Don't quote me out of context. I said:
Everybody knows PA is a heinous shit, but he hasn't spent the last 3 years slagging off his family from afar, and then expecting hospitality and attendance at all the plum events. Whatever PA has done, he hasn't actually gone out of his way to hurt and lie about his family, has he.
What I said is absolutely true. I'll wait for you to apologise about questioning my values, since I made them clear (heinous shit).
If Harry told the truth (and how do you know he has?), then the last people he would want to spend Xmas with is the RF. Even if he has told the truth, he has done it in the most exploitative way possible - through multi million media deals - in the full knowledge that his family have the policy of not clapping back. Lining your pocket by slagging off people you profess to love is not conducive to family harmony, he cannot expect to be welcome or trusted at a family event again.