to watch the whole thing again to check (it was bad enough the first time Hmm)

Very brave of you though, to say on here that you didn't believe it Wink

Thanks for clarification, will have to check out what he said now! No doubt me not believing her will not be well received by some people. I do believe she said it to Harry, I don’t believe for one second she had any intention of doing it for reasons stated in my previous post.

PoppysAunt · 08/08/2024 17:32

You'd think Harry would write about such a distressing episode in Spare, and that it would be mentioned in the Netflix series and subsequent interviews.

Rhaidimiddim · 08/08/2024 18:01

Thinkingabouttherapy · 08/08/2024 16:20

Here’s an interesting video of a Queen & Commonwealth trust event for International Women’s Day which took place a couple of months later (March 2019)

Watch Adwoa Aboah talk (from about 15:20 in the video) about her suicide attempt. And then listen to Meghan’s speech, which follows.

such a contrast.

Edited

That bump really changes size day to day.

Mymilkshakebringsallthepapstomycar · 08/08/2024 18:03

The Vintage Read has done an overview of the timeline and cross referenced the inconsistencies of their accounts in Spare (where it is mentioned) and on Oprah, plus press coverage at the time of the Royal Albert Hall event.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=r6NxcwSe2e4

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Bachboo · 08/08/2024 18:14

StrawberriesandCreamTea · 05/08/2024 12:59

No, this is about them trying to keep themselves relevant.

Then why talk about her if you think she is irrelevant. Anyone can say gossipy babble about her but it only serves to stack up as rubbish when set against Meghan’s lifelong commitment to helping others which is very well documented. So she bagged a Prince and left a country where tabloids inspired criticism and hateful trolling of unprecedented proportions. She now operates outside of this country and continues to advocate and put their charity in the driving seat to work for change. She is living her life and just because you don’t want her to have a platform does not mean she has to live under a rock. As she said in the interview she has barely scraped the surface of what her experience with suicide ideation means. It changes you forever and being called out as a liar because it looks a certain way when seen in public reveals nothing about the internal struggle. She isn’t playing the victim, she was victimised and is now on a journey to come to terms with that. If it helps others by sharing her experiences then that is and remains a good outcome for those who suffer too. Mental health conditions remain highly stigmatised.

I think it’s also quite likely that it was Harry who blocked her from inhouse treatment either in the US or the Priory here. He admitted he responded as “institutional Harry” but gave scant detail as to what he meant by this. Ultimately, he may find and Meghan too that no matter the support he now gives that it will lead to them going their separate ways. Meghan is forever changed and it takes years of work on the self to understand the impact of those changes. If their marriage survives I will be pleasantly surprised. I am hoping she writes about her experiences also and expect a book to be published either in 2025 or 2026.

I’m sorry but this is rubbish

MummyJ12 · 08/08/2024 18:21

So it has been pointed out to me that the parents that Harry and Meghan “met” as part of launching this, on CBS Sunday morning, were the same parents that attended the Archewell event in New York for Mental Health Day last year. It was made out that this was the first time that they had all met. (The father from Sunday’s interview can be found sat second left to Harry in the New York group photo.) The couple in the middle of the table from Sunday’s programme are far right in the same group photo.

New Meghan and Harry interview
New Meghan and Harry interview
New Meghan and Harry interview
New Meghan and Harry interview
MrsLeonFarrell · 08/08/2024 18:33

I think @GiveMeSpanakopita makes a good point about the stodgy royal approach. The late Queen, Charles and Anne have all spoken about the need to not be too innovative. Instead they try to be slightly behind the curve of culture and society. It makes sense because this way they avoid doing something that is out of date six months later. It's a delicate balance.

I can see how that would be strange to someone like Meghan who is used to celebrity culture where you are always having to reinvent yourself to keep people interested. I don't think she ever grasped that you don't need to keep people interested when you are part of a constitutional monarchy, you need to avoid causing offence or being seen as flashy or flaunting wealth or out of step with the more conservative (small c) middle in society.

WillowWands · 08/08/2024 18:37

MummyJ12 · 08/08/2024 18:21

So it has been pointed out to me that the parents that Harry and Meghan “met” as part of launching this, on CBS Sunday morning, were the same parents that attended the Archewell event in New York for Mental Health Day last year. It was made out that this was the first time that they had all met. (The father from Sunday’s interview can be found sat second left to Harry in the New York group photo.) The couple in the middle of the table from Sunday’s programme are far right in the same group photo.

More lies then…