@MichaelFartblender - interesting topic to join as a fairly new person.
Your “retorts” are not really very engaging. I’m trying to view things from both sides, but your style of posting isn’t helping much.
I don’t think anyone here is condoning violence. And, as flippant as this sounds, I don’t think an argument between brothers should ever be compared to women in a refuge. There is no comparison at all and it’s a lazy way to try to shut down a conversation. Definitely highlight male-on-male violence if that’s what you want to do, it is a huge problem.
This is an argument between brothers - and one that we’ve, so far, only gotten a glimpse of from one side. That is what is making me feel uncomfortable about the whole sorry mess.
This is pretty much a live representation of FUBAR.