Whatever the rights and wrongs of everyone's behaviour here - and we'll never know the truth - I think the Royal family missed a huge opportunity with Meghan. She appeals to a lot of younger people and because she's actually worked and been an independent career woman, is very relatable.
I used to think that.
The more public interviews, comments, books - that they make the less and less I think this was ever really on the cards.
I've never been that convinced that they really resonated with young people anyway - it more they saw them in the news and like with most RF indifferent/slightly positive attitude taken as support. I know MN demographic tends towards older parenthood but large swaths of "young people" have parents in this sort of age range or not far off - this is a middle age couple with huge privilege and wealth who seem immersed in petty drama and still a bit directionless in life.
I think the never complain, never explain was a surprisingly effective strategy by RF - apparently the Queen Mother was very different behind closed doors but was generally publicly liked because she smiled and had a few stock phrases that let people talk about themselves.
I'm also not convinced relatable automatically means popular - people do seem to like glamour and mystic the pomp and ceremony the RF swath themselves in does tends to bring the crowds out - the spectacle not really the relatability driving that.