Someone said upthread, "I do wonder sometimes why Harry didn’t explain what it was like."
I think the answer to this is, at least in part, that he couldn't explain it, because he had never known anything else, so to him, having a private office, attracting screaming crowds, being very limited in what you could say, etc, was simply reality. If someone asked me to explain my life to another person whose own life was as different from mine as Harry's was from Meghan's, pre-marriage, I would find it incredibly difficult.
Leaving aside that he is obviously a bear of very little brain indeed, when you think that the combined teaching power of Eton could only get him two mediocre A levels. And although I think he is able to be empathetic about some things and with some people, the way that senior members of the Royal family are brought up and socialised makes it extremely hard for them genuinely to put other people ahead of themselves, despite all the twaddle about serving the nation.