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A positive and non-bashing thread about Meghan and Harry

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MrsMaxDeWinter · 06/09/2022 07:40

I have rejoined Mumsnet after leaving a few times. The first time I left was because I was concerned about the coverage and uncomfortable undertone of the commentary on Meghan Markle after the engagement was announced, before she had said a word, and before she had married into the Royal Family.

I came back around the time she and Harry left the UK, to be stunned by the pages and pages upon pages of virulent threads. At that time Mumsnet actually banned all threads about Meghan, it had become so toxic.

They have now made their lives in Montecito, but still the virulence continues. Yes, she speaks in a mix of therapy plus corporate gobbledegook, yes, she is occasionally vapid and irritating.

But who is she actually harming that she deserves all this virulence?

Yesterday, when the new UK Prime Minister was elected, the coverage in the Super Tory Daily Mail was all about a seven minute speech to a bunch of young people. Article after article after article. Body language experts. Counting the number of times she said "I" in a speech in which she sought to inspire young people by attempting to relate to them. Before that, 18 articles were devoted to the first podcast by the Daily Mail alone. 18!

Same with her podcasts. The series is about HER and HER take on labels, and she discusses HER take with HER guests.

It's all very anodyne, even vanilla. It does not deserve any of the vitriol sent her way.

SO:

As the next twelve weeks are going to be wall to wall Meghan, and the Meghan haters and detractors have several threads here that fill up rapidly with bile, scorn and mockery, I have started this thread, reminiscent of previous " positive" threads, to talk about what some of us like, enjoy, find amusing and even (gasp) admire, in the next few Meghan rich weeks.

If you don't have anything positive to say, that's okay, you can keep to the existing threads.

Looking forward to a bile-free discussion of everything Meghan!

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onlylarkin · 08/09/2022 14:46

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Aspiringmatriarch · 08/09/2022 16:10

Oh goodness.😥

skullbabe · 08/09/2022 16:19

This is all very sad

MrsMaxDeWinter · 08/09/2022 16:41

Thanks so much to so many of you who contributed constructively in the spirit of the thread.

My thoughts and prayers are with Her Majesty at this time, and with all her family.

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Roussette · 08/09/2022 17:03

MrsMaxDeWinter · 08/09/2022 16:41

Thanks so much to so many of you who contributed constructively in the spirit of the thread.

My thoughts and prayers are with Her Majesty at this time, and with all her family.

Yes indeed. @MrsMaxDeWinter
I am no royalist by any stretch but this is a Granny, Mum Great GM to a family and it's always a shock whatever the age.

I'm just so disappointed to see endless MM bashing on the main thread about the Queen. It appears that hate for her even transcends a Monarch passing 😮
Shocking, just shocking

I shall lie low on this thread for a while but will be returning at the right time

DreadingWinter · 08/09/2022 17:04

Thank you OP for this thread.

onlylarkin · 08/09/2022 17:34

@Roussette I agree 100%

Thank you OP for this thread. I too will be back when it is more appropriate.

Ohnonevermind · 08/09/2022 17:44

It’s a really hard situation, I can understand Harry wanting Meghan there, I can equally understand the others not wanting her there at this emotional time

its a very sensible decision that Kate and Meghan both stay which hopefully mean that the extreme fans on both sides have to stay quiet about going / staying - and I have read quickly some of the more extreme reactions from both sides 😢

skullbabe · 08/09/2022 18:01

@MrsMaxDeWinter
Thanks for this thread - I feel sad about Elizabeth - she’s been such a constant in our lives. Thoughts are with her family.

StormzyinaTCup · 08/09/2022 18:02

I'm just so disappointed to see endless MM bashing on the main thread about the Queen. It appears that hate for her even transcends a Monarch passing 😮
Shocking, just shocking

I’m seeing a lot of Queen bashing too and it’s rightfully being deleted. Im shocked that derogatory comments can be bandied around about a dying woman😮😢

SnottyLottie · 08/09/2022 20:10

Did Harry make it on time? I hope he got to see her and his father and brother before it was publicly announced 😔

HowzAboutIt · 08/09/2022 20:27

Apparently not @SnottyLottie he got to Aberdeen after her death was announced

SnottyLottie · 08/09/2022 20:29

@HowzAboutIt Sky news just updated his arrival on their site two minutes ago. Poor Harry 😔

Jessica60 · 08/09/2022 20:38

I have stopped netflix and spotify since they gave those two selfish idiotscthat amount of money

darmaka · 08/09/2022 20:52

SnottyLottie · 08/09/2022 20:10

Did Harry make it on time? I hope he got to see her and his father and brother before it was publicly announced 😔

They all got there after she died. It was know hours ago she had died - they all cancelled plans to go to Balmoral. People in the know were told not to tell others - so many things were cancelled today.

darmaka · 08/09/2022 20:53

Ohnonevermind · 08/09/2022 17:44

It’s a really hard situation, I can understand Harry wanting Meghan there, I can equally understand the others not wanting her there at this emotional time

its a very sensible decision that Kate and Meghan both stay which hopefully mean that the extreme fans on both sides have to stay quiet about going / staying - and I have read quickly some of the more extreme reactions from both sides 😢

That's ridiculous. Why would she not be wanted there. They haven't done anything new - certainly nothing Charles himself hasn't done in the past.

Readinginthesun · 08/09/2022 20:56

darmaka · 08/09/2022 20:53

That's ridiculous. Why would she not be wanted there. They haven't done anything new - certainly nothing Charles himself hasn't done in the past.

Of course she wasn’t wanted ! Why would they want the person who has spouted “ her truths” ( ie lies) about the Royal Family ?

MaulPerton · 08/09/2022 20:57

Why would she not be wanted there

Are you kidding?

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 08/09/2022 21:09

That's ridiculous. Why would she not be wanted there. They haven't done anything new - certainly nothing Charles himself hasn't done in the past.

So has Charles had a Netflix deal and an interview with Oprah Winfrey? Do you have a link for those?

CathyorClaire · 08/09/2022 21:17

Why would she not be wanted there

Arf.

darmaka · 08/09/2022 21:25

He did a TV interview after cheating on his wife - it's not new for this family.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 08/09/2022 22:01

They all got there after she died

Considering Charles (and Anne, I think) were already up there I'd hope they at least were with their mum

Agree about the rest though; it's well known that folk sometimes "hang on" to see family one last time, but after all the announcement came only 90 mins after most arrived

Not sure it really matters though - we've all got to go sometime, and being reasonably active up to 48 hours before is as good a way as any

Roussette · 08/09/2022 22:03

Jessica60 · 08/09/2022 20:38

I have stopped netflix and spotify since they gave those two selfish idiotscthat amount of money

Just do one

SeaSwimming22 · 08/09/2022 22:22

Hopefully MM will have the wherewithal and grace to retreat into the background now and let the RF and the people of the U.K. mourn in peace, without the drama that unfortunately seems to follow her (absolutely not her fault of course - she tries so hard to go under the radar). She is such a compassionate and kind person that I am sure she will want to do the right thing. And in any case her kids must need her back home:

Tierne · 08/09/2022 22:25

Where were Harry's kids today?

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