myrtleWilson
I understand what you are saying. I did not mean to delve too much into this as I know it will be twisted to say that I think H&M are exactly like the ppl you mention. A family member was a diplomat, I remember how she had to know everything about everyone all the time, remember country relations etc. And yes, she was aware on what to say and not to say to whom because her job was to watch what and how she said things. This was my point.
I guess in the end what I was trying to say was ppl like the fm I am telling you about here, would be called to events later as she had all these interactions, knowledge etc. However, H&M are further up the list, maybe not quite as high as Obama, but certainly high because of their reach. My fm gets called at smaller events for sure. But from what I recall, she had a full department doing the research to brief her, eg. she would not know the intimate details of all the embassy departments like all the telecoms, IR etc. without getting a brief about them, and surely everyone knows that a President or PM has to be briefed on all the departments, they would not just know everything would they?