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OMG my visitor cat was actually a stray cat and is going to become officially mine - I have questions! And he needs a name

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largeprintagathachristie · 18/06/2026 12:42

I've had what I first thought was a visitor cat for quite some time. Beautiful little tabby boy, very bold and entrepenurial - would come in to sleep during the day (I have a ground floor flat and windows and doors often often). I just thought he lived with a family who put him out during the day. He was always keen to take himself off at the end of the day. More latterly I'd tried a paper collar, asking around and a post to the local facebook group. Got nothing from any of that.

To cut a long story short, the cat looked ill last week - I found him on a deckchair on my patio looking very poorly - and after a couple of days of monitoring, I took him to my local vet. They scanned for a chip and there was an owner. I felt really, really sad but also pleased for him.

However. The owner on the chip had apparently "given him away." It took a few days for that owner to contact the current owner, who, I quote, "hasn't seem him in months and doesn't want him." (Can I just say here that this cat is approx 4 years old and not neutered, which makes me a little judgy of these owners.)

So the vet's practice have rung and asked if I want the cat. I do, and I'm picking him up later, but my mind is reeling a bit.

I didn't mind the cat going off god knows where overnight when I thought he had somewhere to go, but I now think he's just been out-out. I guess neutering may help a bit with his range and I'll get that done shortly.

On the days he was poorly last week he still went off at night but I left a patio door open slightly for him and he seemed to come in, in the early hours. It's not safe for me to have that door open - it's literally a patio door to my ground floor bedroom - so I either have to keep him inside overnight (he'd hate it) or get a cat flap put in the patio door. (I think there was a useful thread about this kind of thing recently).

I don't think he's ever used a little tray - he just had the ability to sleep for nine hours with a bladder of steel and then I assume go when he goes outside. I would LOVE not to have a litter tray in the flat and wonder if we can just continue with this system. I guess some of this will work itself out.

I wonder if there's anyway I can reinforce that this will now be his permanent home? (I have bought lik-e-lix!) He's been living at the vets for a week and apparently hating it.

He also needs a name. I've just been calling him "the little cat." The previous owner apparently called him Shrieky, which absolutely isn't right.

Cat tax follows.

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Gulbekian · 18/06/2026 13:46

As he was lost, I'd pilfer the name "Nibs" from one of the lost boys in the original Peter Pan film. But he would obviously have to be "His Nibs" on all official documentation 😂.

Beautiful cat!

LaundryFairy · 18/06/2026 13:46

He looks very much my beloved cat Clarence from years ago. I can heartily recommend the name.

Ineffable23 · 18/06/2026 13:47

I definitely agree with those who reckon he looks like a Jeremy!

PurpleReindeer2 · 18/06/2026 13:48

OP he is adorable. 🥰😻 I'd call him Albert or Jimmy.

Lifeomars · 18/06/2026 13:49

What a handsome lad, and so intelligent to pick a caring person to love him. Wishing the two of you many companiable years together

AgentPidge · 18/06/2026 13:50

Congratulations! I agree with Magnus or Maverick

SpanishFlea · 18/06/2026 13:50

The first name that popped into my head when I saw him was Emmett.

Googled it and it's an Irish name meaning 'Universal' and is also the Doc from Back to the Future's name - so a very adventurous name indeed 😺

SapphireSeptember · 18/06/2026 13:51

MadMunchkin · 18/06/2026 13:43

I have Optimus, found in similar circumstances. It's taken 6 months for my own cats to tolerate him and he want to come inside for a comfortable sleep.

I got him neutered and his temperament has definitely improved from street cat to homeboy.
So rewarding to see the change and give them a chance of a better life. ❤️

He's gorgeous! Look at that face! 😍

MrsPerfect12 · 18/06/2026 13:51

Stanley, Marvin or Hank?

butteriesplease · 18/06/2026 13:52

he's gorgeous, and he is definitely a Fred!

Slowdownyouredoingfine · 18/06/2026 13:53

He’s giving distinguished gentleman vibes:

  • Arthur
  • Edmund
  • Frederick
  • Theodore
  • Henry
  • Charles
  • William
  • Edward
  • Rupert
  • Alistair
JazzyAmbs · 18/06/2026 13:53

He’s a Bruce.

FuckingAnnoyed · 18/06/2026 13:54

Since he's entrepenurial you should call him Alan after Alan Sugar 😂😂😂

Baconandonions · 18/06/2026 13:54

Ah cute!

Name suggestion: Ranger

largeprintagathachristie · 18/06/2026 13:56

It will be an adjustment to own a cat again - vets bills and what to do during holidays - but he'll be worth it.

My last cat was also from the cat distribution system. The RSPCA were meant to deliver an old cat - I was trying fostering and for some reason thought old might be best. It seems weird, now, but I didn't go in to pick one.

On the day, it turned out the old cat couldn't come - jabs not up to date or something - and they asked if I would have a one year old that was stuck staying at the local vets as there was no room elsewhere, and wasn't coping well.

Well that was that, and she was my beautiful, brave and funny cat from 2006 to 2022. (I lived in a different flat then, hence no cat flat where I am.)

I still think about her. There was something stopping me from purchasing another cat, if you know what I mean. Even after I felt emotionally able to do it.

I've had to wait AGES for the cat distribution system to kick in, though!

Thanks for all the name suggestions!

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wishingonastar101 · 18/06/2026 13:56

Leo
Roary
Milo
Max
Tiger

he is lovely, you are a very lucky mummy x

OneOfTheseNights · 18/06/2026 14:00

A poster up thread said he looks as happy as Larry.
So what about Larry ?

Laura95167 · 18/06/2026 14:00

largeprintagathachristie · 18/06/2026 13:56

It will be an adjustment to own a cat again - vets bills and what to do during holidays - but he'll be worth it.

My last cat was also from the cat distribution system. The RSPCA were meant to deliver an old cat - I was trying fostering and for some reason thought old might be best. It seems weird, now, but I didn't go in to pick one.

On the day, it turned out the old cat couldn't come - jabs not up to date or something - and they asked if I would have a one year old that was stuck staying at the local vets as there was no room elsewhere, and wasn't coping well.

Well that was that, and she was my beautiful, brave and funny cat from 2006 to 2022. (I lived in a different flat then, hence no cat flat where I am.)

I still think about her. There was something stopping me from purchasing another cat, if you know what I mean. Even after I felt emotionally able to do it.

I've had to wait AGES for the cat distribution system to kick in, though!

Thanks for all the name suggestions!

We need a cat tax christening when youve picked his name please

ArabellaScott · 18/06/2026 14:00

He is gorgeous. I think you should call him William. Wishing you many happy times together.

IdiotCat · 18/06/2026 14:00

Ooh MacCavity - the Mystery Cat!

You can call him Mac 😸

OMG my visitor cat was actually a stray cat and is going to become officially mine - I have questions!  And he needs a name
SometimesTheIntrusiveThoughtsWin · 18/06/2026 14:01

Horace

ArabellaScott · 18/06/2026 14:01

William mostly because your duvet cover looks a bit William Morris.

ArabellaScott · 18/06/2026 14:01

Horace Morris?

Conniebygaslight · 18/06/2026 14:02

Randy.

ServietteUnion · 18/06/2026 14:03

Bert

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