You lot are amazing with words. Lana that's exactly it. How dare he be ok and carrying on as normal when I had to hold Bertie as he died this afternoon? Well actually I didn't have to but I wanted him to know i hadn't abandoned him. But I don't feel like I should feel this way towards Walter because he's mine too.
Can I ask a question of you wise cat ladies? Apologies if there are any cat gents here.
When the vet rang me with the final prognosis from the second opinion, she did tell me that there was one more option (if we had all the money in the world). That was to go to London to be put on dialysis. I live in Southport. I didn't even ask about cost because I felt it would be too much for such a timid, nervous cat, and that the only option was to let him go peacefully. What would you have done? She didn't even sound like it was a realistic option, but said she had to make me aware. My vets were phenomenal throughout. They really tried everything.