It's such a relief to read a thread about H&M that's not all fawning, poor Meghan etc. I was beginning to think I was the only one who isn't a fan of her. I thought she came across as disingenuous and inauthentic from the start. The interview when whey were engaged came across like someone badly acting being in love. I don't know why I can't put my finger on it.
I do know my opinion is nothing to do with her ethnic background, largely because I didn't even realised she was biracial as she is so light skinned. I probably still wouldn't know if it wasn't for the fact that any criticism of her behaviour or things she says is usually immediately decried as racism. I think the anti-racists care about bloodlines at least as much as, if not more than, actual out and out racists. There's definitely something interesting in that, but that's a whole different post.
In the interview she did something I've not seen commented much but felt like it confirmed my gut sense of her. She said it wasn't true she made Kate cry, that was a smear campaign, and actually it was the other way round and Kate made her cry... But she owned it and Meghan forgave her. Whatever the truth of the matter, that's such an immature, shitty thing to say. I think Meghan is so narcissistic she thought this painted her in a good light. In a kind of, "no no actually I was the victim but I forgave her because I'm such a good, gracious person" type way. If it was true and it was the other way round, the classy thing is just to say "No, I didn't make her cry. Kate and I actually get on really well, she's a great person and I really respect her". But Meghan just can't resist any opportunity to paint herself as the long suffering victim.
I think Harry was just head over heels and in Meghan's thrall, and now he's in too deep. A professionally self righteous victim like her wouldn't be able to have an amicable divorce. She's proven she doesn't want to be out of the limelight as she goes to the media with everything. If they split she would destroy him and they have kids now. I felt for him when Oprah said the next day about how he'd approached her to clarify it wasn't Charles or the Queen made the comment. Reminded me of someone posting something on here then the next day thinking oh shit and asking MN to delete. Except it was too late. He couldn't unsay anything.
I see a divorce in a few years and Meghan cashing in by having lots of tearful interviews implying he is racist and abusive. That's my prediction.