I still don't see how someone who's childhood videos show she's always acting and someone that's scheming and manipulative enough to persuade a prince to marry her, manages to forget to act natural when she's organised paps. Unless, she didn't!
You are looking for answers whilst refusing to countenance the one people keep suggesting so don't expect it to make sense.
I'll leave this by saying what I said in thread 1 or 2 (can't remember anymore)
Had this been the wedding day and posters here said, 'this couple are mismatched and this marriage will result in Harry leaving the RF and his beloved patronages in less than 2 years' You likely would have scoffed and called us negative naysayers or of projecting our experiences.
But some of us did say things would go awry. We were looking at the things people are still dismissing even now and building up a picture based on that. lack of decent family at wedding. Quick courtship. No visit to father. Mother flown in last minute. Ghosting of previous acquaintances.
Now the predictions have come true (quicker than anyone thought) it's still all just a series of coincidences. I can understand people not swallowing everything said about M, but at what point, looking at the results, do you not say 'what is the variable here?'
It's like Charles and Diana divorcing and refusing to accept that the massive variable is Camilla.
Or Edward abdicating and the variable isn't WS
Of course there's interaction in both.
That video posted earlier at Canada House. for eg. H is literally told to sit. I would find that weird. He's a partner not a child. Hand holding is all good, but I have found the ushering of him (hand on back guiding him along) frankly weird and that clip just screamed 'mother telling her child what to do'. IMO it's controlling and red flag waving. But just another normal coincidence no doubt.
I know what I think and imo I think it's classic textbook and not healthy.