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Anyone else thinks it telling MM had no family besides her mum at the wedding, no exes & she's no longer talking to ex bff & her bridesmaid Jessica Mulroany?

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Nurserymumm · 10/01/2023 08:06

Anyone else think it's telling Meghan only had Doria at the wedding? No other family member!
None of her exes were there, Harry invited Chelsea & Cressida & both attended.
Before Harry Meghan & her stylist & bff Jessica Mulroany were inseparable, now they don't talk. Coincidently Jessica was part of the top echelons of Canadian society so did Meghan no longer need her friendship when she married the Prince of England?

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CopperMaran · 10/01/2023 13:43

ReneBumsWombats · 10/01/2023 11:37

If I was in her position & also a divorcee I would have said " H can we have a small intimate service with immediate family" but no she had to have the big state affair

She was marrying the heir presumptive, a senior royal, son of the then future King. There was no choice but to have a big state affair. It would have been seen as disrespectful to the people, and to all the state dignitaries who are invited to royal weddings, not to do it properly and exclude them all.

Anyway, how do you know Harry didn't want it that way? The book implies that he's hugely resentful of William's position. Not that he had any choice either.

Don’t agree with this one. I don’t believe he was ever the heir presumptive (I believe the last person to be heir presumptive was Queen Elizabeth II - as up until her father’s death she would have been replaced as his successor if he had gone on to have a male child. Now that gender doesn’t impact the succession order, I assume. she will also be the last ever heir presumptive in this a royal Family).

He was once 3rd in the line of succession and would now be 2nd if William hadn’t had 3 children but is 5th as William has had 3 children.

The heir (not presumptive) at the time of Harry and Meghan wedding was the then Prince Charles, who in fact did have a much smaller wedding (albeit his 2nd wedding) himself whilst heir.

CopperMaran · 10/01/2023 13:44

Oops I think I should have said now that she doesn’t impact the succession order.

Lampzade · 10/01/2023 13:44

Knocking Meghan has become a national sport

CopperMaran · 10/01/2023 13:44

arrgh! Darn autocorrect. Sex not gender.

potniatheron · 10/01/2023 13:48

sunnyminds76 · 10/01/2023 13:06

Not that in this day and age it should matter, I suppose, but why did she not live with her mother? Was it because she would have access (being closer) to a good school? If so, why didn't Doria stay close? Where was Doria?

I don't know, maybe she preferred the area her dad lived in? Not sure what you're getting at tbh and I agree that it shouldn't matter in this day and age.

Nurserymumm · 10/01/2023 13:56

pocketvenuss · 10/01/2023 13:17

I don't think it's odd that she had no ex s at the wedding. I think you are odd for thinking that she should have had.
I don't actually put much thought into any of it.
I do think you are very odd for being so over invested, for being so gleeful at the thought of anything negative about them, for believing gossip from tabloids, for starting a Meghan bashing thread.
This thread says not much about Meghan but a shit ton about you and none of it is good Petal.
I suggest you go fill your life with meaningful activities and ease off this whole 'living vicariously through tabloid chatter'

Well I'm sure Harry said, I'm still on good terms with Cressida & Chelsy I'd like them to share in our happiness.. Megs has said in the past she was still on great terms with her ex hubby & the chef she dumped for Harry, so why not have them there too? Unless the "get on great" part was all lies?

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SighsTheNewWord · 10/01/2023 14:07

OP, c'mon. Surely this 'inviting her ex' business is odd no matter how you spin it. Even if she was good friends with her exes, it doesn't mean she needs to have them at her wedding, or thay they'd come even if invited.

Surely, Harry inviting his two ex loves is the unusual thing here and Meghan deserves some praise (or ridicule?) for accepting it, compared to what mumsnetters would say had it been a liked or a regular person. I can imagine what the majority of posts would be if a mumsnetter said that her husband invited her exes to their wedding.

Are you now saying she should have tried to revenge by inviting hers too? Wouldn't that be petty? Wouldn't you have crucified her for inviting an ex if she did.

onlylarkin · 10/01/2023 14:07

It is not normal to invite exes to weddings in the US.

She fell.out with her dad because of what he did.

She grew up, essentially, as an only child due to age difference. I am not close to my sister than is 10 years younger.

She fell out with Mulroney after Mulroney was involved with racist rantings online.

Sayitagainmyl · 10/01/2023 14:13

@Nurserymumm No, not at all. But then I, like most, don’t obsess about the lives of people I don’t know. Why not go out for a walk or catch up with a friend for coffee if you have so much time on your hands? Idle hands, remember?

StarbucksSmarterSister · 10/01/2023 14:17

Another pointless but bullying thread about two people you don’t know but care about deeply.

Yep. With at least one potentially libellous and utterly nasty comment and I've only read up to page 3.

StarbucksSmarterSister · 10/01/2023 14:23

I have never been to a wedding where exes attended. Only one of my friends still sees their old schoolfriends and it's been like that since we were all 30 something.

It's not abnormal.

ImJustMadAboutSaffron · 10/01/2023 14:30

Littlepiggyinablanket · 10/01/2023 08:54

For me at least if I knew my husband was inviting his exes the way Harry invited Chelsea & Cressida, I would invite mine. Didn't she say she was still on fabulous terms with her ex husband & also the chef she dumped for Harry?
Chelsea & Cressida must have been thanking their lucky stars at the wedding...what a lucky escape they had!

Yes, just like Cory and Trev.

pelargoniums · 10/01/2023 14:35

Nurserymumm · 10/01/2023 13:56

Well I'm sure Harry said, I'm still on good terms with Cressida & Chelsy I'd like them to share in our happiness.. Megs has said in the past she was still on great terms with her ex hubby & the chef she dumped for Harry, so why not have them there too? Unless the "get on great" part was all lies?

Maybe she didn’t want her exes at her wedding? A wild and outlandish explanation but let’s run with it and see where it takes us.

Bugeyedowl · 10/01/2023 14:36

She's close to her mum, why does that not count for anything? Her father's family are toxic dumpster fire, so why should she invite them? She did want to invite her niece but the RF staff pressured her not to and she regrets it. Not everyone has a perfect or large family and you shouldn't have to invite anyone toxic to your wedding who you believe doesn't have your best interests at heart.

Littlepiggyinablanket · 10/01/2023 15:04

Bugeyedowl · 10/01/2023 14:36

She's close to her mum, why does that not count for anything? Her father's family are toxic dumpster fire, so why should she invite them? She did want to invite her niece but the RF staff pressured her not to and she regrets it. Not everyone has a perfect or large family and you shouldn't have to invite anyone toxic to your wedding who you believe doesn't have your best interests at heart.

Where were all Dora's family??? Or all the strong women who helped Doria raise her😏

DogBowlsAreMyWeapon · 10/01/2023 15:12

but Doris wasn’t there for what was it? 10 years? Thomas raised her alone. It’s all so very peculiar.

Kateforqueen · 10/01/2023 15:27

DogBowlsAreMyWeapon · 10/01/2023 15:12

but Doris wasn’t there for what was it? 10 years? Thomas raised her alone. It’s all so very peculiar.

So odd & paid for her private education. Gave her lots of contacts in the entertainment world.
Then when Thomas tries to tell his side of the story M&H go completely batshit...
What a pair of hypocrites who are doing the exact same now telling their side but how dare Thomas Markle 🤔

sunnyminds76 · 10/01/2023 17:21

potniatheron · 10/01/2023 13:48

I don't know, maybe she preferred the area her dad lived in? Not sure what you're getting at tbh and I agree that it shouldn't matter in this day and age.

I guess, although very different mothers (Doria seemingly more normal, supportive) both M&H were mother-less during key developmental stages. Now they both seem rudderless...

Kateforqueen · 10/01/2023 17:24

@sunnyminds76 Doria seems lovely & has handled herself perfectly

alwaysinwellies · 10/01/2023 17:32

Earholeseyeholesarsehes · 10/01/2023 09:58

I would have totally invited Beyoncé and Oprah to line to show off though in the absence of real friends but I doubt they would have wanted to come to the back room of a shut pub in North London.

Love your username - a homage to the Royle Family, perchance?

onlylarkin · 10/01/2023 17:41

Can someone show me proof she was gone for 10 years? I am finding nothing.

Earholeseyeholesarsehes · 10/01/2023 17:53

alwaysinwellies · 10/01/2023 17:32

Love your username - a homage to the Royle Family, perchance?

Yes - only my toddler was jumping on me so I messed up the last arseholes!

Bluekerfuffle · 10/01/2023 18:33

janeeyreair · 10/01/2023 08:11

Her dad sold stories about her and she was told not to invite Niece. Step-sister also sold stories and Niece agrees is not very nice and was never close to Megan.

Don't know about Jessica Mulroany but she had several close friends at baby shower and at wedding.

I think most people and fallen out with or lost touch with at least one formerly close friend.

Her dad didn’t sell stories about her before her wedding, and didn’t say anything much about her after it except that she was ignoring him and couldn’t be contacted. He couldn’t go anyway as he had a heart attack. Sounds absolute BS that she was told not to ask her cousin, what on earth would be the reason? KP has denied it.
It really does strike me as odd that she didn’t seem to have any childhood friends there, or more of her mother’s side of the family at least.

Quveas · 10/01/2023 18:36

Lampzade · 10/01/2023 13:44

Knocking Meghan has become a national sport

Yes... but let's not worry about a bit of misogynistic ranting. After all, this isn't a site that pretends to care about such things, is it?

janeeyreair · 10/01/2023 18:37

@Bluekerfuffle Her dad was paid for photos of him sitting in an Internet Cafe before the wedding. They were published in tabloids.

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