Oh I'm very forgiving. Someone mocked in the media for using a prostitute is not gogn to forget that though are they, so sorry if I don't think his ramblings on US telly are particularly relevant.
However I'd have little tolerance for someone gossiping about others and sharing say, private conversations on fb then the same person complaining about others gossiping about them.
2 things. Illegal activity is wrong but so is invading people's privacy particularly if that is your own family for a grubby book. We can say both things are not ok.