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Dog training methods - I've seen it all - how do we know what's right?

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SuddenlyOld · 22/05/2024 11:54

At my age I've seen so many training methods come and go, lauded to begin with then trashed as the next method comes in.

First it was Barbara Woodhouse, then Jan Fennell, Cesar Millan, currently Southend Dog Trainers, and even Graeme Hall

All have since been shown to promote 'unhealthy' training methods. Even Graeme Hall looks good on TV but apparently it's all staged and doesn't last.

So my question is, how do we know that current training methods are right for our dogs, or for us?

I do wonder about this because I remember Jan Fennell being on TV and her methods seemed amazing and made sense. I tried them on our barky, jumpy sheltie cross. It didn't work and now her methods have been debunked.

So how do we ever know that current methods are right?

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KeenOtter · 26/05/2024 17:27

HappiestSleeping · 26/05/2024 14:58

Cue to the mat, he goes to the mat and gets a reward.

Everything works fine until we get to the car, at which point he awaits more treats.

So why isnt he taking "the piss" when going to his mat?

There is an issue with the car.

I would consider as I said before

It hurts to jump into the car - it is not the same comparing it to other jumping as he has to jump into a speficif space which is harder than just jumping at height.
He is jumping from standing.

Emotional response to the car.

This is not a treat issue

Ylvamoon · 26/05/2024 17:33

Re your 'catch me if you can', I've found that just laying on the ground is great for this. As long as the dog can see you, they generally come straight back

That wasn't an option with a toddler and heavily pregnant! Plus it was winter = wet & muddy...

One thing though, if you go through with just closing the boot, don't acknowledge your dog at all! He's on a lead, he's safe. No words no eye contact no touching! He'll be thrown off big time.

HappiestSleeping · 26/05/2024 17:51

KeenOtter · 26/05/2024 17:27

So why isnt he taking "the piss" when going to his mat?

There is an issue with the car.

I would consider as I said before

It hurts to jump into the car - it is not the same comparing it to other jumping as he has to jump into a speficif space which is harder than just jumping at height.
He is jumping from standing.

Emotional response to the car.

This is not a treat issue

He does take the piss in other scenarios, just not his mat.

I see why you are thinking it is to do with the car, but I don't think it's for the reasons you think. He is definitely not in any discomfort, and can easily jump from a standing start over things much higher than the car when the mood takes him.

It's much more likely that I have done something without realising that has somehow encouraged this behaviour.

If it is an emotional response to the car, why does he only do this when we are wanting to go out in it and at no other time?

fieldsofbutterflies · 26/05/2024 17:55

If it is an emotional response to the car, why does he only do this when we are wanting to go out in it and at no other time?

Maybe he gets car sick?
Maybe something's happened on a journey to scare him?

It could be anything. Mine was with me when we had an accident and he was terrified of me driving the car for a good while afterwards - he was fine when DH was driving though.

It only takes something minor to really scare a dog unfortunately. And it often isn't very logical to us either, which of course doesn't help!

Ylvamoon · 26/05/2024 17:56

@HappiestSleeping what terrier/ breed / cross is he.

HappiestSleeping · 26/05/2024 17:59

Ylvamoon · 26/05/2024 17:56

@HappiestSleeping what terrier/ breed / cross is he.

He is a labrador (per earlier picture).

HappiestSleeping · 26/05/2024 18:02

fieldsofbutterflies · 26/05/2024 17:55

If it is an emotional response to the car, why does he only do this when we are wanting to go out in it and at no other time?

Maybe he gets car sick?
Maybe something's happened on a journey to scare him?

It could be anything. Mine was with me when we had an accident and he was terrified of me driving the car for a good while afterwards - he was fine when DH was driving though.

It only takes something minor to really scare a dog unfortunately. And it often isn't very logical to us either, which of course doesn't help!

Edited

What I mean is, he will get into the car with no trouble, engine on or engine off, unless we want to go out.

In my head, this is because he has picked up on all the clues that we are going out in the car and knows that he can "take the piss" so to speak. If I just open the boot for him to sit in while I'm doing something else, then he will get in with no trouble. I've tried this with and without the engine running, same result.

It is possible that it is to do with anticipated movement of the car, but he has never been car sick. The only other thing I can think of is what I mentioned previously.

fieldsofbutterflies · 26/05/2024 18:05

Motion sickness doesn't necessarily end up with them vomiting, it could show as drooling, panting or just shutting down while travelling.

Does he generally enjoy his walks? Is he confident? Is this an issue leaving for a walk and coming back after? I just wonder if it's fear related.

HappiestSleeping · 26/05/2024 18:13

fieldsofbutterflies · 26/05/2024 18:05

Motion sickness doesn't necessarily end up with them vomiting, it could show as drooling, panting or just shutting down while travelling.

Does he generally enjoy his walks? Is he confident? Is this an issue leaving for a walk and coming back after? I just wonder if it's fear related.

No drooling, no panting, or any other sign of motion sickness.

Yup, loves his walks, very confident, interacts with other dogs well, loves working. He is, in fact, my stooge dog when I am training other dogs.

Nothing to indicate fear at all.

KeenOtter · 26/05/2024 19:22

I would want his hips and back checked out

I would also consider my emotional mood when I am asking him to get into the car when going out to see if it is different from asking him into the car when you are not going anywhere. Bit stressed or more naggy as leaving to go somewhere as opposed to just asking him to jump in with no time restraints?

What does he do when the boot shuts?

HappiestSleeping · 26/05/2024 19:43

KeenOtter · 26/05/2024 19:22

I would want his hips and back checked out

I would also consider my emotional mood when I am asking him to get into the car when going out to see if it is different from asking him into the car when you are not going anywhere. Bit stressed or more naggy as leaving to go somewhere as opposed to just asking him to jump in with no time restraints?

What does he do when the boot shuts?

Per previous posts, hips and back all checked out.

I don't believe my emotional state changes, although it is possible it could in ways perceptible to a dog. I've been training them for 30 years though, so I am used to most of the things they do. Getting frustrated accomplishes nothing, so I don't, there is always something else to do.

When the boot shuts, he sits down and looks out of the window until we are moving, then he lays down and goes to sleep.

Unluckycat1 · 26/05/2024 22:53

It looks like the chat moved on from shock collars, but I'm just catching up and want to ask, how exactly do shock collar advocates think they work?

There's one poster on here saying their high prey drive dog (dogs?) can see all the prey that used to send them into chase mode, and they ignore them now. Surely that just means they associate the prey with pain? Pain bad enough that it overrides their strong natural instincts.

(Another poster pointed out, why are we assuming we can feel what the dog feels, dogs hear better, smell better etc, why should we imagine they are not more sensitive to certain physical sensations—shock collars obviously work for a reason, I expect they feel far worse than anyone using one wants to believe).

To that poster, I find it really disingenuous to say how happy your dogs are and how terrible the lives of dogs are that spend time on the lead and/or being managed, when your dogs are now fearful of the prey they encounter all the time. Tell yourself what you need to to be happy with your choices I guess, but I watched a dog being trained to be scared of sheep (not with a shock collar, with good old fashioned sharp yanking on the lead and shouts—probably something shock collar people would be against as it looks so nasty, but really, what's the difference..?) and nothing will convince me that making your dog afraid on its daily walks is the path to its happiness.

horseswithwings · 26/05/2024 23:19

@Unluckycat1 can you tell me exactly what 'dog happiness' is? Surely it is what a dog is content and satisfied with, which can be breed specific. Stressed out, anxious dogs are not happy. The collie mentioned before who is allowed to play in a room with a ball, perhaps we should ask it what its idea of happiness is?

If we allowed our dogs to carry out every instinctive behaviour they have, they would be chasing wildlife left right and centre. I would suggest that if you have seen dogs terrified of wildlife then the e-collar has been used inappropriately.

Unluckycat1 · 26/05/2024 23:54

horseswithwings · 26/05/2024 23:19

@Unluckycat1 can you tell me exactly what 'dog happiness' is? Surely it is what a dog is content and satisfied with, which can be breed specific. Stressed out, anxious dogs are not happy. The collie mentioned before who is allowed to play in a room with a ball, perhaps we should ask it what its idea of happiness is?

If we allowed our dogs to carry out every instinctive behaviour they have, they would be chasing wildlife left right and centre. I would suggest that if you have seen dogs terrified of wildlife then the e-collar has been used inappropriately.

No I cannot give a run down of what happiness is for every dog. But I feel confident that introducing fear (or 'threat of pain' if you'd prefer) into every walk and then claiming you've increased your dog's happiness is disingenuous to the extreme.

I fail to see how an e-collar can overcome high prey drive unless the dog sees the prey and thinks 'pain'. A sensation equivalent to a fly landing on a dog is not going to be nearly enough. Honestly, some of these posts have been ridiculous.

Unluckycat1 · 26/05/2024 23:58

As for the collie, I can't remember the exact situation it was in, but some poor dogs are utterly ruined by humans (usually by neglect and abuse) and imo the kindest thing to do in such a situation is put the poor dog to sleep, not introduce a shock collar.

fieldsofbutterflies · 27/05/2024 06:46

@HappiestSleeping I still think there must be something about either the car or the treats/technique that means he's not motivated enough to jump in when he's asked.

If you're certain there's no pain (I would be tempted to ask for a pain trial just in case) or problem with motion sickness, then I think you need to completely change how you ask him to get in/out of the car.

HappiestSleeping · 27/05/2024 07:16

fieldsofbutterflies · 27/05/2024 06:46

@HappiestSleeping I still think there must be something about either the car or the treats/technique that means he's not motivated enough to jump in when he's asked.

If you're certain there's no pain (I would be tempted to ask for a pain trial just in case) or problem with motion sickness, then I think you need to completely change how you ask him to get in/out of the car.

then I think you need to completely change how you ask him to get in/out of the car.

This is full circle to where we started as that's exactly where I am up to.

fieldsofbutterflies · 27/05/2024 07:19

Well, people have suggested loads of different things (and it might just be me) but it seems like every suggestion has just been shot down.

HappiestSleeping · 27/05/2024 07:31

fieldsofbutterflies · 27/05/2024 07:19

Well, people have suggested loads of different things (and it might just be me) but it seems like every suggestion has just been shot down.

I can see how it might seem that way, however I have tried pretty much all of the things that have been suggested.

I am all for good discussion, however I've been doing this a long time (although not professionally until relatively recently). I've said repeatedly that I know it is something I've done inadvertently, and that I need to try something different, which is where the consensus appears to be now.

KeenOtter · 27/05/2024 09:06

HappiestSleeping · 27/05/2024 07:31

I can see how it might seem that way, however I have tried pretty much all of the things that have been suggested.

I am all for good discussion, however I've been doing this a long time (although not professionally until relatively recently). I've said repeatedly that I know it is something I've done inadvertently, and that I need to try something different, which is where the consensus appears to be now.

I think you got way laid in your training by thinking your dog was being deliberately stubborn or "taking the piss" that does cloud judgement and the way forward.

If you are happy to remove that aspect and think why the dog is not reacting to the cue it will become clearer.

If a behaviour is not performed.

Not high enough reinforcement
Cue not understood
Emotional response to cue is incorrect
Too high arousal or environmental triggers at time of asking for the cue

HappiestSleeping · 27/05/2024 09:10

KeenOtter · 27/05/2024 09:06

I think you got way laid in your training by thinking your dog was being deliberately stubborn or "taking the piss" that does cloud judgement and the way forward.

If you are happy to remove that aspect and think why the dog is not reacting to the cue it will become clearer.

If a behaviour is not performed.

Not high enough reinforcement
Cue not understood
Emotional response to cue is incorrect
Too high arousal or environmental triggers at time of asking for the cue

Completely agree. I used "taking the piss" tongue in cheek. Elsewhere I did acknowledge that dogs don't do that. They just do what they perceive to be in their best interest.

Somewhere along the way, I have given him to believe that holding out gets him more treats.

KeenOtter · 27/05/2024 09:20

I know I am being a pedant but just wanted to discuss difference between reward and reinforcement.

The term reward has been used a lot on this thread when I presume peope are referring to reinforcement.

Reward is something nice but does not affect behaviour. Usually happens after something has happened

Reinforcement is a stimulus change that will affect behaviour. This could be a reward but it could happen before during or after the behaviour change.

People do get this mixed up and then blame positivve reinforcement training for not working.

If you have a jumpy labrador and just reward a sit, the jumpy labrador will still jump up before it sits. Reinforcement has come from the jumping so this behaviour willl continue.

What was reinforcing to you is the dog to sit still
What was reinforcing to the dog was to jump up and lick your face

HappiestSleeping · 27/05/2024 09:44

KeenOtter · 27/05/2024 09:20

I know I am being a pedant but just wanted to discuss difference between reward and reinforcement.

The term reward has been used a lot on this thread when I presume peope are referring to reinforcement.

Reward is something nice but does not affect behaviour. Usually happens after something has happened

Reinforcement is a stimulus change that will affect behaviour. This could be a reward but it could happen before during or after the behaviour change.

People do get this mixed up and then blame positivve reinforcement training for not working.

If you have a jumpy labrador and just reward a sit, the jumpy labrador will still jump up before it sits. Reinforcement has come from the jumping so this behaviour willl continue.

What was reinforcing to you is the dog to sit still
What was reinforcing to the dog was to jump up and lick your face

It is a good point, well made. I think it is a subtle difference that many would not understand if they hadn't studied dog training. While I am a big believer in education, I tend to keep it simple on forums such as this where I do not know who knows what. Lowest common denominator so to speak.

Good point though.

fieldsofbutterflies · 27/05/2024 09:50

Somewhere along the way, I have given him to believe that holding out gets him more treats.

I suspect that at some point in his training, he didn't get in for one treat, so you gave him another to try and encourage him up, and now he's figured out that he can "wait it out", so to speak.

If he knows that getting in = one treat but waiting it out = 20 treats, he's going to wait it out. It's even possible that he's learnt that he can wait for you to lift him in and he still gets a treat, lol.

I used to walk a collie who was more than capable of jumping in the car, but he'd wait to be lifted as a) he'd figured out that I didn't have the time to wait for him to jump on his own, and b) he was actually quite lazy, haha.

While I (generally) don't agree with lifting dogs unnecessarily, I do think in this scenario it may be the lesser of two evils.

EdithStourton · 27/05/2024 10:01

@Unluckycat1
Accusing people of posting ‘ridiculous’ things is not perhaps the best way to conduct a civil discussion. But to respond to your points, though not in the same order as you made them:

PAIN
Under the guidance of a trainer, and having read a lot, listened to a lot, watched a fair bit, I habituated my dogs to wearing the collars for two or three weeks without using them, because I didn’t want them to connect the collar to the sensation - I want to be able to fade the collars and not use them again. Then, with the trainer, I found the ‘working level’: the lowest level to which the dog will react to the collar.

By ‘react’ I don’t mean ‘jump six feet into the air in terror’. I mean react in any way - twitch an ear as if a fly has landed, glance curiously downwards as if wondering where this odd feeling has come from. This is why I can confidently say that at low levels the collars do not hurt my dogs. I know how they react when they are in pain. I know how the low levels feel to me, and they seem to feel very similar to the dogs. That’s why I strongly suspect that the stronger shocks feel much the same to them as they do to me. I am very reluctant to use stronger shocks on them, as the sensation is without a doubt unpleasant and at the highest levels painful. But less painful than being hit by a car or shot by a farmer or laid open by a muntjac. And as I have already said, I use positive reinforcement loads, and I had got a long way with my older dog using it to counter chasing. But… hares.

I then taught the dogs how to escape the sensation. I introduced it at the working level, called the dog, and the second she responded, turned it off. I did this enough times that both dogs understood that this peculiar tingly feeling stopped the split second that they responded to me.

That was before I ever used the collars out in the wild.

FEAR
There’s one poster on here saying their high prey drive dog (dogs?) can see all the prey that used to send them into chase mode, and they ignore them now. Surely that just means they associate the prey with pain? Pain bad enough that it overrides their strong natural instincts.
That was me. All I can say to that is that my dogs still hunt just as keenly as they used to. The two of them were stalking rabbits the other day, but they didn’t chase. They didn't chase rabbits this morning either, when DH took them out without the collars on. When they saw the muntjac that I mentioned along the track, they were alert and interested, not suppressed and afraid. If they had looked frightened I would have questioned the use of the collars. But they didn’t.

One of them is slightly avoidant of sheep. Not so avoidant that she won’t walk past within a couple of feet, more a suspicious side-eye. She is terrified of swans, which has nothing to do with the e-collar but goes back to a swan that chased her around a pond, catching up with her and menacing her. She is not terrified of sheep. I can 100% tell the difference. She won’t walk past swans, even on-lead and on the other side of me at 6 or 8 feet away. She will walk past sheep off-lead, within a few feet, without me in between.

how exactly do shock collar advocates think they work?
They work like any other aversive: the dog associates an unpleasant event with a certain thing or behaviour. I daresay that you’ve burned yourself on a frying pan or similar at some point in your life. You don’t live in mortal fear of the frying pan and have a flight-or-fight response every time you see one. You just know what to do to avoid the unpleasant sensation. A well-conditioned e-collar response is the same. My dogs know that chasing is the thing that brings the sensation.

They also know that a low-level stim is like a quiet ‘no’. It’s a reminder. It cuts through their fixation in a way that a voice does not. They respond, and they are rewarded.

But I feel confident that introducing fear (or 'threat of pain' if you'd prefer) into every walk and then claiming you've increased your dog's happiness is disingenuous to the extreme.
I can see why you would think that. But if you were to see my dogs (and all the others that I know) you’d see that the dogs understand where the limits are, and that so long as they don’t break those limits, everything is fine. It’s a bit like driving: so long as you drive sensibly, you are at low risk of having an accident (you are not the only risk factor, so you can’t remove risk entirely). You don’t drive along shit scared every second. Sometimes you do something stupid and scare yourself. You know what to do to avoid that happening, so you stop being scared quite fast. It's contingent: you did something, it was bad, you were scared, you won't do it again. Blasting the dog with a random high-level shock is non-contingent, like someone roaring out of a side turning and t-boning you. That is likely to cause ongoing concern or fear, and that is why randomly blasting a dog with an e-collar is a very, very bad idea and downright abusive IMHO.

My dogs are not ‘afraid on their daily walks’ (pm me and come along on one if you like). In fact, I used to think e-collars were terrible things, just as you do, and I began to change my mind when I saw a friend putting one on his dog. To her, the collar meant nothing but good things: she was wildly excited, couldn’t wait to get out of the truck: the collar meant a chance to hunt (but not chase). Did she associate the collar with a stim? I don’t know, perhaps not, but she DID associate it with prey animals, and the freedom to run, within limits.

Could I have avoided using an e-collar if I'd been a better trainer? I'd say probably yes with my older dog, and perhaps no with the younger one. I know people who have trained several dogs to an extremely high standard and never needed an e-collar (a repeat field trial winner, one of them) suddenly find that they have a dog for whom none of their tried and tested methods works and end up using an e-collar to keep the dog safe.

Have I fucked my dogs up? 100% no: the younger one has really come into herself this past year. Are my dogs afraid on walks? Again, no. My dogs have far more freedom than they otherwise would, and they’re not scared.

I don't expect to convince you.