The reality of the situation is, R+ works as far as increasing the likelyhood of a behaviour recurring… It does NOTHING for taking away an unwanted and potentially dangerous self rewarding behaviour.
@EdithStourton and @HowTheStoryEnds I agree with you. I started to type our story with balanced training, but it turned into a novel. So I'll summarise...
I have a high drive working breed. He's my life and I love him so much.
After 2 years, 3 positive only trainers, hours and hours and HOURS dedicated to consistent training, plus thousands of pounds spent, my boy was more reactive than ever. His world was getting smaller and smaller, we couldn't leave our driveway, couldn't get him in the car, couldn't walk him, we couldn't even get him to the bloody vet. His life was shit. So was ours.
Then we found Jamie Penrith, who we never trained with, but who we did learn a lot from. His free material online was great. I liked that he understood the importance of safety, for us, my dog, and livestock and other people/dogs in the environment. From there, we found our current trainers, who have quite simply changed our lives immeasurably.
My boy just needed more guidance to learn what was ok, and what wasn't ok. We did this with an e-collar. I tried it on myself first. And learnt lots about it and how the training worked. I was surprised at the feeling, I thought it would hurt, but it felt like a fly landing on your skin. It was less than a tickle. I use a tens machine for awful period pain, it kind of feels like a tens machine but way less, like I say, like an ant or fly crawling on you. His e-collar level was 3 (out of 127) when I try it on myself I can't feel anything at all until it gets to level 10 (when it feels like an ant crawling) but for my boy, it's effective at level 3.
At no point during our training has my dog been in pain. At no point has he been frightened. Yes, he'd prefer to not feel the sensation of a fly on his neck. But if you could see him now, compared to before, you'd be so happy for him.
After the first session with the collar we saw an improvement. We could leave the drive way and were able to walk him up the road a little bit. We were just as consistent as before, and my dog has reaped the rewards.
He now has freedom, freedom around livestock, he's not at risk of being shot by a farmer. He can get in the car. He can go on beautiful walks. He can walk past other dogs with 0 reaction, he walks WITH other dogs, all offlead. He doesn't try to dive into busy roads, chasing after cars. He's neutral around children and people. He's beautifully behaved in the house. His recall is iron clad. His life, is perfect. He's happy. Our relationship is gorgeous. And that was all achieved, with the tiniest tickle on his neck.
I will argue to the death, after what I've experienced, that it's the best thing we could have done for him. Positive only training is great if it works. If it doesn't work, it's not great.
You can all think or say whatever you wish. I know my dog wouldn't be with us if we'd let it carry on the way he was going.
To me, the following is all that matters... He's loved beyond measure, he's safe, he's never been hurt, I can promise you that. I'd never let anybody hurt him. And he loves us back.
Apologies for typos.