my issues with Meghan, were always that she seems to constantly be acting, and it’s all so sugary and soap opera-ish. Cringe. Having read your post though, I am considering why she’s acting all the time, and really for the first time seeing all the plates she’s been having to keep spinning since day one of being with “H”. Who could come across as genuine when they are indeed having to hide and control so much?
There may be some truth in this, but I think what most Brits don't understand is how insincere a lot of interactions are in LA, where Meghan is from.
My DH has an old friend who is 'in the entertainment business' and lives in LA and an evening with him can be rather wearing. He's very intelligent and interesting and he's good fun, but everything is SO amazing and wonderful and over the top. And while I know and like him, I do find him very superficial. Here we don't really do that sort of actor-y lovey-ness and if we see people doing it (e.g. Kate Winslet), we don't like it and we don't warm to the person. So when I saw Meghan for the first time, in the engagement interview, that's exactly how she came across - insincere, like she was acting, really saccharine sweet, like she wanted everyone to LOVE her. So yeah, she is always acting, and maybe she has her reasons for doing it, but she also grew up and still lives in a place where that kind of persona is the norm and while people there know it's fake, everyone does it.