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MaturingCheeseball · 28/04/2024 18:32

Can this be true? That Harry and Meghan are off on a “royal” trip to Nigeria? What’s the game now? My head is spinning!

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IcedPurple · 02/05/2024 15:54

At the time William and Catherine blamed their staff.

When?

Are you just making stuff up as you go along?

NoisySnail · 02/05/2024 15:55

@CoffeeCantata Your comments show that you have zero understanding of the political context.
What the Royal Family wear on official visits matters. The photo opportunities they create send messages.
Maybe the Royal Family and their staff simply are not bright enough to navigate a modern context?

IcedPurple · 02/05/2024 15:59

NoisySnail · 02/05/2024 15:55

@CoffeeCantata Your comments show that you have zero understanding of the political context.
What the Royal Family wear on official visits matters. The photo opportunities they create send messages.
Maybe the Royal Family and their staff simply are not bright enough to navigate a modern context?

Maybe they should have made clearly uncomfortable black women sit on the floor and expect them to be grateful for their princely baby's hand me downs?

Just to be 'modern'?

Nigeria?
Puzzledandpissedoff · 02/05/2024 16:04

CoffeeCantata · 02/05/2024 13:48

IcedPurple · Today 13:35
I get that Jamaica want to leave the CW

They don't. They may want to become a republic, but it's highly unlikely they would choose to leave the Commonwealth.

And if they do, that's entirely up to them. Nobody's stopping them.

In that case, I think it was even ruder and inappropriate of the Jamaican PM to be so rude to W & K.

He knew very well that that topic was for another time and place - and not for a public speech at a royal tour dinner! I wasn't impressed.

With due respect to the Jamaicans' right to choose their future for themselves I agree with you, CoffeeCantata

I'm not fond of the concept of inviting guests so you can be rude to them, but with some nations it's a well worn path to hold out one hand for money and flick the Vs with the other, and while Brits can be blamed for a lot this approach probably avoids posing awkward questions about exactly how the nation's running its internal affairs

NoisySnail · 02/05/2024 16:06

Jamaica were not holding their hands out for money. They were demanding an apology and reparations for slavery that the Royal Family participated in and benefitted from.

This place!! No wonder you have no understanding of why William and Catherine Colonial Tour was such a disaster.

CoffeeCantata · 02/05/2024 16:08

NoisySnail
What the Royal Family wear on official visits matters. The photo opportunities they create send messages.

That statement has no connection whatsoever with what I said in my post. You made a bizarre, illogical connection between a red dress and....what? Racism? Based on Gone with the Wind? You haven't explained why red is a problem colour when Scarlett more famously wore white, green, mauve and black - oh, and blue as well, I seem to remember.

So please explain your comment about the offensive message of a red dress. I'd be fascinated to hear!

Taken to its logical conclusion this idea is bonkers. What colours, then, may inoffensively worn in Jamaica? Please specify.

ArcaneWireless · 02/05/2024 16:09

It isn’t only photo opportunities that send messages.

Silence does too.

African Parks and the Sussex Squad spring to mind.

AliceOlive · 02/05/2024 16:11

NoisySnail · 02/05/2024 15:28

I do not care what Harry and Meghan do. But my point was they understand the political context they are working within. It shows. So Bob Marley's family was happy to meet them in Jamaica at the Film Premiere.
William and Catherine played the bongos and visited the tourist attraction - Bob Marley's old house. They clearly do not understand the political context they are working in.
If the Royal Family do not modernise by understanding modern political contexts, they will not last. Philip understood that, no one else seems to. Instead they just keep blaming anyone but themselves.

How did you determine that they understood the political context when they went to a movie in Jamaica? It’s apples and oranges anyway but more knowledgeable people than anyone here thought it was a goat rope.

CoffeeCantata · 02/05/2024 16:12

With due respect to the Jamaicans' right to choose their future for themselves I agree with you, CoffeeCantata

I'm not fond of the concept of inviting guests so you can be rude to them, but with some nations it's a well worn path to hold out one hand for money and flick the Vs with the other, and while Brits can be blamed for a lot this approach probably avoids posing awkward questions about exactly how the nation's running its internal affairs

I agree, Puzzled. I think the elephant in the room here is the apparently very confused and confusing messages coming from the Jamaican govt in all of this! I think a massive chunk of what is supposed to have gone so wrong ought to be laid at their door.

AliceOlive · 02/05/2024 16:13

NoisySnail · 02/05/2024 16:06

Jamaica were not holding their hands out for money. They were demanding an apology and reparations for slavery that the Royal Family participated in and benefitted from.

This place!! No wonder you have no understanding of why William and Catherine Colonial Tour was such a disaster.

You left out the word racism.

NoisySnail · 02/05/2024 16:13

@CoffeeCantata you are deliberately changing what I said. Surely no one is this dim?
It was not just a red dress. It was the type of dress Scarlett O Hara wore and recreated an image of a white slave mistress.
They knew the political situation in Jamaica and would have known about the open letter signed by many prominent Jamaicans about their planned visit, if they once looked at a newspaper. And still they recreated a Colonial look throughout their Caribbean tour.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 02/05/2024 16:18

NoisySnail · 02/05/2024 16:06

Jamaica were not holding their hands out for money. They were demanding an apology and reparations for slavery that the Royal Family participated in and benefitted from.

This place!! No wonder you have no understanding of why William and Catherine Colonial Tour was such a disaster.

You might at least try to get it right, NoisySnail; what on earth do you think this is about if not money:
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^"The reparations petition is based on a private motion by Jamaican lawmaker Mike Henry, who said it was worth some 7.6 billion pounds, a sum he estimated is roughly equivalent in today's terms to what Britain paid to the slaveholders.
"I am asking for the same amount of money to be paid to the slaves that was paid to the slave owners," said Henry, a member of the ruling Jamaica Labour Party"

I hold no particular view as to whether this is fully justified, though do wonder if anything paid would simply end up in someone's Swiss bank account, but let's not pretend it isn't about money

https://www.reuters.com/world/africa/jamaica-plans-seek-reparations-britain-over-slavery-2021-07-12/

AliceOlive · 02/05/2024 16:22

Are you talking about the green dress she wore to a state dinner?

Abouttimeforanamechange · 02/05/2024 16:23

Can someone post a picture of this red dress? I can't find a pic of any red dress that Catherine wore on that tour, let alone one that looks like something Scarlett O Hara might have worn.

IcedPurple · 02/05/2024 16:25

Abouttimeforanamechange · 02/05/2024 16:23

Can someone post a picture of this red dress? I can't find a pic of any red dress that Catherine wore on that tour, let alone one that looks like something Scarlett O Hara might have worn.

I'm also a bit baffled by this mysterious red dress.

I'd be interested in seeing a picture however. Kate looks fantastic in red.

I'll wait, along with the links about how the government didn't want the then Cambridges there, and how the Marley family refused to meet them. I may be waiting some time.

Runnerinthenight · 02/05/2024 16:26

LaMarschallin · 02/05/2024 14:00

Runnerinthenight

You're easily amused.

I'm always amazed at how many posters are apparently guffawing away while reading a message board.
I'm sometimes moved to smile and even, occasionally, "lol" - although that's more of an amused "Huh!" than the full-blown, rolling on the floor, teary eyes (and wet legs?) effect usually implied.

This exactly! Some nutters out there clearly!

Runnerinthenight · 02/05/2024 16:29

NoisySnail · 02/05/2024 15:11

Harry and Meghan by contrast did meet with Bob Marley's family on their trip to Jamaica. They did not have to pose in front of a cut out cardboard figure of Bob Marley.

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/us-celebrity-news/harry-meghans-welcome-jamaica-stark-31953377

How petty.

Talk about scraping the barrel.

NoisySnail · 02/05/2024 16:29

I am leaving you to it. I have had enough of the whitesplaining.
If anyone reading is interested in understanding the context you can read the open letter to the Royal Family signed by many prominent Jamaicans here. It explains clearly what they thought about the Royal visit before William and Catherine had even landed in Jamaica.

https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/prince-william-kate-middleton-jamaica-independence-b2040630.html

Opinion: An open letter to Prince William and Kate Middleton – from Jamaica

We are saddened that more progress has not been made given the burden of our colonial inheritance – and urge you to start with recognition of the need for atonement and reparations

https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/prince-william-kate-middleton-jamaica-independence-b2040630.html

Puzzledandpissedoff · 02/05/2024 16:33

I think the elephant in the room here is the apparently very confused and confusing messages coming from the Jamaican govt in all of this! I think a massive chunk of what is supposed to have gone so wrong ought to be laid at their door

Agree once again, CoffeeCantata, but as said - and while Britain undoubtably did some terrible things - it's so much easier to blame absolutely everything on someone else

Jamaica's been independent for 62 years now, though they retain the UK monarch as Head of State, and after decades of complaining I hope they'll change that if enough wish to (only wish we could!!)

Runnerinthenight · 02/05/2024 16:35

NoisySnail · 02/05/2024 14:55

And this board has been full of people, some on this thread, who have openly said they think Harry should leave Meghan and his children and return to the Royal Family.

You are actually delusional. Nobody is saying that!!!

I may think they are a pair of twats but I don't wish ill on them on their children. I just wish they would grow up and cultivate a little humility.

Gorgonemilezola · 02/05/2024 16:35

Still no link to the Scarlett O'Hara red dress, noisySnail?

CoffeeCantata · 02/05/2024 16:36

NoisySnail · Today 16:29

And they addressed this to W & C why exactly? Their concerns would have been better directed to their own govt. Or are they a very small minority - I don't claim to know - do you?

So isn't Jamaica a democracy? Why were they invited if the the general population was opposed to the visit? Either things are not so very democratic there, or there must have been more support for the visit than you think.

Your comments just make no sense on any level.

OneHeartySnail · 02/05/2024 16:37

The RF is a constitutional monarchy. If they do an.official visit it is at the request (instructions, phrased politely...) of the UK government and the host government.

The 'open letter from Jamaica' was from a number of individual Jamaicans, not the Jamaican government. If the government didn't want the visit they shouldn't have arranged it.

I suspect there were internal political aspects to inviting the visit and then publicly criticising them.

But, I also suspect pointing this out is a waste of time... just wanted to dissociate myself from this particular snail.

ArcaneWireless · 02/05/2024 16:42

Sweeping generalisations about the colour of posters is tiresome.

As for reparation?

I would rather modern day slavery was addressed than something people living and breathing now had nothing to do with.

There have been atrocities all through history.

All we can do is be better.

The French had the right idea 🍽️

Puzzledandpissedoff · 02/05/2024 16:45

So isn't Jamaica a democracy?

Yes it's been one since 1962, CoffeeCantata, though sadly plagued with electoral fraud - and no doubt that's all someone else's fault too Hmm

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