Harry needs to go NC

[Twatalert]

Harry needs to go NC with his family and grieve for the kind of family he never had.

It is clear they are completely dysfunctional. I believe everything he says. He has gained awareness of the abuse going on, but now sees abuse everywhere. It is typical for abuse survivors. Once you have seen it you see it everywhere and it is hard to distinguish which part is the abuse and which part is human.

He needs to spend time with himself, continue to process and come to terms with everything rather than selling it.

In time he might understand that he cannot change them and he cannot convince them to change. They'll either wake up or they won't. He can only decice how he wants to deal with what they give him. He has not yet understood he needs to let go of them, which is the reality of many that have been abused.

William was the golden child and Harry the scapegoat. Trouble is he finds issue with 'normal' things (bigger and smaller bedroom's..) rather than pinpointing the systematic abuse he has suffered.

He's trying to convince the world he was treated unfairly. A sign that he is not ready to let go and wants approval from millions. He is in pain.

Instead of books and interviews, he should write a diary (and not publish it).

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@Twatalert how can you believe everything he says but accept you haven't heard the full story

@Twatalert just take a joke mate

I don’t disagree with you, but that route doesn’t pay or get Meghan to the White House.

They could never give him enough
Hes had lots of money already

i actually think he was the golden child - everyone found him funny ( as a child ) he was also younger when his mother died and I think people and even his brother were protective and made allowances
He just doesn’t remember it

That’s why the fall has been so hard

im sure his drug dabbling hasn’t helped his development

@Twatalert , Harry is not the best poster boy for years and years of therapy.

I also don't think that William is a Golden Child in the usual understanding of the term. He is in line to be King and he is of necessity going to have a different path to Harry, in many ways a much more restricted one. From everything I've heard Diana bent over backwards to ensure Harry was not considered "less" in any way, even down to confronting the Queen Mother about favouritism. Charles was if anything too soft on him, from other accounts.

They would have been accused of black mail and muzzling his voice

Have you thought about the fact that H was a minor whilst taking drugs and what drives someone to do drugs?

it is not out of the norm for teens to try drugs.

most teens who try drugs do so cos they are offered them, eg at a party, bcos they want to try them and bcos want to get high from them. And bcos it is exciting and daring and bit rebellious and thy think it makes them appear grown up and cool, which all appeal to teenagers. And the same things apply to drinking and smoking, and have done for decades.

it’s not exactly hard to work out.

can’t see why Harry would be any different.

he still likes a drug hit, as proven by his actions when Meghan was giving birth. Sadly, that just showed a fully grown, adult male, acting like a twatty teen. He’s a stunted adolescent, telling his hilarious stories about his prick.

hopefully the laughter of the world will make him shut up.

Meghan did international relations at uni - she must have known how some of this stuff would come across. My theory is she wants the world to know what goes on in the head of this almost 40 year old so people can see it was not her that created things but his entitled man-child's approach to life! I never thought this would happen but I was beginning to feel sorry for her...until I realised she knew what he was like when she married him.

This thread is so offensive to real abuse survivors.

Harry may not have had as many hugs as he wanted, but there is no sign or evidence of 'abuse' or neglect. Therefore, your op is deeply offensive to many of us. Sibling rivalry is hardly abuse.

There's a million Harry threads! You start one to ask this?!

Please can he just go NC with everyone. Including the press,Netflix, publishers, Oprah etc blah blah blah....

I'm sorry but leaking "tabloid fodder" is not a form of abuse.

It's underhand and nasty, at best.

Harry and Meghan could simply not read the tabloid fodder and rise above it. Treat it for what it is idle gossip and half truths.

Isn't Michelle Obama one of their inspirational people?

"When they go low, you go high"

In this instance High equals a dignified silence and not adding to salacious rumour, gossip and inferences. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Honestly the lot of them need to go away, sit down like adults and sort it out behind closed doors. Even if the solution is to go away, never speak to or about one another.

Maybe we should crowdfund for a "relate" therapy session for them all, together. Petty arguments about dresses, beards and dog bowls.

Nobody in this is either a villain or a hero. It's just dysfunction, pure dysfunction with everyone playing a part in it.

I could imagine William was supported better in many ways, because he had a role to grow into and they needed him to turn out ok. It happens in lots of families

sadly, Diana told stories that made it very clear she relied on poor William for emotional support. She said she would be in the bathroom howling and he was passing tissues under the door. Poor kid.

This.

wasn’t he the queen’s favourite as well?

Unfortunately most of us know someone like Harry, and someone like Meghan. They transcend the barriers of race and class, the personality types.

Also re leaking stories - how many stories got leaked by Harry?! So many! What about that entire book written that they “had nothing to do with” except they absolutely did

Loads of friends have done drugs, they were not abused they called it recreation!

😆😆 so what level of abuse do you say Harry has doled out then with his book?

Don't be ridiculous.
Watching him last night was a total cringe and he has been caught falling short in the truth so how much more made up crap can he find to come out with . There's no doubt he is disappointed in his treatment as a child but not all families are huggy cozy roses around the door . He is s massive hypocrite and a danger to himself .
A lot of the stuff he says is a direct result of intensive therapy and he's believing every seed sown in his mind .

Yes, I know nothing about your family. But I understand family relations and no set of parents treats each child exactly the same. I am not talking about the number of presents, I am talking about much more subtle things. Each parent will have been at a different developmental stage when each child was born, turned 5, became a teen etc. They might have had a different view on some things after going through them with their firstborn and then do things differently the 2nd time around.

I know nothing about your family, but will not believe a sibling who says their brother hasn't been abused. I will simply continue to think 'I don't know'.

Yep, agree. They need to renounce their titles and go NC. Calm and peace all round.

Very true this and with long term effects on the child having to provide such emotional support, as well as what it does to them at the time.

Gas lighting.

And yet ……despite all the “abuse” they still want half in/ half out according to Anderson . Apparently he said it in a piece that didn’t air.

😂 I agree, @DomesticShortHair My impression is that the RF have already gone NC with him so he doesn’t need to concern himself with that. No one’s going to be bothering him.