I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, if H&M had declared their intention to step away and go and live in Canada/Botswana/The Cotswolds/Montecito then that would have been a shame but we all would have waved them off and wished them well. But it Was Not Like That.
There was the advance planning, the statement of wanting to do royal tours etc but no day-to-day boring visits, then the Oprah stuff, television appearances, books, swooping in for visits to bereaved, etc etc etc.
NONE of that is them living “privately”. It is them wanting recognition and the attendant privileges.
I think they have played a stinker. Riding high after the wedding, they could have been a triumph. Worldwide popularity, adoration even. Whoever advised them behind the scenes had an ulterior motive, imo, to destroy the royal family, and M&H were useful tools (in both senses of the word).