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Royal Family response to Harry and Meghan

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Peasepuddingbloodycold · 05/12/2022 12:50

Any predictions? Any recommendations?
(And any thoughts when we get the response?).

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Floraflower3 · 05/12/2022 18:40

IcedPurple · 05/12/2022 16:11

And as a mother I completely understand why Meghan would get those internal senses that "I have to fix this" that all mums get when we feel that instinctive need to protect our children. I would not want my children's safety to be under the control of other people, especially if I felt those other people were unconsciously racist, or if I felt there was a hierarchy of whose life was more important.

Are you suggesting that the British authorities would be indifferent to the safety of a grandson of the Prince of Wales because one of his grandparents is black?

Not necessarily because a grandparent is black but she probably was worried given the credible threats to their life and her feeling like they were without adequate security .

news.sky.com/story/amp/prince-harry-and-meghan-faced-credible-threats-by-far-right-extremists-says-met-polices-ex-counterterror-chief-neil-basu-12758496

PicturesOfDogs · 05/12/2022 18:43

Floraflower3 · 05/12/2022 18:40

Not necessarily because a grandparent is black but she probably was worried given the credible threats to their life and her feeling like they were without adequate security .

news.sky.com/story/amp/prince-harry-and-meghan-faced-credible-threats-by-far-right-extremists-says-met-polices-ex-counterterror-chief-neil-basu-12758496

I absolutely do believe there were credible threats to their lives, but I think had they still been living in the Uk this would not have been revealed.
For security reasons.

I’d wager there’s credible threats to all of their lives tbh.

IcedPurple · 05/12/2022 18:46

Floraflower3 · 05/12/2022 18:40

Not necessarily because a grandparent is black but she probably was worried given the credible threats to their life and her feeling like they were without adequate security .

news.sky.com/story/amp/prince-harry-and-meghan-faced-credible-threats-by-far-right-extremists-says-met-polices-ex-counterterror-chief-neil-basu-12758496

So the extremely highly trained elite armed guards assigned to her round the clock weren't good enough?

What more did she want?

And again I ask the question which is never answered. If she felt so terribly at risk and felt her security was being neglected, why did she want 'half in half out'?

SqueakyDinosaur · 05/12/2022 18:48

Someone said upthread, "I do wonder sometimes why Harry didn’t explain what it was like."

I think the answer to this is, at least in part, that he couldn't explain it, because he had never known anything else, so to him, having a private office, attracting screaming crowds, being very limited in what you could say, etc, was simply reality. If someone asked me to explain my life to another person whose own life was as different from mine as Harry's was from Meghan's, pre-marriage, I would find it incredibly difficult.

Leaving aside that he is obviously a bear of very little brain indeed, when you think that the combined teaching power of Eton could only get him two mediocre A levels. And although I think he is able to be empathetic about some things and with some people, the way that senior members of the Royal family are brought up and socialised makes it extremely hard for them genuinely to put other people ahead of themselves, despite all the twaddle about serving the nation.

RosettaStormer · 05/12/2022 18:54

SqueakyDinosaur · 05/12/2022 18:48

Someone said upthread, "I do wonder sometimes why Harry didn’t explain what it was like."

I think the answer to this is, at least in part, that he couldn't explain it, because he had never known anything else, so to him, having a private office, attracting screaming crowds, being very limited in what you could say, etc, was simply reality. If someone asked me to explain my life to another person whose own life was as different from mine as Harry's was from Meghan's, pre-marriage, I would find it incredibly difficult.

Leaving aside that he is obviously a bear of very little brain indeed, when you think that the combined teaching power of Eton could only get him two mediocre A levels. And although I think he is able to be empathetic about some things and with some people, the way that senior members of the Royal family are brought up and socialised makes it extremely hard for them genuinely to put other people ahead of themselves, despite all the twaddle about serving the nation.

Completely agree with this. Although all the teaching in the world can't 'get' someone good A Levels. They do actually need to have the ability themselves and the motivation to study.

Tillsforthrills · 05/12/2022 19:01

Not a Royalist but if they so detest the institution it would make sense for KC to strip them of every title they own.

onlythreenow · 05/12/2022 19:05

Minding their own business on I’m a Celebrity…Get Me Out of Here!, extremely standard.

Re the Tindalls - at least they aren't projecting themselves as some sort of saviours of the world. It's very different.

Itssooooocold · 05/12/2022 19:08

It's all just too sad. I don't like the posters saying they love all the gossip, they're still just people with family problems, feel so sorry for Kate and Wills. M&H need to just stfu now

MrsFinkelstein · 05/12/2022 19:39

antelopevalley · 05/12/2022 18:23

@Rinoachicken They go to school, with many well-off people who will also get public criticism of parents. It will not be that unusual.
And many children get far worse when their parents are accused in the papers of murder or rape.

<insert grasping at straws gif here >

Peasepuddingbloodycold · 05/12/2022 19:44

Shocking article in the Daily Mail about their recent Netflix clip release, H&M have used footage of paparazzi for other people and pretended it was theirs.

I agree with commentary elsewhere that a Netflix trailer is unlikely to be the work of the Sussexes themselves. Also that this is very much aimed at a US market and as such the use of stock photos/footage is much more usual and expected.

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MrsFinkelstein · 05/12/2022 19:51

"Memories differ. We love Harry and Meghan and children and wish them well" followed by business as usual is the best response if at all possible".

Another vote now for this response. It very much reduces the O2 from the fire H&M keep trying to light. I'm seeing more and more responses from people who are viewing them more negatively now due to their insistence on public whinging. We all know Meghan had a horrible time, but you've spoken about it already, move on and just enjoy your beautiful children. She's very lucky, she just doesn't seem to see it.

I feel she's the type of person who needs universal adoration and totally positive responses. She needs everyone to like her and can't seem to accept that's impossible, and keeping on telling us us all how bad you had it doesn't endear you more to us, it's just off putting. I've been in the position of having someone lie about me, and it's devastating to know some people believe the lies. I just made sure I told the truth when asked and stepped back totally from the situation, spreading stories about the other person like H&M do doesn't make it better.

And this isn't a soap opera, these are human beings who just happen to be public figures. It's highly unedifying seeing comments conflating the two.

Tipsyturvychocolatemonster · 05/12/2022 20:04

If I was the royals press secretary i would issue a statement saying.

“recollections still vary, but we do love them, and wish Harry and Meghan all the best “

and leave it there. Nothing else necessary, the utter put down in it would actually be highly amusing, it would take all the heat out of it, nothing harry and Meghan can further do, no incendiary act. Just a short pithy put down and walk away.

The queen mastered brevity in her communications and Charles should aim for the same

in reality I’d really want to say “recollections vary, how wild, bless them. We do love them though”

😂

Janieread · 05/12/2022 20:06

"I thought Charles was bad but William is even worse . Ignoring all the speculation about him , he just appears completely inauthentic ."

I genuinely don't understand what the last sentence means.

stuntbubbles · 05/12/2022 20:08

If I were the royals’ press secretary I’d arrange a Buck Pal viewing night of the first episode with Charlie, Camilla, Wills, Kate, Andrew in uniform, Fergie, Lady SH and every other notorious royal, maybe James Hewitt and Charles Spencer too, and leak it like Squidgygate. But I’m a messy bitch who lives for drama.

ThePoshUns · 05/12/2022 20:48

I look forward to watching the Gogglebox crowd watching it.

JustLyra · 05/12/2022 20:49

I do wonder sometimes why Harry didn’t explain what it was like

Ive said something similar a few times about Harry.

If Meghan posted about him and the things she was unaware of about his life, family and the expectations (like being unaware they curtsied to the Queen in private until heading to meet her) she’d have got a very loud “LTB”.

I have wondered if it’s a coincidence that the women that did understand what it was like - Christ Davy, Cressida Bonas - ran for their lives. The one that he actually got down the aisle seemed very ill-prepared for what being his wife actually meant.

They’ll never remove the Sussex titles from them though imo. For two reasons -
1 - removing Harry’s Prince title won’t happen so he’d be Prince Harry and Meghan would be Princess Harry. Which would take the media about twenty seconds to turn into Prince Harry and Princess Meghan and would actually be more sellable,
2 - they know that once people know removing titles is actually relatively simple it’ll be questioned why they haven’t removed Andrew’s. Then the next time someone fucks up and is massively u popular the clamour will be there to remove it - imagine the push for Charles’ titles to be removed around the time of his divorce and then again Diana’s death when he was so disliked. They know that George/Charlotte/Louis/their children/themselves might be the next to be unpopular and once people start losing titles regularly it’ll be over for them all.

twelly · 05/12/2022 20:51

I think no response is best or the late Queen's response "recollections may vary"

Persimmo · 05/12/2022 20:55

onlythreenow · 05/12/2022 19:05

Minding their own business on I’m a Celebrity…Get Me Out of Here!, extremely standard.

Re the Tindalls - at least they aren't projecting themselves as some sort of saviours of the world. It's very different.

The Tindalls haven’t tried to make money sobbing and bitching about their privileged lot in life. They don’t profit from endlessly saying how awful the royals are. Harry and Meghan are not exactly international sports stars. Both Tindalls have excelled on the world stage in their own arenas.

Peasepuddingbloodycold · 05/12/2022 20:57

I've been in the position of having someone lie about me, and it's devastating to know some people believe the lies.

This made me ponder how many of us have had similar. I guess most of us, to some extent. And does this make us more sympathetic to the Wales?
Similarly, are most of us now struggling more and more to empathise with the 'hard-done-by' narrative of the Sussexes?

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Sweetpeasaremadeforbees · 05/12/2022 20:59

If you are not interested enough to watch it, why do you care enough to comment?

I'm not interested enough to waste possibly SIX HOURS of my life watching it. If it was one hour I'd probably watch it whilst catching up with the ironing wasting my time on here

JADS · 05/12/2022 21:24

I don't think the RF should say anything. It hasn't taken long for sm to unpick a lot of the guff in the trailers. The fact checking already looks a bit flaky and that won't wash if they are insisting this is the truth.

MrsFinkelstein · 05/12/2022 22:21

Peasepuddingbloodycold · 05/12/2022 20:57

I've been in the position of having someone lie about me, and it's devastating to know some people believe the lies.

This made me ponder how many of us have had similar. I guess most of us, to some extent. And does this make us more sympathetic to the Wales?
Similarly, are most of us now struggling more and more to empathise with the 'hard-done-by' narrative of the Sussexes?

All I see at the moment are one couple throwing stones at another.

I'm not saying it's not been both, but at the moment it's very much coming from the Sussex side.

JemimaTiggywinkles · 05/12/2022 22:22

are most of us now struggling more and more to empathise with the 'hard-done-by' narrative of the Sussexes?

I think as the cost of living crisis continues to hit, fewer and fewer people will have tolerance for anyone extremely wealthy moaning about their lot.

Gingerkittykat · 05/12/2022 22:32

stuntbubbles · 05/12/2022 13:45

Dignified silence from the royal family 😂 As ever, they’ll continue the anonymous briefings against Harry and Meghan to the press – they’ve briefed against him his whole life, why stop now? And expect plenty of Kate being wheeled out more than ever: I predict a move back from Windsor to London and a Vogue cover, at a bare minimum.

They will definitely wheel the kids out for some shameless PR

antelopevalley · 05/12/2022 22:38

Agreed. George and Charlotte will appear at various occasions.